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How to stay happy on H4 Visa without getting depressed?


Pulkapresident

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Why to be depressed?

You are in USA, better country and you dont have to do household chores and maryadalu to in laws which you do in india here. 

And you have freedom to wear whatever you want and you dont have to wear thaali or bottu too.

So you got lot of freedom than 90 percent indians, stop your dramas aunty.

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Just now, DesiPokiri said:

Why to be depressed?

You are in USA, better country and you dont have to do household chores and maryadalu to in laws which you do in india here. 

So you got lot of freedom than 90 percent indians, stop your dramas aunty.

You want to work but cannot work, you have to buy your husband gifts for his birthday with his credit card, you cannot contribute to the family even though you're an adult. How can an adult with earning potential be okay with being dependent? 

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10 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Why to be depressed?

You are in USA, better country and you dont have to do household chores and maryadalu to in laws which you do in india here. 

And you have freedom to wear whatever you want and you dont have to wear thaali or bottu too.

So you got lot of freedom than 90 percent indians, stop your dramas aunty.

Would you be okay with staying at home when everyone else is going to work? Especially if you have work experience in India?

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2 minutes ago, iphone said:

Pakka desham visa status mida manaki e mooju endoo @3$% vunnama poinamaa ante

H1 vallu kanisam working no? H4 visa is horrible, because they have to stay at home all the time. 

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5 minutes ago, Pulkapresident said:

Would you be okay with staying at home when everyone else is going to work? Especially if you have work experience in India?

She can work with H4 ead no else join part time. why to find excuses?

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Just now, DesiPokiri said:

She can work with H4 ead no else join part time. why to find excuses?

The video is for H4 wives before getting EAD, it may take a few years. 

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Just now, Pulkapresident said:

The video is for H4 wives before getting EAD, it may take a few years. 

Then join part time. or do volunteer work if you wanna stay busy

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2 minutes ago, Pulkapresident said:

H1 vallu kanisam working no? H4 visa is horrible, because they have to stay at home all the time. 

H4 la work permit vundi ga ba desi aunties working full time qa jobs 100k on h4 

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19 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Why to be depressed?

You are in USA, better country and you dont have to do household chores and maryadalu to in laws which you do in india here. 

And you have freedom to wear whatever you want and you dont have to wear thaali or bottu too.

So you got lot of freedom than 90 percent indians, stop your dramas aunty.

I’m not pro or anti h4, but please don’t say this anywhere else...so every regressive. 

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