sarfaroshi Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 34 minutes ago, Fish said: Mee andariki oka question….if your wife starts working, will you help her with chores and kids things You cannot push anyone to work, she needs to get that motivation I helped my wife in chores before she was working, now after she started working... She was the one who was worried that she aint getting a Job...I told her to chill but eventually we both are getting decent enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Thokkalee Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 How old are your kids? If they are too young (toddlers), moms are worried about leaving/missing them or sending them to daycare.. Who are her friends? Are they all housewives too? keep her around working women.. Help her with the chores and kids.. she has to get the confidence that she can manage both kids and home with your help.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abulu Posted June 15, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 50 minutes ago, Fish said: Mee andariki oka question….if your wife starts working, will you help her with chores and kids things You cannot push anyone to work, she needs to get that motivation Ipudu mathram help tesukotledu ani evaru cheparu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abulu Posted June 15, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 3 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: How old are your kids? If they are too young (toddlers), moms are worried about leaving/missing them or sending them to daycare.. Who are her friends? Are they all housewives too? keep her around working women.. Help her with the chores and kids.. she has to get the confidence that she can manage both kids and home with your help.. Good baga cheparu bro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JollyReddy Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 27 minutes ago, Fish said: Don’t make fun y bro.. edaina lite ga teeskovachu no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hydrockers Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 @abulu anna Inga mi wife job chese rakam kadu kani G musukoni India ki shift ayyipo ani chala sarlu cheppam DB lo Single income gadiki ippudu unna situation lo emi lu kids education retirement ki savings ante ayye pani kadu kani India ki shift ayyipo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raj2909 Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 Talk to her, i think may be she is scared or not feeling confident . See if she is interested in any other field other than IT, may be ask if she is ok to do odd or part time jobs, the idea is to make her feel confident and see outside world without any work pressure. May be ask her to drive for DoorDash or Uber or work in any Indian grocery store, or stress free environment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttr2tr Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Fish said: Mee andariki oka question….if your wife starts working, will you help her with chores and kids things You cannot push anyone to work, she needs to get that motivation Wife work chesina cheyakapoyina, husband ki ivi maatram thapavu, andaru chesedi idi. I guess nuvu inka single anukunta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Android_Halwa Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 49 minutes ago, Fish said: Apudu Inka ekkuva godavalu avuthaayi….if she doesn’t have interest better to be quiet and do nothing Ipudu already ade kada chestundi…so noting to loose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poll_Rangadu Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 I have tried to convince her with a pleasant words. She said no daddy listen. I finally took this discussion to my inlaws they threatned me and my parents to file a case against us for forcing my wife to work. My inlaws clearly said they dont want their daughter to work . If I force they threatned our family to pull to the SP office as my F in laws brother works in SP office. The asked my wife to leave me and my kids here in us and come to India. Unfortunately it was covid and no flight tickets were available. And the irony is my M in law works and she doesnt want my wife to work. I am a single bread winner of my home and I have to take care of three kids and my parents who are with pre existing conditions. My freaking F in law called my parents and threatened my parents. My poor parents weeped all through night without sleep. My blood boils everytime I think of such situation. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poll_Rangadu Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 8 minutes ago, Poll_Rangadu said: I have tried to convince her with a pleasant words. She said no daddy listen. I finally took this discussion to my inlaws they threatned me and my parents to file a case against us for forcing my wife to work. My inlaws clearly said they dont want their daughter to work . If I force they threatned our family to pull to the SP office as my F in laws brother works in SP office. The asked my wife to leave me and my kids here in us and come to India. Unfortunately it was covid and no flight tickets were available. And the irony is my M in law works and she doesnt want my wife to work. I am a single bread winner of my home and I have to take care of three kids and my parents who are with pre existing conditions. My freaking F in law called my parents and threatened my parents. My poor parents weeped all through night without sleep. My blood boils everytime I think of such situation. myself and my other three siblings are in a good position because my mom and dad both worked so hard. Adavallu job chese illu baaguntundhi . Women has to work and should be financially independent. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 23 minutes ago, ttr2tr said: Wife work chesina cheyakapoyina, husband ki ivi maatram thapavu, andaru chesedi idi. I guess nuvu inka single anukunta I am facing this issue anduke aduguthunna….I do all house chores, Takecare of kids and work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pakkintipanodu Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 13 minutes ago, Poll_Rangadu said: I have tried to convince her with a pleasant words. She said no daddy listen. I finally took this discussion to my inlaws they threatned me and my parents to file a case against us for forcing my wife to work. My inlaws clearly said they dont want their daughter to work . If I force they threatned our family to pull to the SP office as my F in laws brother works in SP office. The asked my wife to leave me and my kids here in us and come to India. Unfortunately it was covid and no flight tickets were available. And the irony is my M in law works and she doesnt want my wife to work. I am a single bread winner of my home and I have to take care of three kids and my parents who are with pre existing conditions. My freaking F in law called my parents and threatened my parents. My poor parents weeped all through night without sleep. My blood boils everytime I think of such situation. gooram bro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish Posted June 15, 2022 Report Share Posted June 15, 2022 13 minutes ago, Poll_Rangadu said: I have tried to convince her with a pleasant words. She said no daddy listen. I finally took this discussion to my inlaws they threatned me and my parents to file a case against us for forcing my wife to work. My inlaws clearly said they dont want their daughter to work . If I force they threatned our family to pull to the SP office as my F in laws brother works in SP office. The asked my wife to leave me and my kids here in us and come to India. Unfortunately it was covid and no flight tickets were available. And the irony is my M in law works and she doesnt want my wife to work. I am a single bread winner of my home and I have to take care of three kids and my parents who are with pre existing conditions. My freaking F in law called my parents and threatened my parents. My poor parents weeped all through night without sleep. My blood boils everytime I think of such situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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