question Help Regarding Marriage And Katnam..

[suryausa]

vallichindi thiskovayya Ms loan thiskomanu meet sister ki nee capacity batti ivvu lekapothe nee pellam thanthadi ninnu ..

[suryausa]

Chesina OA chalu le bhayya.. Ame wrong info ichindi TS ki, ade cheppamu.. Ame sorry cheppali ani emi adagaledu, ameni malli malli wrong anatamu ledu..

Oka sari type chesaka Adi Tappu aina support chesukunte goppa kadu danini gudd@ balupu antadu.. Tappu ani telusukuni correct chesukovatam goppa and she admitted her mistake which is good .

[sattipandu]

I clearly told I am not interested in katnam but thisukokunda chesukoni kashtapadalani ledu future lo.. anthe set ayi bagunte I will definitely help out girls parents..

Its just soo many commitments right now.. full tension anthe..

So have u considered waiting for 1 more yr for marriage ?

 

nee financial situation ardham ayyindhi baa, chelli pelli follow up lo undhi so pelliki nuvvu vallani kharchu adagatam lo thappu ledani anipisthundhi its quite common and practical in crunch situations

 

ammayiki MS chesey abhipraayam unty thalli thandrulaki clear ga cheppu, nenu mee nunchi pelli kharchulaki minchi expect cheyyatam ledhu , mee ammayi MS cheyatam naaku istamey kaani ippudunna paristhuthullo 

 

Homeloan, Chelli MS ki support and also Marraige with wife starting MS is too burdening ani

 

ammayi thallithandrulu memey chaduvuki pettukuntaam on top of pelli kharchulu or Edu loan theeskuntaam anna neeku  better ey gaa 

 

tread cautiously, never seem to appear desperate for money and i think as per what you stated You are not and i get that , you are one special guy &  being truly honest about your situation.

 

Good Luck

[suryausa]

ammayilu sensitive idly bhayya nenu OA kaadu aa ammayiki sorry ane maata less use cheyamantunna she can cover it in a funny way instead of saying sorry and close matter

[arshad]

gedhe ni beram chesinattundi
aa ammayi Ms karchu vallane pettukomanu mee sister pelli karchu mee parents cheyamanu nee sthomatha batti financial help cheyi or tell your sister to take loan and do Ms and ask her to earn money for her marriage
family kosam wedding ni business cheste neeku wife ki nee meeda interest vundadu..... ur life will be hell

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[bindazking]

looks like you are marrying for dowry.. then you should not marry her.. it will make your lives horrible later.. 

[suryausa]

ltt make this 10 pages first page lo matichanu

[former]

Naku oka match vachindi parents velli chusaru ammai bagundi ante nenu video chat chesa naku bagane undi anipinchindi.. ok cheppesa..

First time parents veklinapudu katnam gurinchi emi matladaledu..

Soo monna mata muchatla kosam vellaru parents to decide and finalize..

So maa vallu nannu katnam emantav ra ante nenu cheppa I am alrrady housing loan ij india and she already planning for Masters here so I said college fee kattadam kashtam naku parallel ga loan kuda undi kada..

Parents vallane adugu college fee gurinchi.. so maa vallau 50lacs anukoni 80lacs adigaru ammai vallau katnam ledu anukunnam ani shock icharu maa parents ki..

So finally 10 lacs annaru ala ala 30lacs ki vacharu maa vallu 50lacs annaru..

Ippudu situation final ki 40 lacs ante ok ayela undi.. kani no reply from them and no reply from us.

PS: katnam thisukovadam thappe kani tappani sarilo thisukovalsi vasthundI. I have sister soon pello cheyali.. saving cheyali kada andhuku..

I AM DOING GOOD OR SHOULD I WAIT UNTIL THEY RESPOND??

 

MS kosam valla parents money adgatam anedi naa drusti lo waste .....

 

Marriage ayinka thanu part of ur life ......

 

Nee daggara imeediate ga money leka pothe look different options ...

[suryausa]

ltt

[sharanya]

If you like the girl vaalu entha katnam isthe antha theesukondi please dont demand

+1

[suryausa]

no doubt now this thread reaches 10 pages

[suryausa]

pinkie nuvvu entha katnam ichavu

[Cleopatra]

ammayilu sensitive idly bhayya nenu OA kaadu aa ammayiki sorry ane maata less use cheyamantunna she can cover it in a funny way instead of saying sorry and close matter

thanks surya for supporting me

 

I will try not to say sorry but close the matter in a funny way

[former]

Same situation I might face next with my sister andhuke ila cheyalsi vasthundu.. naku emi dabbu asha ledu..

Pelli ayyaka house loan kaduthu chadisvisthu malli trips avi ivi ante entha kashtam appudu..

Emo chudali mari vaklu emantaro.. adagatam varaku ok istharo ledo telidu.. ivvalem ante appudu sare ani aa ammaike ok cheppadame..

 

 

Dabbu asha ledu antavu..

 

Maa cheli ki ivali kabatti tesukovali anatavu ....

 

 

Mee cheli ki katanma ivvamaku

[littlestar]

final ga kone rate enthano cheppamanu..baita vere giraaki undi konadaniki ani