help me Naa Jeevitha Kadha

[loveindia]

US vachinaaka India vellipovali anI undi ani thread extend chestav man.. atta undi position ippudu...

[samajaaragamana]

Anthe kada boss self satisfaction anedi undadu manaku.. Ipudu ninu serious ki try cheyaka podaniki reason kuda na kid aa.. Don't know how he will adjust if come over there..

I will suggest u something man.......software vadilesi edanna business try chey chesi .....money save cheskuntu.....london switz........singapore tours ki vellu family tho.......world lo amazing places unai. Travel and travel dont think its waste of money........u r making amazing memories.

[hellospider]

bhayya, nenu us vachi 5.5 yrs. 1st 3 yrs bagane gadichayi..accredited collg lo masters, chaduvuthunapudey assistantship, ms avageney job kuda vachindi.. contracting.. 1 yr opt lo chesaka, opt extension ki apply chesi, alage h1 ki kuda apply chesa, rendu biscuit ayyayi.. chadivindi life science ithey programmer ga ela chesthav ani reject chesaru, kani chesthunna client daggara manchi reputation undi.. ventane second college start chesi, cpt mida ade client daggara job chesanu vere employer tho, vadu last min lo hand ichadu life science client lekunda emi cheyalemu ani (kani, naku vadu first promise chesindi, chala life science clients na daggara chala unnayi, edo okati chudachu ani), inkoka 10 days lo april1st anaga, frnd evado chepina company lo join ayyanu, vadu ekkado letter techi pettadu, rfe padindi, adi clear ayyi h1 approve avadaniki 11 months pattindi..next year march 5th varaku decision emi teliledu. 5th na approve ayindi...appativaraku unna application cancel cheyalo telidu, kothadi vesthey pick avuthundo ledo telidu.. antha chesi naku approve ayindi 1 yr, adi kuda i-94 raledu, bhayapaduthu stamping ki india vellanu for the first time after 5yrs. tirigi vachi full time clinical jobs try chesthude, anthalo brother ki mrg set ayindi ani india velli vachesariki, extension apply cheyalsina time vachindi, monna employer gadu aa financial client mida luck try cheyadamey thappa chesedi emi ledu.. kavalantey inkoka company chusko ani twist ichadu.. ipudu emi cheyalo teliyanu situation, inkoka 40 days lo 1st h1 expire ayidi... literal ga enduku vachama us ki ani anipisthundi..field marinavallaku chala mandiki vachindi, na lanti vallu chala takkuvamandi... 

 

idantha enduku chepthunanu antey, us lo lyf super ani asalu anukoku.. set ithey antha manchide, kani avakapothey untundi chudu torture... 

so, alochinchi chudu.. mi wife ki kuda job chese uddesam untey kanukoni chudu bhayya, job ane kadu, ladies ipudu blouses embroidery lantivi nerchukoni, month ki software vallakantey ekkuva sampadisthunnaru.. alagey nuvu kuda edina business lantivi chudu..

[useless_fellow]

naa peru vicky .. andari lage naku kuda corporate life stlye kavalani korukunna.. anduku tagattu everything is planned until my btech .. ninu above average student with .. both ssc and inter lo above 80% marks score chesanu .. but failed in eamcet .. as i belong to upper middle class family bought the seat in one of the prestigious college in warangal.. preplanned gane 3-2 varaki toefl and gre complete chesanu with moderate marks .. but didnt through the interview for 3 times .. dont know why .. so aa time lo india lo undaleka MS ki london vellanu .. successfully completed my MS and came back to india .. assalu kashtalu ipatnunchi start ayindi .. ee tool nerchukovalo ardam avvaledu .. oka cousin suggestion tho MSBI nerchukuna .. but didnt tried seriously for the job .. ala oka two years time pass ayindi .. then verey friend dwara EMC SaN nerchukunna .. deeni meeda tried very hard .. but ee sari kuda shani na vadde unnadu .. meanwhile backdoor jobs ani,avi anni try chesanu .. but workout avvaledu .. meanwhile got married and i have a kid now .. but na passion is US since my btech .. atleast job vochina corporate life style anubaviddu kavatchu .. at present em cheyalo thochaka narakam chustunna .. i dont want to end up my life like this .. guys evaina suggestions ivvandi .. 

 

Students in India: US ki Vellali ra akkada Super Life undhi ...

Parents in India: Ma Vadu US lo unadu, ah state lo unadu ee state lo unadu ....

Relatives in India: Ma Amayiki US sambandham kudirindhi, Lekapothey Ma vadu US lo unadu Nuvu eppudu pothunav ...

 

All Thinking US is swargam ochakka telusthundhi ... N A R A K A M ani spelling rayipisthundhi ikkada.....

Experiencing from Aug 2010 - Till date ...

 

Ikkada unna chala people different reasons valla struck ayyi valla wife ni, pillalni vadilesi,

mostly parents ni vadilesi dina dina gandam nurella ayiishu la ela untunaro akkada unna vallaki chepina ardham chesukoru ....

