My Failed Arranged Marriage Interview, Story Complete

[mahesh1]

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[GULABJAM]

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[jamesbond]

[img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img] idi too much undi prati daniki nee expression bava

[jamesbond]

anyways manaki bontha ki dagga dontha ade dorukutundi le ekkado chota

[pavan_613]

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anyways manaki bontha ki dagga dontha ade dorukutundi le ekkado chota
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[narsayya]

asalu, ee story lo failure ekkada?

iddaru maatladukunnaru. Sid_22, u should get to know the girl more. She seems nice enough.

Oka meeting lo, oka past relationship undi anna point meeda reject chesthava?

manchi ammayi dorakatam antha easy kaadu. nuvvu kooda koncham thaggali

traditional ammayi kavalante, pallello poi vethukko.

[jamesbond]

[quote name='narsayya' timestamp='1375776487' post='1304071721']
asalu, ee story lo failure ekkada?

iddaru maatladukunnaru. Sid_22, u should get to know the girl more. She seems nice enough.

Oka meeting lo, oka past relationship undi anna point meeda reject chesthava?

manchi ammayi dorakatam antha easy kaadu. nuvvu kooda koncham thaggali

traditional ammayi kavalante, pallello poi vethukko.
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hehe nuvvu kompadeesi aa ammai relative va baa [img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HuMmQnVxrdE/UaG0dkNYqXI/AAAAAAAAGUo/0qqK6nzWaVY/s1600/brahmi-thala-badudu.gif[/img]

[jamesbond]

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[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img] era ee nalladanni gokings

[rajivn786]

100k salary is ok in NY...anthakanta evadu istadu..unless u are in SAP or PM...deeniki 200k kavala..velli 35-40 yrs unde Project manager ni chesukomanu...2nd setup kinda pettukuntadu ani cheppalsindi bhayya..Mugguru tho padukundi...U took a right decision in rejecting this girl man...Hopefully u will find a good girl...One suggestion...Search for girls in India..Atleast they will be slightly better than US girls...but it depends on the girl as well...My suggestion : Go for a lower middle class /middle class girl...90% will be good without any sort of relationships...Upper middle class or rich aithe aithe 50-50 bhayya..U don't know where u will end up with...But at the end of the day, U took the right decision...I'm happy for u man!!!

[techlover]

ammailu ilage vunnaru they just want requirements

western culture alavatu aindi.

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='narsayya' timestamp='1375776487' post='1304071721']
asalu, ee story lo failure ekkada?

iddaru maatladukunnaru. Sid_22, u should get to know the girl more. She seems nice enough.

Oka meeting lo, oka past relationship undi anna point meeda reject chesthava?

manchi ammayi dorakatam antha easy kaadu. nuvvu kooda koncham thaggali

traditional ammayi kavalante, pallello poi vethukko.
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Sid bhayya ki virgin kavali.....

first meeting lo salary adagatam....and née salary takkuva ani point out cheyadam correct antavaa?

[narsayya]

[quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1375793876' post='1304072230']
Sid bhayya ki virgin kavali.....

first meeting lo salary adagatam....and née salary takkuva ani point out cheyadam correct antavaa?
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that's why I said, ee arranged marriage meetings are all awkward, both for the guy and the girl.

How do you talk to a stranger, really? What are the topics which you can touch?

It took me about 3 months, and about 50 dates of fooling around talking absolute nonsense with a girl, before we got to ask each other our age. We are getting married next year. And I know that she has slept around while she was younger. I'd be surprised if she hadn't.

Most important thing is, are you comfortable with her. Sex, you can have with anyone for a few hundred dollars.

The reality is, its not hard for a gorgeous girl to find a $200k+ guy. Most often they balance money with good looks and a decent man. When we won't settle for below average girl, it's not fair to hope they lower their expectations.

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='narsayya' timestamp='1375795941' post='1304072307']
that's why I said, ee arranged marriage meetings are all awkward, both for the guy and the girl.

