Life all about kids

[Newporagadu]

Life has changed a lot these days … eppudu chusina kids chutu tiruguthundhi… I used to play  cricket a lot every weekend till 2021 .. now stopped everything,,, we  just take care of kids activities…kids age 8 & 6 both boys …I am older 30 so naku life vundali kadha ani some time i ignore their activities and go for playing volleyball or so … says daddy today we missed this class ani ..okkasari adhi vennagane I feel like am I doing wrong ?… not taking care of kids anipisthundhi and guilty feel avuthuna…  which is killing me inside..

[Spartan]

apt name anna...

[psycopk]

yes you should feel guilty... inka kurra valla tho cricket bokka endi vayya.. enana unte weekend vellu.. weekdays focus on kids..vallaki inko 5-6yrs unte nee moham kuda chudaru

[EyBisa]

okkasari kids osthey anthe vuntadhi bro 

they come first 

[Kakynada]

oh ok

[PizzaReddy]

[Thokkalee]

6 hours ago, Newporagadu said:

Life has changed a lot these days … eppudu chusina kids chutu tiruguthundhi… I used to play  cricket a lot every weekend till 2021 .. now stopped everything,,, we  just take care of kids activities…kids age 8 & 6 both boys …I am older 30 so naku life vundali kadha ani some time i ignore their activities and go for playing volleyball or so … says daddy today we missed this class ani ..okkasari adhi vennagane I feel like am I doing wrong ?… not taking care of kids anipisthundhi and guilty feel avuthuna…  which is killing me inside..

Why do you have so many classes for your kids? They are just 6 and 8.. 

[Peddayana]

idhe athi ante, some people make kids go to tons of activities, every single day and then complain they do not have time, kids are exhausted, parents are exhausted, no energy left to do anything else

whats the point? you only have yourself to blame for this misery

why don't you make them go to just 1 or 2 activities they like , atleast Fridays and weekend etc anna no classes pettuko, Friday evening kooda ee Kumon, tennis etc antu classes pothe jeevitham meedha chiraku vastundi

also have some 'me' time everyday, like 1 hr to do your stuff, wife should be able to cover for your during this time

similarly, also give your wife some break for an hour sothat she is also not overwhelmed

[Newporagadu]

On 3/21/2024 at 1:24 AM, Peddayana said:

idhe athi ante, some people make kids go to tons of activities, every single day and then complain they do not have time, kids are exhausted, parents are exhausted, no energy left to do anything else

whats the point? you only have yourself to blame for this misery

why don't you make them go to just 1 or 2 activities they like , atleast Fridays and weekend etc anna no classes pettuko, Friday evening kooda ee Kumon, tennis etc antu classes pothe jeevitham meedha chiraku vastundi

also have some 'me' time everyday, like 1 hr to do your stuff, wife should be able to cover for your during this time

similarly, also give your wife some break for an hour sothat she is also not overwhelmed

Bro we didn’t join kumon lante pichi things enroll avvadhu and we didn’t enroll more just 2 activities which are interested…ev

[lollilolli2020]

4 minutes ago, Newporagadu said:

Bro we didn’t join kumon lante pichi things enroll avvadhu and we didn’t enroll more just 2 activities which are interested…ev

nuvve cricket kit set chesi mee poragallatoh every weekend adochu gaa; 
serious ga 20-20 match lu aadi em velagapedthav;  

[lollilolli2020]

On 3/20/2024 at 5:56 PM, Newporagadu said:

Life has changed a lot these days … eppudu chusina kids chutu tiruguthundhi… I used to play  cricket a lot every weekend till 2021 .. now stopped everything,,, we  just take care of kids activities…kids age 8 & 6 both boys …I am older 30 so naku life vundali kadha ani some time i ignore their activities and go for playing volleyball or so … says daddy today we missed this class ani ..okkasari adhi vennagane I feel like am I doing wrong ?… not taking care of kids anipisthundhi and guilty feel avuthuna…  which is killing me inside..

how hard is it to set their schedule so that they don't miss their activities and you don't miss yours ?

weekend cricket ante both saturdays and sundays unavailable vuntava ?? 
 

[Vaaaampire]

Its life cycle. Another 7-8 yrs for them to be independent. Appativaraku kids should be top priority. 
 

or u can pair up with some other parent. Okka class ki vallu thisukelletattu. Inko class ki nuvvu

[perugu_vada]

kids activities ani mundhu parents take so much pressure by placing them in so many after-school activities .. which is not needed at all .. mana ki time unchukovali .. ledante rojantha road meedha ne undaalsi ostundi

[baabaa]

18 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

kids activities ani mundhu parents take so much pressure by placing them in so many after-school activities .. which is not needed at all .. mana ki time unchukovali .. ledante rojantha road meedha ne undaalsi ostundi

Weekend kids sports/activities pettakonda if we go for cricket, problem is kids will start doing iPad/TV the whole weekend. Ade valu vala activities lo busy unte they will keep physically running. 
Nothing wrong with either one of them just that manaki emi kavali ani. We have ppl who have back to back kids activities on weekend and others who just leave kids/wife at home for cricket weekend and inti lo pillalu tv/ipad chusta untaru.

Once boys start growing up if you don’t put them in sports Roblox lanti chetta start chestaru. 

[LungiLingaraju]

Mari neeku 22 years unnapud evadu vayya kids ni kanamannadi… 30 old ante Etla saar..