kompalokumpati Posted February 24 Author Report Posted February 24 6 minutes ago, Bulls_Rose said: Define 'sukam ledu' I bet you never have answer for that. Lafoot depression posts!!! Anthe happiness kante, thoughts are always in the past. parents, grandparents zamana etc. RRR lanti cinemas effect aa or not socializing enough aa or get motorcycles and convertibles and edho pikaniki try cheyalna? Andarki idhi normal aa or is everyone just trying to make those 50M like one of the bros said above? Quote
appusri Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 1 minute ago, kompalokumpati said: India vellipoina wallu akkada adjust avaleka malli 1-2-3 years time frames lo wapas sachinattu vachi ani restart from scratch chesthunaru anta kadha? Return ravadam gurunchi I don't know. But we can't get everything everywhere. We need to see the trade-off. In earlier days money and better living standards kosam ani vaccham US ki. Ippudu India Vs US earning gap thaggindhi, living standards kooda not bad. Plenty of good places with gated communities with good living standards. But that social life India Vs US gap thaggaledhu and especially once the existential crisis hits you, its like chronic depression which you can't take it out of your mind. If you have GC/Citizenship, happy ga vellamani cheptha. Quote
no01 Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 42 minutes ago, saravamnene said: ee spirituality manchitanam bokka boshanam no body cares. Keep an impossible goal in life and chase it. Aim for 50 million dollars. Aim for owing a private jet. Aim for owing a rolls royce. Even if you achieve 20% of it you will be better than so much of the population. Iyyani kaadu ante mee oorlo temple untadi kada..poi service chesko..manchitanam ane musugu eskuni batuku laaginchei One last option. Empty your bank balance to zero.Automatic ga seriousness ade vastadi purposely evaru intha daring pani cheyyaru...that too 40's lo ki vachaka life will start becoming more delicate. Ee age lo empty aithe, malli refill cheyyataaniki peddaga time ledu. 60 ki retirement anedi just 401K/IRA etc kosame....otherwise now a days, if given a chance 45 - 50 ke retire aipodam annattu unnaru janalu. Majority of us are getting bored with this desk jobs and same time we dont know what to do otherwise. 2 Quote
no01 Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 Just now, no01 said: purposely evaru intha daring pani cheyyaru...that too 40's lo ki vachaka life will start becoming more delicate. Ee age lo empty aithe, malli refill cheyyataaniki peddaga time ledu. 60 ki retirement anedi just 401K/IRA etc kosame....otherwise now a days, if given a chance 45 - 50 ke retire aipodam annattu unnaru janalu. Majority of us are getting bored with this desk jobs and same time we dont know what to do otherwise. also 40's lo frequent heart attacks/cardiac arrest or cancer threat chaala undi....so too much stress kuda not good. But ala ani easy peasy ga vellatam kuda not good....always aim for higer kani watch out for our health as well Quote
no01 Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 40's ki vachaka most imp and highest priority is aging parents in India. I know how it will be if we loose one parent (lost my dad in recent months due to heart attack). Life long ah guilt untadi that I should have spent more time, should've done this n that etc etc to parents. rest of the things lo 2nd imp one is our personal health....paina cheppinattu 40's lo chaala mandhi affect avthunnaru....so we have to keep our health check on track so that when we are in 50's, 60's and 70's..we should be able to travel and enjoy our life. I am seeing some 50's uncle who are having difficulty going on small trek's or doing some small physical activities Vs thellollu 50's lo picha picha activites chesthunnaru during vacations. So i feel we should be closer to that so that when Kids go to college and start building their personal life....we should be able to travel and enjoy that retirement life. Lekapothe inka enduku ee life 2 Quote
RPGPulka Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 1 hour ago, kompalokumpati said: Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc. Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu. Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement, What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz? you living in old indian customs don't spend time on IT jobs and pellam . gf ni maintain chesuko @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU tolded. Quote
RPGPulka Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 42 minutes ago, kompalokumpati said: India vellipoina wallu akkada adjust avaleka malli 1-2-3 years time frames lo wapas sachinattu vachi ani restart from scratch chesthunaru anta kadha? who tolded anna nuvvu Us lo puttinattu kathal mingakku . ekaada nundi vachinavu ani nee pillalu and pellam ki chepu vinnakapothe vadili 10gay Quote
nag Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 1 hour ago, kompalokumpati said: India vellipoina wallu akkada adjust avaleka malli 1-2-3 years time frames lo wapas sachinattu vachi ani restart from scratch chesthunaru anta kadha? ekkada vunnam ani kaadu bro.. what you are doing matters. You are trapped in the box. Come out of the box and take a look at the box. you will get all the answers clarified Quote
Roger_that Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 how much savings you have total... calculate your net worth... including all your assets, savings, retirement funds, real estate and take off your liabilities. then calculate your monthly expenses wherever you want to stay next 20-30 years. expeses*25 chei.. aa money nee networth lo unte... retire aipo. (ready to sell most of them to generate fixed monthly passive income..this is crucial step) just play a sport, work out, read a book, take a car roam around, eat healthy. meet people die. Quote
tokkalogola Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 2 hours ago, kompalokumpati said: Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc. Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu. Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement, What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz? Oka sari job stop cheyamanu ... all holes musukoni all problems potayi ... then they will only have financial problem appudu migitavi chinnaga anipistayi 😊 1 Quote
Vuncle_penkul Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 Find something that makes you happy. Life after 40s is hard enough. I have the same challenges as you do. But I am trying to look for small victories by finding an activity that interests me and a community around that. You can also try to learn new things. Learning, doing something that makes you happy, and helping a few people are all activities that can help you. In the end, we all have to find our own paths to happiness. Good luck! Quote
krishnaaa Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 3 hours ago, kompalokumpati said: Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc. Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu. Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement, What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz? I am leaving US....not worth it here. People have inertia. I don't. Quote
Ara_Tenkai Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 3 hours ago, kompalokumpati said: Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc. Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu. Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement, What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz? nuvvu lucky bro... 40+ ki vachayi ee thoughts... naku 30+ ke vachesayi... illu kuda konale inka... 1 Quote
ARYA Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 1 hour ago, Roger_that said: how much savings you have total... calculate your net worth... including all your assets, savings, retirement funds, real estate and take off your liabilities. then calculate your monthly expenses wherever you want to stay next 20-30 years. expeses*25 chei.. aa money nee networth lo unte... retire aipo. (ready to sell most of them to generate fixed monthly passive income..this is crucial step) just play a sport, work out, read a book, take a car roam around, eat healthy. meet people die. Just now, ARYA said: #AFDBlolliCONFESSIONS Quote
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