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1 minute ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Mari ts adigina question ala undi istam unte pelli cheskochu gani gc kosam aythe inka better chesko mani chepthuna yomama thappu antva

tappu kadu man, marriage is a big thing. urke gc kosam cheskunte tarvata leni poni complications vastay. 

see indians ki americans ki chala teda undi, americans picha light because they dont have lot of discriminations in the system growing up other than catholics and color stuff. So ikkada vallu love unte they dont really care if that woman was married 5 times before. Mana society ala kadu, marriage antene oka business laga chestaru expensive, full dandora, ekad leni relatives ni pilustaru, katnalu teskunatru, castes chustaru and ivanni edo goppa vishayam anattu roju ive matladtaru pelli chese varaku. So mana vallu oka alternate reality create cheskoni bathikestunaru society lo, vallaki sudden ga single mom ni cheskunta ani chepte i dont think they will take it lightly, first mental aa ani eskuntaru, next edpul start chesi drama shuru, tarvata suicides warnings istaru, next health biscuit avtondi am dying ani kuda chestaru(i have seen all of these cases with indian parents ), for which we cant blame them( endukante valla prapanchame adi). 

So life complicate avakudadu ankunte easy ga povali, ledu fight out chesta i can withstand all this bullshiteee ante you can. Na friend  circles lo 2 already ilane cheskunaru marriages, one got married to a woman who had 3 kids and she was 10 years older than him(this was a huge surprise to everyone of us, eventually he cutoff all the ties with friends, kani parents ni elago oppinchi india lo malli pelli cheskunadu mana sampradayam lo ameni) inko case bakwaas skype love and marriage(she was literally 200 pounds vidu tippi tippi kodte 100 pounds undetodu) so yeah, he obviously did it for gc. 

Successful cases ante inkodu unde who fell in love with a caucasian gal in masters, they dated for 4 years and got married so, that was a good one.

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31 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Chesko man thappu ledu gc ochaka leave her and marry other girl for other residency permit

Wrong salahalu vaddu @samaja .... He says they are emotional connected.

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11 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

Sincere love

Bull! If it's sincere love then why are you asking this question?  If you sincerely love her you will also love her kid(s)...2 yr toddler is not bad, think that you have adopted him/her.

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Just now, kevinUsa said:

She said that 

I have no issues intlo oppukoru

Memu iyyangars  jeeyar matam lo teliste ma Nana paruvu so issue

velivestaru emo rrc_2015....siblings unara?

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Just now, kevinUsa said:

Okadu

aite pedda problem kadu le man. Okkadive aite lekunte sister unte lolli chestaru india la. See if you both love each other, date for a while and then decide. Dont jump into marriage unless you lived with her in the past.

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You may love her, you should also love her son like your own.

Think about what happens after 10 years,your brown kid and  your white kid - will they get along? Your white kid biological father might have different plans for him. You should also think about how to handle it.

This is not something new which will only happen to you but, you should be ready for that and have a plan and mind set to deal with all kinds of situations.

if you are marrying only for GC don't put love in it make it complicated.

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