[size=6][b]How do you talk to a stranger, really? What are the topics which you can touch?[/b][/size]

It took me about 3 months, and about 50 dates of fooling around talking absolute nonsense with a girl, before we got to ask each other our age. We are getting married next year. And I know that she has slept around while she was younger. I'd be surprised if she hadn't.

Most important thing is, are you comfortable with her. Sex, you can have with anyone for a few hundred dollars.

The reality is, its not hard for a gorgeous girl to find a $200k+ guy. Most often they balance money with good looks and a decent man. When we won't settle for below average girl, it's not fair to hope they lower their expectations.
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interests, hangouts, hobbies, etc....

ofcourse arranged marriage antene calculation....but maree antha straight ga neeku takkuva vasthundi ani cheppatam humiliating kadaa...that too in the very first meeting

past relationships undatam chala common....that girl is very honest in admitting

[gandhi]

na lanti ammayakulani tokki dengutaremo e porilu......................

[kaNTRi_Tommy]

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[size=6]1st PART[/size]

[size=5]Ee story lo unnavi rendu patralu[/size]
[size=5]Naa peru [color=#ff0000]sid_22[/color][/size]

[size=5]Fafa peru [color=#ff0000]fafa[/color][/size]

[size=5]Parents 2 weeks back match email chesaru, she is distinct relative of one of my uncle…… fafa baaguntadi naaku set avutundi ani uncle set chesadu…… valla parents ki naa data nachithe valla fafa details naak forward chesaru through my uncle….[/size]


[size=5][b]Fafa description[/b][/size]
[size=5]Born and brought up in Banjara hills, Hyderabad……….. Ee fafa ki oka elder sister undanta….. Married and living in US……[/size]

[size=5]Fafa choodataniki shriya laa fair untadi (so avg color), good looking, height 5’7 untadi……. 3 years back US vachindi….. Just recently MS complete chesi……… ippudu full time job chestundi (ee company lo 3 months intern chesindi during MS….. company vallaki nachi full time offer icharanta MS complete ayyinaka)……. Adhi matter…….[/size]

[size=5]Fafa ni tana place lo meet avvaneeki………. 2 weeks back fafa ki email chesanu....... Hi this is sid_22 so and so ani……. Can I call u tonight annanu…….. Yes anytime after 8PM ani reply ichindi….[/size]

[size=5]Phone chesanu 8:15 PM ki[/size]


[size=5]Sid_22: Hi fafa this is sid_22[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: Hey, how u doing???[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: I’m good, nuvvu ela unnav.[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: As usual, boring life..... nothing special….. Dad talked to me regarding about you and forwarded me ur data…. I’m glad u made the first move and that’s how a man should be (Fake American accent lo)……[/size]
[size=5]So where are you located now.[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: nenu currently ikkada NJ lo untunna……… nuvvu florida kada, cool place to settle there anna.[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: I love florida everything from weather, beaches to people…… good you like florida as well.[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: manasulo (idi manchu lachmi [/size][img]http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/818007/manchu-lakshmi-o.gif[/img][size=5] chelli laa undi) Deenini anavasaramga engli piece lo kelikane anukunna…[/size][img]http://midwestmovies.us/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Brahmi_dc-1.gif[/img][size=5].. ika donga tirugu matalu enduku ani direct matter loki ellipoyina[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: I want to meet you in person…. Neeku next weekend busy aa……[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: Busy??? Its been months since I have been busy…. You are free to comeby anytime during weekend.[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: [/size][img]http://midwestmovies.us/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Brahmi_dc-1.gif[/img][size=5] Ok….. then nenu next weekend teeskunta ticket to florida…... We will decide there….. Nee address email chestava[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: Sure I will….. thanks for your call.[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: thank you .[/size]


[size=5]Inka late cheyyakunda… aa night….

Ticket book cheskunna Saturday morning and return Sunday afternoon.[/size]


Remaining Story to be posted soon...... Check this space below for the update.

