Mommy feeling while leaving baby

[DesiPokiri]

Just now, riashli said:

Pillalu chakiri boledu..young ppl manage cheyalenidi, old ppl can do? Vallaki manakanna energy ekkuva untunda? Grandparents noru terichi chepparu anthe.. post delivery help is fine, endukante experience of them helps, aa tarvatha kuda vallu manaki chakiri cheyali ante ela..inka vallaki rest eppudu

Ani neeku aa video lo unna ammai valla parents cheppara? Maybe their parents want to enjoy quality time with grandkids emo kadha, many grandparents love that. Are you that girls neighbor ?

[Thokkalee]

8 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Am still single baa.. but aa hatred comments chusi respond ayya. 
 

But yeah I don’t like the concept of living for kids all our lives by killing our life, live and let live is my policy and that is different story anuko.

It is not hatred.. it is basically their selfish nature... people are treating their parents as maids when they come here to US... and this is another level where they leave their kids in India to save money on daycare.. 

if you have kids, it is your responsibility.. you don’t have to live for them but you have to take care of them.. if they are not your responsibility, how are your parents responsible ?? 

post pregnancy care is fine as the mothers are very weak during that time... and they require mothers support... but this is pure selfishness...

[Rushabhi]

29 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Too much of bitching happening on this thread. 
 

evadi life vadidhi vaa, pillalakosame life antha bathukuthu sacchipovala one day?

maybe they want to enjoy their youth for a while emo and maybe their parents are lonely back in india and so they want their son to spend some time with their grandparents emo..

vallu ila undali, pillalani ikkade unchali ani inti pakkana uncle bitching lu aapandi va America ki vacchaka kuda..

 

Pillala Kosam lifelong brathakalsina avasaram ledhu. But at least vallu 17-18 years vache daaka especially very young age like toddlers laa unnappudu parents are very important. Oka small example oka kid ni valla grandparents daggara vadilesaru so they can concentrate on career. Oka 1 and half year ala vachaka. He had abandonment issues. Malli US vachaka he always wanted both parents before his eyes. Ala almost Oka 8 9 months. Tarvatha slow ga bayata pillala tho aadukovatam start chesadu after he felt confident that he is not sent anywhere. Kids need a stable environment. Either stay with parents or grandparents. That will shape how they can handle the world later. Most issues grownups have w.r.t character are because of how they were brought up. Pillalu vallu kavalani bhoomi meedha puttaledhi. Manam kante pudatharu. Vallani jagrathaga penchatam mana badhyatha. So yes at least until they grow up pillala kosame brathakali. Ala cheyaleva pillalni kanaku. It is a choice kadha now a days

[Iriswest]

37 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Too much of bitching happening on this thread. 
 

evadi life vadidhi vaa, pillalakosame life antha bathukuthu sacchipovala one day?

maybe they want to enjoy their youth for a while emo and maybe their parents are lonely back in india and so they want their son to spend some time with their grandparents emo..

vallu ila undali, pillalani ikkade unchali ani inti pakkana uncle bitching lu aapandi va America ki vacchaka kuda..

 

I would be devastated if my parents did that to me. India aithe enti US aithe enti? Parenting values maarakudadu. Ikkada puli ni chusi nakka vaatha pettukone type chala mandi. Ila videos teesi publicity isthe this a norm anukuntaru. That is what I am trying to discourage.

[DesiPokiri]

2 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

It is not hatred.. it is basically their selfish nature... people are treating their parents as maids when they come here to US... and this is another level where they leave their kids in India to save money on daycare.. 

if you have kids, it is your responsibility.. you don’t have to live for them but you have to take care of them.. if they are not your responsibility, how are your parents responsible ?? 

post pregnancy care is fine as the mothers are very weak during that time... and they require mothers support... but this is pure selfishness...

Baa I know some grandparents who want to leave their grandkids with them, so some couples do that as their parents will enjoy playing with grandkids..

moreover who are you to decide wats wrong with her life , it’s her life and her decisions , does she need your visa stamp or approval to come here ? 

[riashli]

14 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Ani neeku aa video lo unna ammai valla parents cheppara? Maybe their parents want to enjoy quality time with grandkids emo kadha, many grandparents love that. Are you that girls neighbor ?

