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3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

You be nice to her and she will be nice to you . At the end you both will be selfish about your own family and will just do the needed support your parents (both). 

Vunty essay question adigithe, fill in the blanks la answer chesav.

koncham ekkuva light visuru

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6 minutes ago, InSearch said:

be like room mates antaav..

but mana samaajam prakaram ivanni chellav bro..

working wife unte .. paisal untaay, manhsanti undadu

eppudu edo oka lolli.. cunning planning from both partners on using the money for their families

my 98 cents

Aithe house wife ee better antava jahapana

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4 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

whatever is cost which is in sharing needs to come out from shared acccout..

if total shared expenses are 10k/permonth then each has to contribute 5000 permonth

rest money individual savings...

 

Idhi koncham tedaga undi vayya

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10 minutes ago, Minion040190 said:

Paisal pampataniki edoka purpose untune untundi kada vayya. Pelli ayyaka I thought in-laws financial situation kotta family meda padadhu anukuntunna. Mari ee vishayalu pelliki mundu discuss cheyala? pelli tarvata?

You cannot know their financial situation before marriage.

go with flow dude, there is no hard and fast rule.  

My opinion , she can support her parents living expenses (max : $300) if she is working.  $300 is not at all an amount if she works in software. 

 

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7 minutes ago, Minion040190 said:

Vunty essay question adigithe, fill in the blanks la answer chesav.

koncham ekkuva light visuru

Ni relationship batti untundi man. If you both have good understanding you will support her parents out of love on your wife and with respect on in laws .  Same with her. As a family bonding undali daniki regular ga matladutu/kalustu undali. Any relationship andari nunchi effort unte bavuntundi and money will become secondary at that point. Adi lekapote money will be most important thing ..  paisal topic vaste kottukuntaru and family harmony will be effected. 

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6 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Igo vaya...pendli cheskuntunava leka setu kada lekkal rastunava ? 

Avasaralu etluntayo telvadu...situations are dynamic..anthe kani rendu case scenarios esi now what ani pendli ki link petukunte iga nuv samsaram chesinatte...

 

Mundugaley oka maata anukunte tarvata godavalu ravu kada vayya. 

Ipudu pelli aynaka na future wife me parents ki paisal pampaku andi anuko naku kalthadi coz parents financial abbaila responsibility.

Alage in-laws ki paisal pamutha ante nenu vaddu annanu anuko pilla ki kopam vastadi kada. But in my mind in-laws financial situation abbai ki mostly undadhu in my opinion.

Already pellai aina vaallu experience ay untaru kabatti telusundam ani vishayam.

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51 minutes ago, Minion040190 said:

Working ammaini pelli cheskunte :

Q1. After marriage ammai paisal in-laws ki veltaya? Husband family ki veltaya?

  1. in-laws ki okate ammai aithe
  2. in-alws ki andaru ammaile
  3. in-laws ki min oka abbai and ammai.

Q2. After marriage me parents ki paisal pampali ante wife permission teskovala?

koncham light visarandi.

ee question ki answer pelliki munde adagocha?

Neeku nee parents elono ammayi ki tana parents anthe. Nuvvu mee parents ki need vunte ela adjust chestavo expect her to do that for her parents too. Aa understanding vundi and mee life meeda clarity vunte no problem otherwise expect some headache until one of you become mature enough to ignore those small things.

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2 minutes ago, Minion040190 said:

Mundugaley oka maata anukunte tarvata godavalu ravu kada vayya. 

Ipudu pelli aynaka na future wife me parents ki paisal pampaku andi anuko naku kalthadi coz parents financial abbaila responsibility.

Alage in-laws ki paisal pamutha ante nenu vaddu annanu anuko pilla ki kopam vastadi kada. But in my mind in-laws financial situation abbai ki mostly undadhu in my opinion.

Already pellai aina vaallu experience ay untaru kabatti telusundam ani vishayam.

Mundu matladite they might misunderstand you as they don't know you. Ayina mundu ok ante taruvata ade mata mida nelabadataru ani emundi? Situation batti deal cheyali ilantivi there is no mathematical formula.  Be with open mind and win heart mitavanni deal cheyachu as time/situation comes.

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Just now, Minion040190 said:

Mundugaley oka maata anukunte tarvata godavalu ravu kada vayya. 

Ipudu pelli aynaka na future wife me parents ki paisal pampaku andi anuko naku kalthadi coz parents financial abbaila responsibility.

Alage in-laws ki paisal pamutha ante nenu vaddu annanu anuko pilla ki kopam vastadi kada. But in my mind in-laws financial situation abbai ki mostly undadhu in my opinion.

Already pellai aina vaallu experience ay untaru kabatti telusundam ani vishayam.

Arey avu vaya...muchata endo telvakunda emi mata anukuntav vaya ? Anukunna mata mida nilabadakapothey tarvata ? Situation itlaitadi ani cheppi vastada ? 

Life ia dynamic man...situation ni chusi, daniki emi cheyalo adi cheyali...oh nalugu metlu ekkudo leka digudo, anthe kani igo ida 4 metlu vunai, nenu rendu ae ekkutha ante chetiki vachevi kuda andakunda potayi

what I’m saying, ivanni panikirani muchatlu...ie mata rasukunnna kuda, avasaraniki change chesukuntam...

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