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How not to connect to girls emotionally during marriages


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43 minutes ago, jefferson1 said:

DOnt develop feelings for anyone quickly

women are like chameleon 

 

True, they can't control emotions during periods...psychopaths

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13 minutes ago, Pumpuhaar said:

decline chesina tarvaata inkaa "matches come closer" endi@3$%

Ante he thought they came closer but declined. papam ala navvakandi @~`

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2 minutes ago, Beardman said:

True, they can't control emotions during periods...psychopaths

If women haven't got periods then you weren't even born. You are mocking on a natural biological thing instead of being understanding of it. Think before what you type man. 

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Just now, Amrita said:

If women haven't got periods then you weren't even born.  Think before what you type man. 

I am talking about controlling the emotions...they are negative bent during that phase. Thats the main point of argument

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1 minute ago, Beardman said:

I am talking about controlling the emotions...they are negative bent during that phase. Thats the main point of argument

Because that's biological .  A guy should be understanding about mood swings in that time at least with his gf or wife.

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3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Ante he thought they came closer but declined. papam ala navvakandi @~`

Ok andi....mimmalni try cheskovacha @~`  baita competition tattukolekapotunna :3D_Smiles_38:

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Just now, Amrita said:

Because that's biological . A guy should be understanding about it at least with his gf or wife.

Its more of psychological than biological i think. Their negative moods get elevated but they do have the option to control them right otherwise no value for humanity

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1 hour ago, Nimmakaya said:

Last 2 years nunchi matches searching any suggestions to forget girls who decline us as the matches come closer 

Ee db lo andaru mahesh babu, prabhas lekka untaru..so rejections telidu vallaki 🤣

Anyways jokes apart, naku oka ammayini chala nachindi, even she liked me alot..kani one month lo marriage ani force chesaru...naku visa restrictions unnayi...can't come in such short span ani cheppa...after one month she married some other guy...chala hurt ayya..still sometimes aa ammayi fb profile chustunta...idhi jarigi 1 year avthundi...its no easy to forget someone...but just think maybe they are not the right ones for you and go on...

Tips:

*Never disturb them again

*Delete their contact 

*Focus on searching another match

 

Ivanni only deviation ki bro..not to forget..wish u best..

Most importantly never be demotivated or jealous of these db mahesh babus 😋

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5 minutes ago, Beardman said:

Its more of psychological than biological i think. Their negative moods get elevated but they do have the option to control them right otherwise no value for humanity

Did you ever get a period ? I am getting from years and its not psychological. Its because of hormonal changes. 

Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) affects a high percentage of women of childbearing age, with many women feeling mood changes in the days before menstruation. And while menstrual symptoms like irritability, anger, and mood swings are a monthly bother for most women, severe PMS can be emotionally debilitating for some. Fortunately, treating PMS with medication and lifestyle changes can help women control mood changes and other emotional difficulties.

A Roller Coaster of Emotions

PMS can cause wild, uncontrollable mood swings in some women, who may go from crying spells to angry outbursts and anxiety attacks, then back to a stable emotional state — all in one day.

“You’ll know these emotional ups and downs are due to PMS if they start consistently a week to two weeks before your period and stop a day or two after menstruation starts,” says New York City gynecologist and fellow of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, Carol Livoti, MD. PMS symptoms, including mood swings, occur during the last (luteal) phase of the menstrual cycle, which starts after ovulation — typically day 14 to 28 of a woman’s monthly cycle. Once menstruation starts, mood swings usually disappear.

Getting to the Root of PMS Mood Swings

Although researchers don’t know exactly why PMS strikes, these emotional disturbances are thought to be connected to the rise and fall of hormones, specifically estrogen, throughout the menstrual cycle. Estrogen levels begin to rise slowly just after a women’s period ends, and it peak two weeks later. “Then estrogen levels drop like a rock and begin rising slowly before dropping again just before menstruation starts,” explains Livoti. These hormonal peaks and valleys are thought to cause mood swings and other menstrual symptoms.

“Stressful situations, such as a divorce or job loss, don’t cause PMS, but they can make it worse,” adds Livoti. Some research suggests that female hormones interact with brain chemicals in a way that can affect mood in those with PMS. “Reduced levels of estrogen during the luteal phase of the cycle could possibly cause a drop in serotonin, although more research needs to be done to confirm this link,” says Livoti. Lower serotonin levels are associated with depression, irritability, and carbohydrate cravings, all of which can be PMS symptoms.