[size=6]2nd PART[/size]

[size=5]Fafa konchem over gaa matladutundi munduki vellela ani think chestunna……… but ilanti matters lo ekkuva think cheste….. ee janma ki manaki pelli kaadu ani……… lite teeskunna after all she was born and brought up in affluent class and HPS lo chadivindi…….. aa matram level untundi emo anukuni light teeskunna ee matter meeda.[/size]


[size=5]dress lu and shoes antha cheppuko dagga brand vi emi leka……weekend shopping ki vella……shoes, shirt and pant konukuni intiki vacheppatiki night 10 ayyindi…………morning malla work……..…. Aa fafa photo choosto dreams lo 4 duet lu veskune sariki 5 weekdays gadichipoindi…………. Friday evening work ayyinaka intiki vachi baggage pack chesukuni…….. relax ayyina Netflix lo edo movie pettukuni…….. edo lopala oka tension repu em avutundo…… ee fafa ayyina naa future wife avutunda leda emo ani…….. night sarigga nidra pattaledu okate tension lopala……… padukune sariki 3 AM ayyindi.[/size]


[size=5]Flight miss ayyitadi emo ani….. 3 alarms pettukunna…….. time ki lecha….. fresh up ayyi………. Challo Florida.[/size]
[size=5]Arrived in Florida…… noon ayyindi…… akkada nundi rental car teeskuni…….. airport daggara hotel room teeskuni malla inko sari bath chesi fresh up ayyi……… last week konna battalu veskunna… Now I’m ready for the biggest interview of my life…[/size]

[size=5]GPS lo fafa address feed chesi…30 mins travel time vachindi from hotel ki….. fafa ki call chesa……. Hey sid_22 here…….. ippude bayalu deranu……. 15-20 mins lo mee address daggara untanu…….. then will go somehwhere outside to talk.[/size]

[size=5]Finally reached the destination……… aa apartments ki security gate undi…….. so lopalaki vellaledu……. so fafa ki call chesa……..[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: hey, I’m waiting at your entrance I mean outside the security gate……….. bayataki vacheyyi……..[/size]
[size=5]Fafa: 5 mins I’ll be there.[/size]
[size=5]Sid_22: NP[/size]
[size=5]5 mins okkoka sec oka hour kinda feel ayyina………. Okate tension lopala car ekkinaka em matladala ani………..[/size]

[size=5]Finally Security gate nundi oka desi fafa bayataki vachindi with slim-fit half jeans and red shirt…… [/size]
[size=5]Car nundi bayataki digi…….. Hi ani handshake icha….....tana smooth hands touch chesesariki.....naa body lo edo oka current flow ayinattu ayyindi…… front passenger door open chesi fafa ni have a seat ani cheppa.[/size]

[size=5]Iddaram car lo kurchunnam………. Fafa tho I don’t know much about this place……. Ikkada good places emi unnayi……. Outside weekend time spend cheyyataniki ani adigina……….. fafa oka place cheppindi………. Shall we go there……… it’s a popular destination to have fun……… restaurants kooda baaguntay………. You will like it andi.[/size]

[size=5]20 Mins travel time…….. daarilo eyyo small talk…… nothing serious.[/size]

[size=5]Akkadiki vellinaka car park chesi konchepu walk chesam tarvata tana favorite restaurant ki teeskapoyindi nannu………… ee motham time lo questions vachinavi[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: So what are your future plans? And neeku ikkada nachinda or India ki vellipodamani plan aa say like 10 years later[/size]

[size=5]Fafa: I’m not a planner…….. We don’t know what will happen to us tomorrow……. Why worry about something in the future.[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: lopala naa reaction malli [/size]

[size=5]Fafa : India antava……. I don’t think I’ll leave US pretty soon…….. unless some drastic changes takes place in my life……….. what about you???do you like living here[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: yes….. so far good…5 years plan ayyithe ikkada US lo undamane plan…. 10 years tarvata cheppalenu……. Friends or cousins baaga unnara neeku ikkada US lo……… em chestav free time lo[/size]

