Handling conflict

[Spartan]

conflict resolution ki kavalsindi.

- ego ni pakkana pettadam

- patience and listening..

avi mana blood lo ledu anna..default ga.

[ARYA]

7 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Haha .. In general...but yeh mana DB lo kudaa general observation ... 

DB is the right example, they just retort to abusive language, what they learned from their schools is just batti kottu degree pattu.. 

[Jatka Bandi]

i disagree. Can you define a proper way of handling conflicts? Who do you think are good at it?

[*Prince Charming]

39 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Why are Desis so bad at handling conflict? Should we fault our education system for not having debates in our curriculum in Schools/colleges?

Em conflict, Jara context ivvu

[*Prince Charming]

40 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Why are Desis so bad at handling conflict? Should we fault our education system for not having debates in our curriculum in Schools/colleges?

For suppose pellam tho conflict vaste adi handle cheikapovatame better....

[modgud]

11 minutes ago, Jatka Bandi said:

i disagree. Can you define a proper way of handling conflicts? Who do you think are good at it?

haha nuvce cheppali handling conflicts gurinchi oka sari tamari past comment history chudandi bulb velugutadi

[Vaaaampire]

Motham subject cheppakunda endi vayya ee post lu

[Barney_Stinson]

30 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Will they ever change with experiences in life? I see this a lot with sorted people too. They are very good at most phases in life, but when it comes to handling conflict, they fold and the first instinct is to abuse. 

for us guys in most of the cases emotions eclipse brain power and we tend to react more than analyze 

[CaptainMaverick]

56 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Why are Desis so bad at handling conflict? Should we fault our education system for not having debates in our curriculum in Schools/colleges?

DB is a good place to start anna!!! 

[Thokkalee]

1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said:

Why are Desis so bad at handling conflict? Should we fault our education system for not having debates in our curriculum in Schools/colleges?

Wife tho issue unte intlo ne matladukuni settle chesko.. or just stay quiet and move on.. Intlo godavalu db lo ki thechhi discuss cheyyaku 

[Thokkalee]

21 minutes ago, Vaaaampire said:

Motham subject cheppakunda endi vayya ee post lu

He is becoming like @FrustratedVuncle.. wife or In laws tho godava vachinapudu db ki vachhi venting sestaadu 

[Konebhar6]

35 minutes ago, Jatka Bandi said:

i disagree. Can you define a proper way of handling conflicts? Who do you think are good at it?

Respect others opinions. 

Agree to disagree approach. 

Put your points with out bad body language. Don't get impatient, or shout.

Have a healthy debate, you cant impose your views on others nor can others on you. 

There is no right or wrong. Only perspectives. I am correct, you are wrong attitude is the culprit most times.

 

[Konebhar6]

9 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Wife tho issue unte intlo ne matladukuni settle chesko.. or just stay quiet and move on.. Intlo godavalu db lo ki thechhi discuss cheyyaku 

Why do you think so? I have no issues with wife or inlaws. What made you think so. Most of my topics are general. Not politically motivated. 

8 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

He is becoming like @FrustratedVuncle.. wife or In laws tho godava vachinapudu db ki vachhi venting sestaadu 

Did not expect this from you. 

31 minutes ago, Vaaaampire said:

Motham subject cheppakunda endi vayya ee post lu

Its a general topic. This is what I see when I see posts in this DB. No arguments, just name calling, abuses, etc. 

Even at office, too many conflicts between desis. Fight like pigs for silly issues, push their problems on others, bad body language (ugipovatam) when others oppose to their views, etc.  

[Konebhar6]

24 minutes ago, Barney_Stinson said:

for us guys in most of the cases emotions eclipse brain power and we tend to react more than analyze 

Makes sense. We are probably more emotional and tend to take things to heart than others. Good one.

[Konebhar6]

41 minutes ago, *Prince Charming said:

For suppose pellam tho conflict vaste adi handle cheikapovatame better....

By default, conflict antee, everyone assuming problems with wife, inlaws ..  I never bring my family problems here. 

Context is work place, and this DB.