What did you knew about your SPOUSE in first 3 months after Marriage

[shamsher_007]

1 minute ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Nen reddit range lo theskeldam anukuna le velu swathi kavalantaru

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Ah pilla emo same caste or sub caste kavali asthi emo baga undali dowry baga iyali independent and out going undali. Bed lo full experience undali kani virgin ayyi undali. Mentalities families rendu chepai kabatti match aypovali.karchu petti pelli cheskunav kabatti happiness kuda automatic ga ocheyali.......inni aypovali ante ela man......entha mandini return policy lo ichukuntu pothav

Idokkati chaalu ee thread ni end cheyataniki. Lolli cheppinav po

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, Feelingbad said:

Interaction lo kuda emi theliyadhu uncle... unless you date...

Either you date and marry if you don't want to take a chance or you marry arranged.

Very true. Plus marriage avvali ani kooda chala mandi pelliki mundu okala matladatharu but pellayyaka their true colors come out

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, Mustachio said:

Okaaa bollywood movie untadhiii "Aaakash Vani " aniii .... khaliii parents chepparuuu aniii previous love commitment ni vadhilesiii, pilla okaa jhantuu gadinii pelli chesukuntadhii. Vaduuu daytime lo pilla ni aathcare, night aithee mathramm daily gattigaaa 10gadmm. Faffamm vadii thooo unnaa time motham she's just like a sex doll for him. 

 

Endhukuu vaa khaliiii okarii gurinchii okaruu emm tellusukokundaaa .... pekkedhamm, podichesthamm anii pelli petaluu ekkuthatuuu. Marandiii raaa miii mohaluuu mandaaa.

Adi valla okkari tappu ela avutundi bro. Pelliki mundu matladalantene illallo adedo pedda big deal annattu behave chestharu chaala illallo, alantappudu ela telustundi ento aa ammayi gurinchi or abbayi gurinchi. 

Fault is with the culture, not the individuals. A culture that wants to forcibly unite two different personalities in the guise of social customs. 

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, Mustachio said:

I mean once both parties consider match-pairing serious. Okaa 2-3 months formal dating should be a must to-do practice anii antunnaaa.

Edhooo families deals lagaaa matladukonii. Vuuu anadammm thooo neee I'm ready anii edhoo pekadanikii bayaladheravadhuu antunnaa brotheruu.

Baane unnavu saami, ivi illallo chebithey moosukuni chesuko neeku ee datinglu gatra enduku ra yedhava ani tidatharu. Mana culture lo dating anedi kooda unda, lol. 

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, ronitreddy said:

What you have said is right..But Indian society lo antha easy ga change expect cheyalemu as dating is considered to be a social taboo..

Well said brother. Adedo pedda boothu annattu behave chestharu dating anagane, ittane untadi. Marriage anteney compromise Indian culture lo, compromise for society

[tennisluvr]

5 hours ago, Rain said:

Formal dating lo emi theleedu

You need to know her as a friend, classmate or colleague atleast

Exactly, two people should date without having any expectations from the other. Then their true nature comes out. 

If two people date with a prior intention to put up their best show, in order to get the other person to agree to marry them their true self will never come out. What I mean to say is, the behavior of the people that are dating would be different towards each other if the pressure/expectation of a commitment for marriage doesn't exist prior to them dating each other. 

Idi manollaki artham avvataniki oka century padutundi atleast. 

[tennisluvr]

4 hours ago, Mustachio said:

Yes chesthunnaruu, I agree. But very very less, my intention here is deals matladukovadamm midhaa unnanthaa effort and dedication elantii dating activities painaa pettaruuu anii antunnaaa.

Deals ante mari padi mandiki cheppukovali, sangeet ceremony ante padi mandi choosela facebook lo videos/photos pettali gaa. So manaki kavalsindi padimandi nundi validation/showoff. Migilinavanni pellayyaka automatic ga adjust ayipotharu janalu anedi feeling anthey. 

[Popkatapetapotapulti]

4 hours ago, Doctor_Samaram said:

Guys,
Lunch ki velloche lopu e thread ni inko direction loki teeskellidengaru kada. Let me put the intension of this thread in more detailed way.

FYI, naaku marriage ayyi 2 years aindi.

Every husband/Wife evo expectations tho new life start chestaru. Marriage ayyaka okarikokari weekness/Strenght lu telustayi. Konni Marchukovachu konni mee thatha digivachina marchalem. Nothing is impossible ante, go to hell.
Ide subject maa friends madyala teesukochinappudu everybody said their own opinions like below and we discussed in a healthier manner.(Ofcourse in a vegetarian disco only).

Ex:
Na pellam baaga lazy, assalu morning levvadu.
Cooking chestadi, assalu nachadu..
Urike Godavalu pedtadi, paatha vishayalu tavvuthu.
Na parents ki respect ivvadu.
wife ki EyeSite undi, kaani laser treatment cheyincharu.
Manaki ennenni aasthulu unnayo cheppu. etc etc..