 

If you dnt believe me, DB lo ne vethuku nenu chepinna chala situations tally avuthayi ...........

 

[vicky4]

US vachinaaka India vellipovali anI undi ani thread extend chestav man.. atta undi position ippudu...

Hmm kavatchu but India lo unnavallaki ala anipinchadu kada.. Moreover luck unte bags settle avatchu kada..

[vicky4]

[quote name="samajaaragamana" post="1307924772" timestamp="1455073466"]

I will suggest u something man.......software vadilesi edanna business try chey chesi .....money save cheskuntu.....london switz........singapore tours ki vellu family tho.......world lo amazing places unai. Travel and travel dont think its waste of money........u r making amazing memories.[/quote

Yeah naku ade anipinchindi but anthe kante mundu life lo settle avvali kada boss.. Business matram finalize avatledu..

[vicky4]

bhayya, nenu us vachi 5.5 yrs. 1st 3 yrs bagane gadichayi..accredited collg lo masters, chaduvuthunapudey assistantship, ms avageney job kuda vachindi.. contracting.. 1 yr opt lo chesaka, opt extension ki apply chesi, alage h1 ki kuda apply chesa, rendu biscuit ayyayi.. chadivindi life science ithey programmer ga ela chesthav ani reject chesaru, kani chesthunna client daggara manchi reputation undi.. ventane second college start chesi, cpt mida ade client daggara job chesanu vere employer tho, vadu last min lo hand ichadu life science client lekunda emi cheyalemu ani (kani, naku vadu first promise chesindi, chala life science clients na daggara chala unnayi, edo okati chudachu ani), inkoka 10 days lo april1st anaga, frnd evado chepina company lo join ayyanu, vadu ekkado letter techi pettadu, rfe padindi, adi clear ayyi h1 approve avadaniki 11 months pattindi..next year march 5th varaku decision emi teliledu. 5th na approve ayindi...appativaraku unna application cancel cheyalo telidu, kothadi vesthey pick avuthundo ledo telidu.. antha chesi naku approve ayindi 1 yr, adi kuda i-94 raledu, bhayapaduthu stamping ki india vellanu for the first time after 5yrs. tirigi vachi full time clinical jobs try chesthude, anthalo brother ki mrg set ayindi ani india velli vachesariki, extension apply cheyalsina time vachindi, monna employer gadu aa financial client mida luck try cheyadamey thappa chesedi emi ledu.. kavalantey inkoka company chusko ani twist ichadu.. ipudu emi cheyalo teliyanu situation, inkoka 40 days lo 1st h1 expire ayidi... literal ga enduku vachama us ki ani anipisthundi..field marinavallaku chala mandiki vachindi, na lanti vallu chala takkuvamandi...

idantha enduku chepthunanu antey, us lo lyf super ani asalu anukoku.. set ithey antha manchide, kani avakapothey untundi chudu torture...
so, alochinchi chudu.. mi wife ki kuda job chese uddesam untey kanukoni chudu bhayya, job ane kadu, ladies ipudu blouses embroidery lantivi nerchukoni, month ki software vallakantey ekkuva sampadisthunnaru.. alagey nuvu kuda edina business lantivi chudu..

Abbo ni situation chala worst undi kada boss.. Aina ippudu ninu US ki vodkas ani kaadu, unable to settle here @ my home town.. And na friends ee unnaru who are earning more and living lavishly.. I think it's all about luck ankunta..

[JAMBALHOT_RAJA]

Niku Ikkada kashtalu Entha cheppina ardam kaadu endukante Nuvu Akkada unnav. Akkada nundi chusetapudu Ikkada positives matrame kanipistay. But Okasari vachaka vellaleka undaleka peekkovali. Akkada one yr job lekapoyina manage cheyochu. Ikkada one month job Lekapote base lo shake vastadi.

[useless_fellow]

Niku Ikkada kashtalu Entha cheppina ardam kaadu endukante Nuvu Akkada unnav. Akkada nundi chusetapudu Ikkada positives matrame kanipistay. But Okasari vachaka vellaleka undaleka peekkovali. Akkada one yr job lekapoyina manage cheyochu. Ikkada one month job Lekapote base lo shake vastadi.

 

 

Adhi Matter bhaiya bhaley chepav ... 

 

Shake shake ammaaa ....

[sivasriram]

Thokalodi nii strong point ento telusuko aaaa stream choose chesuko bro antey ...
Stay strong easy too say but tapadhu worm hard u ll get success somehow

[vicky4]

Niku Ikkada kashtalu Entha cheppina ardam kaadu endukante Nuvu Akkada unnav. Akkada nundi chusetapudu Ikkada positives matrame kanipistay. But Okasari vachaka vellaleka undaleka peekkovali. Akkada one yr job lekapoyina manage cheyochu. Ikkada one month job Lekapote base lo shake vastadi.

