k2s Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Hi , I regularly read the forums to see how others ILS are tackling their problems in day to day life. Friends,I am sure you will tell me a right solution for my problem. I am married for the past 6 years and I stay abroad away from my inlaws. My inlaws stay away from us. My husband doesnot send money to his parents. If they ask him he replies saying that they didn't pay his exam fees. I am not working as my profession doesnot allow me to work- I need t write exams. Coming to my inlaws,they have only one son and they are pensioners. Issues bothering me reg my MIL: My MIL has a dog at home which she cares like her own daughter. The problem is she washes the dog's bowl with the kitchen utensils. I don't feel like eating @ all in her house. Since Its her house and I stay for a short period,I let it go. The dog has cancer and it suffers from urinary incontinence and passes urine everyday which my MIL cleans. It also vomits inside the house. Since I don't have children and also my relationship is not good with my husband-My husband is very abusive,my MIL said that if they would have got my husband married to other girl who was a prospective alliance may be things would have been right. She said that she had 2 porn CDS which got mixed with music CDS when se handed over to her sister's daughters when they visited her from abroad. She also said that it was given to her by her cousin. According to me,Possessing porn CDS is a taboo as I come from a different background. She always says that she wanted a DIL who is modern and traditional. My FIL- Highly abusive,irresponsible,calls my MIL a xxxxx in front of me,Alcoholic and chain smokers. Hurts others easily- he said to me"who will eat yur leatherychapathi" as I am not well versed in making chapathis. Always speaks ill of my MIL'S family. if I say to them my problems with my husband,My FIL will blame my MIL'S siblings saying that they brought my husband and viceversa. I regret marrying in to this family as I come from a conservative and teetotaller family. Plz tell me your views. Will you take care of such inlaws? Am I being too immature Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cinema pichodu Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 !@: !@: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sastrygaru Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Mottham Family Famil antha .. Landaasur.. kompa laa undhee.. [img]http://andhrawatch.com/gifs/var/resizes/Brahmi-Gifs--2/210d74z.gif?m=1321428385[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irritation Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 asalu problem endi uncul.......[img]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vXer8MQYZrM/T1jw_Q2juqI/AAAAAAAAB_g/Upm7DId5ox0/s1600/brahmi+laugh.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darling999 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 ee MIL endi FIL endi DIL endi....ee Lolli endi assalu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sastrygaru Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [quote name='DARLING...' timestamp='1337625833' post='1301837555'] ee MIL endi FIL endi DIL endi....ee Lolli endi assalu [/quote] Mother in law.. Father in law.. Dil ante Daughter in law neemo..[img]http://andhrawatch.com/gifs/var/resizes/Brahmi-Gifs--2/210d74z.gif?m=1321428385[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cinema pichodu Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1337625958' post='1301837562'] Mother in law.. Father in law.. Dil ante Daughter in law neemo..[img]http://andhrawatch.com/gifs/var/resizes/Brahmi-Gifs--2/210d74z.gif?m=1321428385[/img] [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ganesh Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 time ki padtledu anta...adee food [img]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vXer8MQYZrM/T1jw_Q2juqI/AAAAAAAAB_g/Upm7DId5ox0/s1600/brahmi+laugh.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2s Posted May 21, 2012 Author Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [img]http://andhrawatch.com/gifs/var/resizes/Brahmi-Gifs--2/210d74z.gif?m=1321428385[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotnetrockz Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 story endhi kitchen matter nunchi sambandham lekunda bulugu bommala midhaki poyindhi...[img]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vXer8MQYZrM/T1jw_Q2juqI/AAAAAAAAB_g/Upm7DId5ox0/s1600/brahmi+laugh.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlestar Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 ee case neeke ..Homework ga appagisthunna... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaffanajeffada Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1337625958' post='1301837562'] Mother in law.. Father in law.. Dil ante Daughter in law neemo..[img]http://andhrawatch.com/gifs/var/resizes/Brahmi-Gifs--2/210d74z.gif?m=1321428385[/img] [/quote] problems lo dog-in-law kooda undhi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartan Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 anduke ikkada ammailaki septa...IL forum follow avvakadni ani.. basic human instinct enti ante.....DB or edaian forum manam fiollow avutunnam ..and akkada edava postings vesaru anukondi.. we try to conenct with them..and out of anxiety..start thinking if such things are happening or not in our lives ani...mainly ladies ki alanti dola ekkvua..so aagadu ga.. so chinna problems ni peddaga highlight chesi one sided ga alochinchela tayaravutaru... in my view..IL shud ban such perosnal troubles and postings..rather encourage help them in getting jobs..or make learn some thing new.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anta Assamey Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337635934' post='1301838740'] anduke ikkada ammailaki septa...IL forum follow avvakadni ani.. basic human instinct enti ante.....DB or edaian forum manam fiollow avutunnam ..and akkada edava postings vesaru anukondi.. we try to conenct with them..and out of anxiety..start thinking if such things are happening or not in our lives ani...mainly ladies ki alanti dola ekkvua..so aagadu ga.. so chinna problems ni peddaga highlight chesi one sided ga alochinchela tayaravutaru... in my view..IL shud ban such perosnal troubles and postings..rather encourage help them in getting jobs..or make learn some thing new.... [/quote] Neeku Multiple personality disorder vundi.... [img]http://i47.tinypic.com/4s086h.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2s Posted May 21, 2012 Author Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 [quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337635934' post='1301838740'] anduke ikkada ammailaki septa...IL forum follow avvakadni ani.. basic human instinct enti ante.....DB or edaian forum manam fiollow avutunnam ..and akkada edava postings vesaru anukondi.. we try to conenct with them..and out of anxiety..start thinking if such things are happening or not in our lives ani...mainly ladies ki alanti dola ekkvua..so aagadu ga.. so chinna problems ni peddaga highlight chesi one sided ga alochinchela tayaravutaru... in my view..IL shud ban such perosnal troubles and postings..rather encourage help them in getting jobs..or make learn some thing new.... [/quote]sarlee [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.sarle_.gif?1302963471[/img] unna okka timepass forum ni kuda mooseyamantav Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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