Do you plan for kids or just ala jarigipovalanukuntara?

[BostonBullodu]

9 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Compatibility undi vedipomu ane confidence vachaka pillalni kanali anedi my point of view so good to wait for a while though planning kids is also not a concept i approve of. Kids need both mom and dad so its better to think twice before bringing them into world. 

On a separate note bonding emotionally with spouse is important in early marriage i would like to wait and travel with him (doesn't have to be places) before i have kids .

ma lanti balugu balahina vargala vallaki dictionary lo kuda kanapadavu alanti padalu may be rich people thinking emo adii 

[BostonBullodu]

10 minutes ago, Spartan said:

First one always in flow..second one gets planning...  @k2s @psycopk

back then bhayya adi neti tharam youth asalu pelli ayina first year kalisi kuda undatledu... diff diff states lo working if both are working... 

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

ma lanti balugu balahina vargala vallaki dictionary lo kuda kanapadavu alanti padalu may be rich people thinking emo adii 

Kottukoni chavakunda kasta kalisuntam ane nammakam which is typical middle class thought. 

[InSearch]

2 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

back then bhayya adi neti tharam youth asalu pelli ayina first year kalisi kuda undatledu... diff diff states lo working if both are working... 

alaa unnapudu pregnant ayite inka majaa vastaademo,..

[BostonBullodu]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Kottukoni chavakunda kasta kalisuntam ane nammakam which is typical middle class thought. 

what if compatibility doesn't meet after kids are born 

[Amrita]

Just now, BostonBullodu said:

what if compatibility doesn't meet after kids are born 

Kharma anubhavinchadame. What's in our control at that point? Adjust compromise ayye attitude unte both should try to do that at least for kids. Adi ledu kadu anukunte anubhavinchadame not just them but also kids. 

[LadiesTailor]

flow lo ayupothe vaadu lucky fellow... but better take some time before having kids man... new generation lo girls ki boys ki compatability issues ekkuva ayyayu... adi set ayyaka kante better...

[Kalam_Youtheman]

1 hour ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

I suggest you have one kid right after marriage and then plan for more based on the above variables 

if so oka 5-6 yrs torture a lol

[sattipandu]

25 minutes ago, Spartan said:

First one always in flow..second one gets planning...  @k2s @psycopk

nee yenkamma emannaa naaaa 

cheers sodara , same boat 

[Spartan]

7 minutes ago, sattipandu said:

nee yenkamma emannaa naaaa 

cheers sodara , same boat 

thats the rule...ledu ante compatibility, settlement anukunta time waste...

pillalki time saripodu parents to..enni rojul bratukutamo telvad....so better get one as early as possible...and decide about affordability, compatibility for second one...

 

[sattipandu]

korika theeeeraaaa Denghukunnaka appudu pillalu plan cheyyandi 

i suggest 3-4 yrs after marriage should be good to go thru all sorts of debauchery 

then mutually talk it out and take out the IUD (mirena) then go for a relaxing vacation like Hawaii (after female cycles normalize takes 4-5 months)

JAI BALLAYYA

[Anta Assamey]

30 minutes ago, Spartan said:

First one always in flow..second one gets planning...  @k2s @psycopk

[Spartan]

Just now, Anta Assamey said:

next nuvve in line....

[Anta Assamey]

9 minutes ago, Spartan said:

next nuvve in line....

Yes in Line ...

[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, Anta Assamey said:

Yes in Line ...

   welcome to the club

 

PS: did u get the item.