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Galli_La_Lolli

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this topic shd be divided into two categories

1. husband wife both working 

2. husband only working

1st case lo aitey pellam kontadhi.. its her money

2nd case lo aitey, since wife not working.. if you are calling in laws for your work then you have to pay.

ledhu vaallu just visiting ki shikaar ki vasthunaaru antey...they hav to pay or half-half pay mode try cheyochu

 

3rd category undhi...this is most complicated.

if wife ki sister or brother undi... then who shd pay? 

if you paid, then will you allow them to go stay at tht sibilings house? and their travelling karchulu?

in laws koncham educated aitey...they will bring their own expenses..if not you have to workout somethin wit sibling family

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23 hours ago, idibezwada said:

Nene testa if given a chance.. But my FIL is capable of handling them..he never gave us a chance

same here...  I feel if we buy them tickets they loose respect ani ... it depends on individual anuko

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22 hours ago, Galli_La_Lolli said:

Middlle class lo comparision common mayya.......we are not trumps kada........Katnam teskole and wife ni nene sadivinchukuntunna.......they came here last time not even discussed how you are managing fees ani.....bcoz if they ask you may ask for appu might be......atleast adigithey I shud have felt happy.

agreed. money tight ga chala chiraak ga untadhi life

manam calculated ga dollar dollar koodapeduthu.. untey... g mooskoni undatam peddarikam kaadhu

 

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23 hours ago, siritptpras said:

ekkuva think cheyyakunda buy for them..if its for delivery its good if u buy. u can claim them as dependents for tax filing..ekkuva complicate chesukoku..

abusing ante idhe... its not legal to claim those situations..... IRS gaaaadu neee application ni deep ga chooosthe neeeku balaksrhna ne inka... dhoraakanantha vaaraaku dhora..

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22 hours ago, Don_Draper said:

teskunollaki vartistadi..  vere vallu proud ga feel avvochu.. naakt kontamandi lafoot friends unnar

boy side vaaaalu katnam isthene marriage ki oppukuntaam ani untaaaru.... dhaaaniki boy lafoooot naaa kdkuu kuda ok ani untaaaadu.... fake love

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11 minutes ago, chicchara said:

this topic shd be divided into two categories

1. husband wife both working 

2. husband only working

1st case lo aitey pellam kontadhi.. its her money

2nd case lo aitey, since wife not working.. if you are calling in laws for your work then you have to pay.

ledhu vaallu just visiting ki shikaar ki vasthunaaru antey...they hav to pay or half-half pay mode try cheyochu

 

3rd category undhi...this is most complicated.

if wife ki sister or brother undi... then who shd pay? 

if you paid, then will you allow them to go stay at tht sibilings house? and their travelling karchulu?

in laws koncham educated aitey...they will bring their own expenses..if not you have to workout somethin wit sibling family

CALCULATED LIFE is always COMPLICATED crazymata

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6 minutes ago, Srimantudu said:

CALCULATED LIFE is always COMPLICATED 

paisal untey pettadaniki no problem. dabbul lenappdu kuda wife sava 10engitey em chesthaam?

money is the soul issue for this discussion

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1 minute ago, chicchara said:

paisal untey pettadaniki no problem. dabbul lenappdu kuda wife sava 10engitey em chesthaam?

money is the soul issue for this discussion

dabbul lenapudu adi explain cheyadam different ga untadi(infact his wife should already know their situation)..TS matallo ardamindi entante - in-laws vala aasthulu koduki pothadi vadu pettakunda nenu enduku pettali antundu :P

 

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6 minutes ago, chicchara said:

paisal untey pettadaniki no problem. dabbul lenappdu kuda wife sava 10engitey em chesthaam?

money is the soul issue for this discussion

TS mindset prob anukunta, edhi grad walk kosam anadu, repu  wife work start chesinaka kashtapadi MS cheyinchi job lo petisthe parents medha spending ani inko thread vestadu , have seen cases  both working aina they ask girl parents to  spend their own money

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34 minutes ago, nandananditha said:

TS mindset prob anukunta, edhi grad walk kosam anadu, repu  wife work start chesinaka kashtapadi MS cheyinchi job lo petisthe parents medha spending ani inko thread vestadu , have seen cases  both working aina they ask girl parents to  spend their own money

ilanti vallantha db vallake baga telusuntarucrazymata

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36 minutes ago, nandananditha said:

TS mindset prob anukunta, edhi grad walk kosam anadu, repu  wife work start chesinaka kashtapadi MS cheyinchi job lo petisthe parents medha spending ani inko thread vestadu , have seen cases  both working aina they ask girl parents to  spend their own money

that's not good

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On ‎5‎/‎29‎/‎2017 at 9:31 AM, Quickgun_murugan said:

 

Male chauvinistic ideology unna vallaki and alanti parents unna vallaki ilaanti thoughts and issues osthay in-laws ki help chese vishayam lo... Nee sister husband (if you have a sister) and nee wife... nee parents ni ela respectful ga treat cheyyalani nuvvu korukuntavo...nuvvu kuda alaage treat cheyyali mee in-laws ni.

 

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