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KGFsutthi

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4 hours ago, KGFsutthi said:

tips enti

Emotional/avesam lo unnapudu noru/chei jaara kudadhu. 

Tega tege daka ee vishayam laga kudadhu.

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4 hours ago, KGFsutthi said:

tips enti

1. Understand how men and women think. Men are practical and have financial wisdom. Women think more with heart and do not understand logic. 

2. When wife asks something that does not seem logical or wants to buy unwanted things -> do not say NO to her right away. Just ask some logical questions to make her think if its right decision. She will make decision for herself rather than you making decision for her.

3. Do not take dowry. You lost respect and this will be brought in every quarrel.

4. Give respect and demand respect. Understand each other.

5. Understand trigger points and have discussions some time with wife on what triggers you and what triggers her. Avoid those.

6. Involve each other on decision making. 

It takes two to clap. Making a marriage work or screw it takes efforts from both sides. They are never equal efforts. One of you will do more. Understand and move on. 

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16 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

Respect each other and respective families 

If you are referring to my comment. I am sorry, I probably did cross a line. It was on a lighter note. 

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1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said:

1. Understand how men and women think. Men are practical and have financial wisdom. Women think more with heart and do not understand logic. 

2. When wife asks something that does not seem logical or wants to buy unwanted things -> do not say NO to her right away. Just ask some logical questions to make her think if its right decision. She will make decision for herself rather than you making decision for her.

3. Do not take dowry. You lost respect and this will be brought in every quarrel.

4. Give respect and demand respect. Understand each other.

5. Understand trigger points and have discussions some time with wife on what triggers you and what triggers her. Avoid those.

6. Involve each other on decision making. 

It takes two to clap. Making a marriage work or screw it takes efforts from both sides. They are never equal efforts. One of you will do more. Understand and move on. 

This can backfire too.. na dost gadu ilaage katnam thiskonu annadu.. aa pilla side vallaki doubt vachindi.. enduku thiskodam ledu ani.. they did all sorts of enquiries about him.. couldn’t find anything but were still suspicious.. aa pilla ki kuda idi nachhaledu.. his father begged him that he should take whatever they offer and not refuse as that would bring in other issues.. but he was very adamant about it..

this all started on a bad note and ended terribly with wedding getting cancelled few days before the wedding date.. 

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5 hours ago, Vaaampire said:

Give space and take space.. always have ur own bank account.

Have your bank account.. aa . Explain more .. 

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6 hours ago, KGFsutthi said:

tips enti

Software ayithe let 2 ppl work .. understand your binding goals... Depends on the parents too.. 

 

Thalli ni chusi pilla ni chesukunte chala better.. lekapothe atthcare... 

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