[size=5]Fafa: friends unnaru and cousins ikkada close by leru……… some of them are CA and some in east coast.[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: what are thoughts on marriage and em expect chestunav from your future life partner[/size]

[size=5]Fafa: Should always treat me with respect and never curse on me when we have different opinion or tastes……… I’m independent so I need privacy…….. nannu general gaa evarayyina kopam tho forcible gaa adhi cheyyodhu ante……… I’ll do it to piss him off………. So I need love and respect at all times……… no negotiations on these two.[/size]

[size=5]Sid_22: naa mind block…[/size][img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img][size=5]….. ee stroke ki nenu adagalsina questions marchipoya[/size].

[size=5]fafa: what are you expecting in a wife....

sid_22: Nothing much........ intlo ela unna bayata family circle like parents, cousins, friends, etc lo matram respectable gaa undali......nenu cheppina maata vinali atleast outside.................intlo naa maata sometimes vinakapoyina parvaledu.....I can keep up with that........nenu roju taagi vachi wife ni kotte type em kaadu........I like to keep my place peaceful......... not arrogant or abusive character.

fafa: How many matches did you see before me.......

sid_22: three.......

fafa: why did you reject them.

sid_22: different personalities set kaaledu..... too demanding and money minded.

fafa: Not suprised........... we girls give priority to money because we need financial security........ we don't want rest of our life to live on month to month paycheck......... good money untene kada life smooth gaa velledi........... you must not look at them like they are selfish or money minded.........

BTW my current salary is $70K............ how much do you earn per year..... just want to know........ do you have any assets in India......... if yes give me a rough estimate........... My dad is in real estate business........... he is wealthy enough to be considered "rich".


sid_22: [img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img] nuvvu questions adigi tirigi naake class peekutunava anukunna lopala.

My salary is below $100K and above $80K anna.......... my dad too has some lands in and around hyd and some in coastal andhra pradesh area anna.

Fafa: Wow living in NY area and earning less than 100K.........not worth it right...... salary is very less when you compare to the avg NYC standard of living......

Ok....... Did you have any failed relationships before...... if yes how many.

sid_22: [img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img]....lopala anukunna.......... enni failed relationships ente.... idemmanna exam fail avvatam anukunna........... bajaru L@nja..... nuvvu entha manditho thengichu kunnavo cheppu mundi............. naakaithe shock la meeda shock......... idi adige questions and answers ki

Nenu direct gaa cheppesa...... I have girl friends, but was never in a relationship before..... I'm a virgin annanu


Fafa: r u kidding me???? plz tell me this is a joke

sid_22: lopala anukunna idi joke ente chillara m'nda.

I told her I'm serious......... how many relationships are you in ani adiga.

Fafa: I will be honest with you............... one in India and second in India & US........... first one was only for few months........... and second one lasted for 3 years................ I'm trying to get out of this.............. I promise I'll be faithful to my husband.

sid_22: nee promise evadiki kaavale talli.........ottu teesi gattu meeda pettaneeki nimisham pattadu anukunna lopala........ [img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img][img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img][img]http://isamrat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Cropped-Brahmi-shock.gif[/img]


Mood motham dengindi deentho........... inka evo chillar questions vesi......time gadipanu..... lastly told her......... I'll decide about this and tell my family ani........... moham meeda chepthe baagundadu ani ila cheppa.





So this is my experience......... enno hopes pettukuni vellanu........... chivariki velli chooste naligipoyina puvvu dorikindi.......... wtf is wrong with today girls................. asala enduku ila untunnaro ardam ayyitaledu........... chi denemma brathuku.......tella ammailaki mana vallaki teda lekunda poyindi......[/size][img]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4fBQjg7ODRk/UYYniWoPDqI/AAAAAAAAEXM/rDZV3CJPmE4/s1600/brahmi16.gif[/img]
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MAnchi ammayi ni chusi love chesi chesko.. arranged marg ante naligina puvvule.. ala ani love aithe fresh ani cheppalenu