Do parents have the right to decide the bride/groom for their child?

[seal_breaker]

Yevvaru decide chesina pelli taruvatha sukhanga untarani guarentee ledu. Atleast godavalu vaste parents support untundi financially and emotionally in case of arranged marriages

[PanduRangaRao]

10 hours ago, Staysafebro said:

Risks are much less man. Parents thechchina vallalo pondakorlu kooda untaru. Katnam kosam vedhinche baapathi kooda untundhi. Adhi ledu idhi ledu ani vedhinche baapathi kooda untundhi. But those two reasons will vanish if girl and boy sync. The most important thing for it to work is to not have super high expectations on your partner. Stupid ga Aishwarya Rai leda Mahesh Babu kaavalani koorchunte inka pelli ayinatte.

risk regarding safety is less.. but risk regaridng happiness is more.. teda oste life long parents ni blame chestu kurchutundi/kurchuntadu  

[Staysafebro]

1 hour ago, PanduRangaRao said:

risk regarding safety is less.. but risk regaridng happiness is more.. teda oste life long parents ni blame chestu kurchutundi/kurchuntadu  

Happiness risk used to been more when the girl and boy did not talk much before marriage. These days they talk and check before marrying. I know you can talk to someone for a year and still not know them, but that risk is less. Bayata vallandharu attention isthunnaru ani cheppi vallantha neeku suit avutharu anukovadam thappu. 

[Maryadaramanna]

yes, 

Love marriage is also ok, but 1st we have to see if the candidate is worthy to be a bride groom (good character + earning ability). 

[AndhraneedSCS]

Maruthi Rao  ki only one daughter? no other kids?

[Yaman02]

valla asthulu athu mukka anukunte  make yourself worthy.- dictate your life in your own terms. Never ever let someone (even parents to rule them over).

[Yaman02]

3 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

Maruthi Rao  ki only one daughter? no other kids?

champe antha prema vunte chahche antha prema vundali. 20 yrs prema ante plan chesi murder cheyadam kadu, papam chesina kuda  padi mandi lo nee kuthuri mananni, prananni kapadukovadam.

[pillirevanth]

Naa career lo nenu chala love affairs chusa friends madya. kondaridi serious love started in 9th class. Kondaridi time pass love.

Na view lo parents practical ga undali. Valla kids ki adaloscent age lone friend la undi sex, lust, career, infatuation, study ila anniti gurinchi detail ga discuss cheyali. Enno movies unnayi practicalality chupinchataaniki if you are not a good narrator. So ammayiki brain maturity vasthe she can choose a life partner if she come acrooss during her education. if not she and her parents work together and choose the best one among arrange marriages.

In Reality em jarugutadi ante, as per my experience most of the families lo ammayi ante konchem chinna chupu untadi, like ammayi ni goverment school lo abbayini corporate school lo join cheyadam like that. ammayini takkuva chudatam, abbayiki ekkuva importance ivvadam. Ilantivi cheyatam valla most of the girls miss small small affections. Iga school and college lo join avvagane abbyilu vala vese stage lo konchem prema ga matladagane ekkadaleni happiness vachi love loveda ani matladutaru(mana cinema la prabhavam). Obviously abbayi settle ayyi undadu/kula pichi ila different reasons tho girl parents oppukoru, aithe house arrest chestaru lekapothe immediate ga matches chustaru. inkendi iddaru jump kodataru, cut chesthe aarya samajam lo pelli. Routine story. With in 1 year lo iddaru salla padataru. We have seen many cases. Most popular one is mana chiru gaari chinna kooturu.

maa friend ki love marriage chesam btech 2nd year lo, ammayi parents enni sketches vesina cinema level lo counter-sketch vesi maree chesam.
Cut chesthe with in 3 months lo ammayi suicide chesukundi. That's a lifetime regret for all of my friends who involved in that marriage.

[TheBrahmabull]

15 hours ago, PanduRangaRao said:

maruthi rao reason edaina.. it is every telugu parent's wish to have a call in deciding their childrens' spouses.. ide fundamental factor..

idi right aa wrong aa..

randi discuss cheddam

right aa wrong aa ani discuss cheyalanna ... asalu atla enduku hindus thara tharalanundi parents/peddalu chusina pelli chesukuntunnaro telusukoni discussion pettukondi baguntadi with atleast some written facs

[raithu_bidda1]

17 minutes ago, pillirevanth said:

maa friend ki love marriage chesam btech 2nd year lo, ammayi parents enni sketches vesina cinema level lo counter-sketch vesi maree chesam.
Cut chesthe with in 3 months lo ammayi suicide chesukundi. That's a lifetime regret for all of my friends who involved in that marriage.

vuu @pillirevanth story please

[surya_tej]

Parents should stop bothering about their children once they are graduated...let them make their own choices, learn from their mistakes, be independent. They should rather plan their life after retirement, save money for themselves rather than saving money, accumulating wealth for the children.

[SeemaLekka]

inthaki em telcharu

[Rushabhi]

Parents chesina marriages bollu choosa that have failed right from my grandparents age to my age. Maa grandparents age lo gatyantharam leka undevallu marriage lo. Parents age lo kontha mandiki bayataki vache dairyam leka undevallu. And kontha mandi bayatiki vachesi andaritho maatalu paduthu undevallu. The more conservatively you bring up your girls ante vallaki choice lekunda valla maatalu vinakunda ammayilu ante idhe cheyyali annatlu brought up unte the more they suffer when they become adults

[Rushabhi]

In fact maa illallo andarivi arranged marriages e. But 50:50 ayyayi marriage success.  50 percent failed marriages e. Gathyantaram leka undatame. Naaku pelli ante gaja gaja because of that. Luckily other 50 percent lo padda. But my father never pressured me for any sambandham. Out of my own will chesukunna. He was more like a facilitator 

[Amrita]

15 hours ago, Run said:

e prema dhoma annukunte pothe ..panulu kavu.... take the best one you have and work with it.... ani oka pedhayina cheppadu

Pelli is not pani. It's not like choosing a car or dress. Wrong decision will take you on a ride. JMO.