Akadiki voddam ani kaadu.. Ikkada kuda life lo adjust avvalekapotunna.. India lo IT job vochina bagundu.. Adi ravatledu.. Em cheyalo assalu ardam avvatledu..

[useless_fellow]

Akadiki voddam ani kaadu.. Ikkada kuda life lo adjust avvalekapotunna.. India lo IT job vochina bagundu.. Adi ravatledu.. Em cheyalo assalu ardam avvatledu..

 

Confusion ? Follow Sorting Method ...

 

Take a Paper and Sort out What Have you done till Now... (Please Write it will give u confidence)

 

What is your final Goal, If No goal Dnt worry you will figure out in the path...

 

Put your strong and weak points on it...

 

What Have you learnt till now , What all you tried till now ...

 

What options you have, How much time frame you have...

 

Some times you might not know your strong points, Find them out by asking your best buddies if possible...

 

Put it onto paper and think ... You will get the answer...

 

If you believe in what you do ... The whole Universe will support you to reach your goal ...

 

 

Maree ekuva ayintey em anukokavadhu.....

[comradee]

intha chinna vayasulo pelli and kids enti bhayya,.. past is past 

 

meru ee position lo US ki vasthe,.....Shani will also come with you in the flight bhayya,....

 

ne best suggestion is India lone edhanna Business plan cheyandi bhayya,..

 

memu ekkada edho US lo unnam ani dabba kottukovatam thappa.... mem ekkada peekedhi em undadhu bhayya....

+999

[vicky4]

Confusion ? Follow Sorting Method ...

Take a Paper and Sort out What Have you done till Now... (Please Write it will give u confidence)

What is your final Goal, If No goal Dnt worry you will figure out in the path...

Put your strong and weak points on it...

What Have you learnt till now , What all you tried till now ...

What options you have, How much time frame you have...

Some times you might not know your strong points, Find them out by asking your best buddies if possible...

Put it onto paper and think ... You will get the answer...

If you believe in what you do ... The whole Universe will support you to reach your goal ...


Maree ekuva ayintey em anukokavadhu.....

Nice suggestion.. But already ninu chesanu Kani paper midha rayaledu.. Ipudu ninu unna situations lo I don't think I can come to US.. India lo job ante already SAN nerchukoni almost two years ayindi.. I forgot everything.. Right now naku kanapade options either learn a new tool and try a job or establish a new business.. So entha alochinchina rendu workout avvatledu..

[samajaaragamana]

bhayya, nenu us vachi 5.5 yrs. 1st 3 yrs bagane gadichayi..accredited collg lo masters, chaduvuthunapudey assistantship, ms avageney job kuda vachindi.. contracting.. 1 yr opt lo chesaka, opt extension ki apply chesi, alage h1 ki kuda apply chesa, rendu biscuit ayyayi.. chadivindi life science ithey programmer ga ela chesthav ani reject chesaru, kani chesthunna client daggara manchi reputation undi.. ventane second college start chesi, cpt mida ade client daggara job chesanu vere employer tho, vadu last min lo hand ichadu life science client lekunda emi cheyalemu ani (kani, naku vadu first promise chesindi, chala life science clients na daggara chala unnayi, edo okati chudachu ani), inkoka 10 days lo april1st anaga, frnd evado chepina company lo join ayyanu, vadu ekkado letter techi pettadu, rfe padindi, adi clear ayyi h1 approve avadaniki 11 months pattindi..next year march 5th varaku decision emi teliledu. 5th na approve ayindi...appativaraku unna application cancel cheyalo telidu, kothadi vesthey pick avuthundo ledo telidu.. antha chesi naku approve ayindi 1 yr, adi kuda i-94 raledu, bhayapaduthu stamping ki india vellanu for the first time after 5yrs. tirigi vachi full time clinical jobs try chesthude, anthalo brother ki mrg set ayindi ani india velli vachesariki, extension apply cheyalsina time vachindi, monna employer gadu aa financial client mida luck try cheyadamey thappa chesedi emi ledu.. kavalantey inkoka company chusko ani twist ichadu.. ipudu emi cheyalo teliyanu situation, inkoka 40 days lo 1st h1 expire ayidi... literal ga enduku vachama us ki ani anipisthundi..field marinavallaku chala mandiki vachindi, na lanti vallu chala takkuvamandi... 

 

idantha enduku chepthunanu antey, us lo lyf super ani asalu anukoku.. set ithey antha manchide, kani avakapothey untundi chudu torture... 

so, alochinchi chudu.. mi wife ki kuda job chese uddesam untey kanukoni chudu bhayya, job ane kadu, ladies ipudu blouses embroidery lantivi nerchukoni, month ki software vallakantey ekkuva sampadisthunnaru.. alagey nuvu kuda edina business lantivi chudu..

sorry to hear this spider...............but very good explanation. Thank you