Your kids...your responsibility 

Period

[Iriswest]

28 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Valla bed room lo em chesukuntaro neekendhuku.. Usa vacchaka kuda edhurinti vaadu bedroom lo em chesthunnadu, pakkintodu bathroom lo em doing lanti leki buddhulu pova?

Antha private ga life lead cheyyalanukune vaallu videos teesi YouTube lo pettaru.

[DesiPokiri]

1 minute ago, Rushabhi said:

Pillala Kosam lifelong brathakalsina avasaram ledhu. But at least vallu 17-18 years vache daaka especially very young age like toddlers laa unnappudu parents are very important. Oka small example oka kid ni valla grandparents daggara vadilesaru so they can concentrate on career. Oka 1 and half year ala vachaka. He had abandonment issues. Malli US vachaka he always wanted both parents before his eyes. Ala almost Oka 8 9 months. Tarvatha slow ga bayata pillala tho aadukovatam start chesadu after he felt confident that he is not sent anywhere. Kids need a stable environment. Either stay with parents or grandparents. That will shape how they can handle the world later. Most issues grownups have w.r.t character are because of how they were brought up. Pillalu vallu kavalani bhoomi meedha puttaledhi. Manam kante pudatharu. Vallani jagrathaga penchatam mana badhyatha. So yes at least until they grow up pillala kosame brathakali. Ala cheyaleva pillalni kanaku. It is a choice kadha now a days

Sagam lo né sadhavadam aapesa aa sodhi vinaleka..

I say repeatedly , you are telling ur opinion and only what you have seen.

maybe aa video lo ammai saw better advantages emo, who are you to decide what’s better for her based on experiences from ur point of view ?

[Thokkalee]

3 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Baa I know some grandparents who want to leave their grandkids with them, so some couples do that as their parents will enjoy playing with grandkids..

moreover who are you to decide wats wrong with her life , it’s her life and her decisions , does she need your visa stamp or approval to come here ? 

Neeku pelli kaledu... pillalu leru... so you won’t  understand.. leave it 

[DesiPokiri]

2 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Antha private ga life lead cheyyalanukune vaallu videos teesi YouTube lo pettaru.

Pedithe née lanti vallu vacchi free ga judge chesesthara inka, vallu bed room lo esukuoni conceive chestarani declare chesesthara?

[Rushabhi]

Just now, DesiPokiri said:

Sagam lo né sadhavadam aapesa aa sodhi vinaleka..

I say repeatedly , you are telling ur opinion and only what you have seen.

maybe aa video lo ammai saw better advantages emo, who are you to decide what’s better for her based on experiences from ur point of view ?

Sagam lo chadavatam aapesthe okatayithe ardham ayyindi. Neeku vere opinion vinalanna interest ledhu. Debate cheyyalani ledhu. Fix ayyav and vinavu. Lite teesuko. No need of debating with you

[DesiPokiri]

Just now, Thokkalee said:

Neeku pelli kaledu... pillalu leru... so you won’t  understand.. leave it 

Pelli aina avvakapoina don’t judge others based on your personal experiences.
 

what worked for you might not worked for others, nobody is perfect here to preach what others should do

[DesiPokiri]

1 minute ago, Rushabhi said:

Sagam lo chadavatam aapesthe okatayithe ardham ayyindi. Neeku vere opinion vinalanna interest ledhu. Debate cheyyalani ledhu. Fix ayyav and vinavu. Lite teesuko. No need of debating with you

Exactly , it’s ur opinion mam, why would u expect someone give fck abt it, it’s a free country emaina cheyyocchu. So stop bitching 

[Iriswest]

3 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Pedithe née lanti vallu vacchi free ga judge chesesthara inka, vallu bed room lo esukuoni conceive chestarani declare chesesthara?

Nenu vaallu conceive chestaru annana? Ala chesina vallani annanu. I am just commenting on the way people treat their own children as burden.

[Marsmangalodu]

20 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Baa I know some grandparents who want to leave their grandkids with them, so some couples do that as their parents will enjoy playing with grandkids..

moreover who are you to decide wats wrong with her life , it’s her life and her decisions , does she need your visa stamp or approval to come here ? 

Baaga personal ga teskuntunnav are you radivlogs outside