Severe PMS: Beyond Run-Of-The-Mill Mood Swings

Between 3 and 8 percent of menstruating women have an even more severe condition called premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). These women become seriously depressed a week or two before their periods. “With PMDD, major depression and extreme irritation are the foremost symptoms,” says Livoti. “PMS is milder and usually involves physical menstrual symptoms, as well as emotional ones.”

 

Women with a family history of depression or who have previously experienced postpartum depression are at increased risk for PMDD, which is included on the American Psychiatric Association’s list of mental illnesses (the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). To be diagnosed with PMDD, a woman must have at least five of the following symptoms around the time of her period:

  • Deep sadness or despair, with possible suicidal thoughts
  • Lasting irritability and anger, which may include frequent outbursts at loved ones
  • Feelings of tension or anxiety
  • Panic attacks
  • Mood swings
  • Crying
  • Disinterest in daily activities and relationships
  • Trouble thinking or focusing
  • Feeling out of control or overwhelmed
  • Fatigue
  • Low energy
  • Food cravings or binge eating

These symptoms will disappear shortly after menstruation starts. “If they last all month, that’s not PMDD,” says Livoti. Instead, another mental or physical illness may be the cause.

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2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Did you ever get a period ? I am getting from years and its not psychological. Its because of hormonal changes. 

Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) affects a high percentage of women of childbearing age, with many women feeling mood changes in the days before menstruation. And while menstrual symptoms like irritability, anger, and mood swings are a monthly bother for most women, severe PMS can be emotionally debilitating for some. Fortunately, treating PMS with medication and lifestyle changes can help women control mood changes and other emotional difficulties.

A Roller Coaster of Emotions

PMS can cause wild, uncontrollable mood swings in some women, who may go from crying spells to angry outbursts and anxiety attacks, then back to a stable emotional state — all in one day.

“You’ll know these emotional ups and downs are due to PMS if they start consistently a week to two weeks before your period and stop a day or two after menstruation starts,” says New York City gynecologist and fellow of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, Carol Livoti, MD. PMS symptoms, including mood swings, occur during the last (luteal) phase of the menstrual cycle, which starts after ovulation — typically day 14 to 28 of a woman’s monthly cycle. Once menstruation starts, mood swings usually disappear.

Getting to the Root of PMS Mood Swings

Although researchers don’t know exactly why PMS strikes, these emotional disturbances are thought to be connected to the rise and fall of hormones, specifically estrogen, throughout the menstrual cycle. Estrogen levels begin to rise slowly just after a women’s period ends, and it peak two weeks later. “Then estrogen levels drop like a rock and begin rising slowly before dropping again just before menstruation starts,” explains Livoti. These hormonal peaks and valleys are thought to cause mood swings and other menstrual symptoms.

“Stressful situations, such as a divorce or job loss, don’t cause PMS, but they can make it worse,” adds Livoti. Some research suggests that female hormones interact with brain chemicals in a way that can affect mood in those with PMS. “Reduced levels of estrogen during the luteal phase of the cycle could possibly cause a drop in serotonin, although more research needs to be done to confirm this link,” says Livoti. Lower serotonin levels are associated with depression, irritability, and carbohydrate cravings, all of which can be PMS symptoms.

Severe PMS: Beyond Run-Of-The-Mill Mood Swings

Between 3 and 8 percent of menstruating women have an even more severe condition called premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). These women become seriously depressed a week or two before their periods. “With PMDD, major depression and extreme irritation are the foremost symptoms,” says Livoti. “PMS is milder and usually involves physical menstrual symptoms, as well as emotional ones.”

 

Women with a family history of depression or who have previously experienced postpartum depression are at increased risk for PMDD, which is included on the American Psychiatric Association’s list of mental illnesses (the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). To be diagnosed with PMDD, a woman must have at least five of the following symptoms around the time of her period:

  • Deep sadness or despair, with possible suicidal thoughts
  • Lasting irritability and anger, which may include frequent outbursts at loved ones
  • Feelings of tension or anxiety
  • Panic attacks
  • Mood swings
  • Crying
  • Disinterest in daily activities and relationships
  • Trouble thinking or focusing
  • Feeling out of control or overwhelmed
  • Fatigue
  • Low energy
  • Food cravings or binge eating

These symptoms will disappear shortly after menstruation starts. “If they last all month, that’s not PMDD,” says Livoti. Instead, another mental or physical illness may be the cause.

May be i seen girl with permanent mental illness, it doesnt happen to all but some

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9 minutes ago, Beardman said:

Its more of psychological than biological i think. Their negative moods get elevated but they do have the option to control them right otherwise no value for humanity

mood swings are due to hormones..

hormones ni control cheyaleru...so ..psycological ga control cheskovadam not possible for them

we dont know about that,,and we shudnt comment on that. period.

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