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Do parents have the right to decide the bride/groom for their child?


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Do parents have the right to decide the bride/groom for their child?  

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13 minutes ago, karthikn said:

Auto gallani, saduvu sandhya leni aawara gallani love chesa. Ante rendu thomadam lo thappu ledhu.

If the girl and guy come to elders and prove that we have better planning etc and working towards their goals ante think cheyochu.  

Take amrutha babu daggara em ledhu, Canada etc anna money kavali. Contraception vadali anna minimum commonsense ledhu. Kadupu. Pregnant ante dabbulu 10g. Idhi thappa em kanipisthale mari. 

Correct me if I am wrong @SeemaLekka@Amrita

Agreed with you . Vedhava ni techi prema ante 30 years later kuda utiki aresta . Kani penchukunna kuturi life nasanam ayipotunte chustu aey parent undaleru but killing other person is wrong . Intlo control chesukoleka vere abbayi ni champadam inka darunam . 

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2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Agreed with you . Vedhava ni techi prema ante 30 years later kuda utiki aresta . Kani penchukunna kuturi life nasanam ayipotunte chustu aey parent undaleru but killing other person is wrong . Intlo control chesukoleka vere abbayi ni champadam inka darunam . 

Madam control chestey viney paristiti lo leru janalu 

They think they are great 

They don't care good words 

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9 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Yes naku avva kavali buvva kavali .  It’s about the guy I love vs guy my parents  bring for me as husband with whom I should live life long . It’s never a choice between parents and the guy . So yeah naku nenu preminche manishi kavali parents kuda kavali . Right person and good future kanipiste with him parents  would understand our love and value our choice.  

I still voted for parents choice in above poll . 

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1 minute ago, futureofandhra said:

Madam control chestey viney paristiti lo leru janalu 

They think they are great 

They don't care good words 

I know ayite anubhinchali anthe kathulu pattukkoni Road mida ki ekkutara ? Narikesi jail lo kuchuntara ? This will do more bad to our own kid . Adult ayinaka lines untayi parents ki avi datite we will lose kid for ever . Everything has a limit . 

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4 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I know ayite anubhinchali anthe kathulu pattukkoni Road mida ki ekkutara ? Narikesi jail lo kuchuntara ? This will do more bad to our own kid . Adult ayinaka lines untayi parents ki avi datite we will lose kid for ever . Everything has a limit . 

Am not talking about killing 

Killing is wrong

Am talking about those love 🐦 🐦 who don't have any idea what to do 

Like the recent case no degree girl pregnant don't know what to say

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38 minutes ago, karthikn said:

Auto gallani, saduvu sandhya leni aawara gallani love chesa. Ante rendu thomadam lo thappu ledhu.

If the girl and guy come to elders and prove that we have better planning etc and working towards their goals ante think cheyochu.  

Take amrutha babu daggara em ledhu, Canada etc anna money kavali. Contraception vadali anna minimum commonsense ledhu. Kadupu. Pregnant ante dabbulu 10g. Idhi thappa em kanipisthale mari. 

Correct me if I am wrong @SeemaLekka@Amrita

so ur point.. in case of maruthi rao- pranay case..

maruthi rao ki caste feeling lekunda pranay ni useless fellow ani reject chesunte tappu ledu antav anthe na?

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22 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Yes naku avva kavali buvva kavali .  It’s about the guy I love vs guy my parents  bring for me as husband with whom I should live life long . It’s never a choice between parents and the guy . So yeah naku nenu preminche manishi kavali parents kuda kavali . Right person and good future kanipiste with him parents  would understand our love and value our choice.  

I still voted for parents choice in above poll . 

e prema dhoma annukunte pothe ..panulu kavu.... take the best one you have and work with it.... ani oka pedhayina cheppadu

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29 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Yes naku avva kavali buvva kavali .  It’s about the guy I love vs guy my parents  bring for me as husband with whom I should live life long . It’s never a choice between parents and the guy . So yeah naku nenu preminche manishi kavali parents kuda kavali . Right person and good future kanipiste with him parents  would understand our love and value our choice.  

I still voted for parents choice in above poll . 

parents select chesina manishi nenu preminche manishi okare avuno kaado teliyali ante marriage ayyi 2-3 yrs avvali.. how does this work then? parents select chestunaru ante arranged marriage.. u wont get to know him truly until u be with him for a couple of yrs.. :3D_Smiles_56:

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5 minutes ago, PanduRangaRao said:

parents select chesina manishi nenu preminche manishi okare avuno kaado teliyali ante marriage ayyi 2-3 yrs avvali.. how does this work then? parents select chestunaru ante arranged marriage.. u wont get to know him truly until u be with him for a couple of yrs.. :3D_Smiles_56:

Aa tarvatha telisinaa peekedemi ledu.. alavataypoyoo society kosamoo vaditho compromise ayi untav.. until some opt candidate like @Odale shares your frustration during lunch time when you start working on @H4ead

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37 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Yes naku avva kavali buvva kavali .  It’s about the guy I love vs guy my parents  bring for me as husband with whom I should live life long . It’s never a choice between parents and the guy . So yeah naku nenu preminche manishi kavali parents kuda kavali . Right person and good future kanipiste with him parents  would understand our love and value our choice.  

I still voted for parents choice in above poll . 

Parents choopinche vallalone pick chesi preminchachu. It is OK. Evaro bayata vallu leka pothe brathakalemu ananthaga chaala mandi behave chestharu. That is wrong. Even when parents pick, things can go wrong. Kaani at least scamsters ki padipoye chances thakkuva. Other thing is parents will most of the time choose someone who is financially secure. This is important for a happy life. Some of the biggest risks in finding a partner are eliminated with what your parents choose. Thappu ledhu. 

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1 hour ago, PanduRangaRao said:

u never know who is scamster until u myarry him/her.. parents will always doubt.. is there any guarantee that parents bringing match is mr/ms. ferfect??? bemmi.sutti.gif

Risks are much less man. Parents thechchina vallalo pondakorlu kooda untaru. Katnam kosam vedhinche baapathi kooda untundhi. Adhi ledu idhi ledu ani vedhinche baapathi kooda untundhi. But those two reasons will vanish if girl and boy sync. The most important thing for it to work is to not have super high expectations on your partner. Stupid ga Aishwarya Rai leda Mahesh Babu kaavalani koorchunte inka pelli ayinatte.

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