Ippudu ide subject ikkada DB lo vesthe, most of the people thinking that its vulgar thread. Nenu positive gaane vesanu thread ni, valle negative ga think chesi replies icharu.
I was just asking your opinions of first 3 months.
Ala kaakunda first 30 months ante correct ga undeda.?

Em opinions or complaints levu antha cool. Na spouse superrrr just landed from Heaven ante, don't waste your time on this thread. Pakkakelli aduko.

manchi pani chesindi....

[tennisluvr]

4 hours ago, Mustachio said:

katnam, diwali ki em istharuu, sankranthi ki em pedtharuu. Bammardhii katnam entha istharuu, Aadibidda lanchanam enthaa anukuntunnaru. Grandchildren pudithee emm ivvabothunaruu.

Lovedaa laskamm.

 

tarataraluga ostunna sampradayalu macha, avanni ela odultham cheppu. 

understanding antava bokka le baduggayi oka iddaru pillalni kani padesthey moosukuni paduntaaru ade successful and ideal marriage ani namme prapancham manadi. 

[tennisluvr]

Intha manchi disco thread esinanduku TS ki dandalu, intha sepu choodananduku naa kshamapanalu. 

Ideal start to Monday ante ide kabolu

[tennisluvr]

4 hours ago, dakumangalsingh said:

entha palukuthundii now-a-days for software engineel in Gulte states

Nee status meeda dependent anta macha. 

Nuvvu H1B coolie ayithey not so much demand, ade GC ayithey leka citizen ayithey 3 cr pakka ani vinikidi depending on your samajika vargam. 

[tennisluvr]

4 hours ago, ICANWIN said:

I dont agree. 100% manishi gurinchi teledu but 3-4 months daily texting talking to konta telustundi. If a person is faking lying and not right for u telustundi. Right person telekapovachu and we might be in confusion if he is right or not but wrong person telustundi in matches as we are not emotionally involved and we observe every small thing. I wasn't wrong judging people in my matches .

4-5 months impress chestava talking almost everyday ? Possible a? nenu ayite oka match lo person ki washing powder nirma kuda chesa talking for 4 months for behavior and attitude.  

Deeni tatparyam emi? Konchem vidamarchi cheppandi pls. 

[tennisluvr]

4 hours ago, Doctor_Samaram said:

Guys,
Lunch ki velloche lopu e thread ni inko direction loki teeskellidengaru kada. Let me put the intension of this thread in more detailed way.

FYI, naaku marriage ayyi 2 years aindi.

Every husband/Wife evo expectations tho new life start chestaru. Marriage ayyaka okarikokari weekness/Strenght lu telustayi. Konni Marchukovachu konni mee thatha digivachina marchalem. Nothing is impossible ante, go to hell.
Ide subject maa friends madyala teesukochinappudu everybody said their own opinions like below and we discussed in a healthier manner.(Ofcourse in a vegetarian disco only).

Ex:
Na pellam baaga lazy, assalu morning levvadu.
Cooking chestadi, assalu nachadu..
Urike Godavalu pedtadi, paatha vishayalu tavvuthu.
Na parents ki respect ivvadu.
wife ki EyeSite undi, kaani laser treatment cheyincharu.
Manaki ennenni aasthulu unnayo cheppu. etc etc..

Ippudu ide subject ikkada DB lo vesthe, most of the people thinking that its vulgar thread. Nenu positive gaane vesanu thread ni, valle negative ga think chesi replies icharu.
I was just asking your opinions of first 3 months.
Ala kaakunda first 30 months ante correct ga undeda.?

Em opinions or complaints levu antha cool. Na spouse superrrr just landed from Heaven ante, don't waste your time on this thread. Pakkakelli aduko.

Nuvvu feel avvaku brother. thappuga artham chesukune vallu thappugane artham chesukuntaru. 

Nothing wrong in what you asked, nee situation majority arranged marriage ani taloopi chesukunollaki jariginage, just accept cheyalantey kontha ego addochi chaala mandi ninnu attack cheyataniki try chestharu anthey. 

Don't worry about it, speak your mind. 

[Mustachio]

20 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Baane unnavu saami, ivi illallo chebithey moosukuni chesuko neeku ee datinglu gatra enduku ra yedhava ani tidatharu. Mana culture lo dating anedi kooda unda, lol. 

I agree dating anteee manavalluuu edho anukuntaruu. And anniii deals okay aithee nee kadhaaa both parties get into serious level in hooking up the pair. Anii deals matladinaappuduu leniii loppiiii, pori poragalluu marrigae ki mundhuu konnii months datinglu chesthee nee noppiii vasthadhii.

Mallaa engagement anii cheppiii .... okaaa 3-6 months marrigae ki mundhee advance booking chesukuntaruu kadhaa both parties.

Muskonii chesukuntee ... Elantii DB lalooo okaa dharamm vesii mundaa edupuu edusthuu undali. Adhi correct antavaaaa ?