1 minute ago, KathiRamdaas said:

parents enni rojul untaaru...okanu oka point lo burst aipoi 10gey nee pillal ni nuvve soosko nannu india pampinchey anna parents ni chaala choosina

appudu atta, maama ni pilustaru. 

lekapote oka aaya ni pettukuntaru. cheppina kada they have 100 ways.

ofcourse debate cheyyali ante, neeku kooda 100 ways dorukutayi. 

 

naa conclusion endi ante, rules marchinanta maatrana em kaadu. adi vaala mind set lo change raavali.

any how, ippatike chaala cheppesa. inka naa spamming nenu chesukiunta.

 

jai balayya 

Just now, MDharmarajuMA said:

Plus veelu older ayyapatiki, kids grow and settle ayyipotharu.. Retirement life enjoy cheyochu.

Idhi rachha true asalu... many don’t realize the bliss of second innings (after kids are on their own). Thokkalo planning anukuntoo tensed life bathukuthu 35 and above tharvatha pillal kani... second innings lekunda cheskuntaar...

Just now, reality said:

Idhi rachha true asalu... many don’t realize the bliss of second innings (after kids are on their own). Thokkalo planning anukuntoo tensed life bathukuthu 35 and above tharvatha pillal kani... second innings lekunda cheskuntaar...

2 hours ago, sivanadha said:

Bhayyas, 

                marriage ayyi almost 1 year ayyindi , 3-4 years kids vadduanukunnam. kaani ninna  telisindi wife pregant ani .. enni test lu techina same result .. we are panicking now.. this is so unexpected .. she is career oriented and India lo job  chesindi . eppudu ekkada just got her H4 ead and searching for jobs  maaku ela proceed avvalao artam kavadam ledu .. did any one in DB go through this.. How did you deal with this and prepare? Please  advise cheyyandi .. 

career oriented unte she will find job after having child also-think positive...antha tension em ledu...only u need to worry if u r not financially stable ...rest all jujubi...congrats...

1 hour ago, mettastar said:

Me wife ki already exp undi kabatti job kottadam kastam emi kadhu .. job vasthe atleast 2-3 months maternity dorukudhi .. oka first 6 months parents help theesukunte tharvatha inka day care lo pettukovachu .. 

But with and without kids life style zameen asmaan farak untadi .. kothaga pellaindhi inka ma iddariki time kavali ani meru anukunte i would suggest abortion

worst advice.

2 hours ago, sivanadha said:

Bhayyas, 

                marriage ayyi almost 1 year ayyindi , 3-4 years kids vadduanukunnam. kaani ninna  telisindi wife pregant ani .. enni test lu techina same result .. we are panicking now.. this is so unexpected .. she is career oriented and India lo job  chesindi . eppudu ekkada just got her H4 ead and searching for jobs  maaku ela proceed avvalao artam kavadam ledu .. did any one in DB go through this.. How did you deal with this and prepare? Please  advise cheyyandi .. 

you are a perfect example of what is wrong with current generation of people... kid is more important than second paycheck..instead of being happy about having a kid..you are worried about second paycheck getting delayed.. oka paycheck unte kid ki annam pettaleva

 

3-4 yrs anedi some artificial aspect, it didn't work out anukovaali..

it is better to have a kid at younger age than delaying, 30 dataka chala complications untaayi pregnancy lo

 

 

1 hour ago, tacobell fan said:

Panic avvakunda ela untaru man. You cannot assume. My close friend who got married and his wife conceived in 1 month and I know how much they worried because more than being pregnant they worried about people around them because they feel ashamed. It need strong/bold heart but I don't blame anyone in that position because there isn't anything wrong. It's first time for everyone. 

Lol, ashamed of people around them ahh??? What is there to be ashamed bro??

1 hour ago, tom brady said:

Chaliki babies alavatu padaru anedi wierdest reason...moms health bagalekapothe send both mom n kid to india not jus kid...sending kid to india so that both parents can do their jobs is the worst culture we bought in...daanini samardhinchakandi

you rock... lafooot naaa kondigaaaluuu falthuuu parents chaala mandhi unnaruu bro mana DB la.. ala kids ni india ki ship cheyyadam

5 minutes ago, user789 said:

worst advice.

hmm okay, once pillalu puttina tharvatha life will be different man .. I'm not saying I dont love babies .. but manaki kuda life undali kada .. after pelli at least 2-3yrs then pillalu is good .. pelli kaagane pillalu ante .. young age antha pillalathone saripothundi and after that responsibilities perigipothayi and you wont get back those days... 

mana vaallu dating lu gatra kuda chaala thakuva .. so wife and husband spend chesina time chaala thakkuva untundi ... this is my reason .. if it is in early stages 

Thread esi vellipoyadu kada OP.... okka reply lekunda .... meeru andaru edo fighting chesukuntunnaru kani OP/admin manchiga replies saduvukuntunnademo... 

2 hours ago, sivanadha said:

Bhayyas, 

                marriage ayyi almost 1 year ayyindi , 3-4 years kids vadduanukunnam. kaani ninna  telisindi wife pregant ani .. enni test lu techina same result .. we are panicking now.. this is so unexpected .. she is career oriented and India lo job  chesindi . eppudu ekkada just got her H4 ead and searching for jobs  maaku ela proceed avvalao artam kavadam ledu .. did any one in DB go through this.. How did you deal with this and prepare? Please  advise cheyyandi .. 

okasari avani couple ni face chesi ra..

pichak&*^ mana it jobs ki kuda career anta oriented anta..

 

 

 

Clarity -- links missing

WIfe emantundi? --  yes or no question

Are you financially stable?

Nee opinion strictly -- yes or no question

are you sure you will never regret if aborted?

parents ki cheppara? chepte emantaru

Age enta?

are u or ur wife listens to someone and change opinion or no monarch type?

 

Answer all these then can respond

 

 

36 minutes ago, mettastar said:

hmm okay, once pillalu puttina tharvatha life will be different man .. I'm not saying I dont love babies .. but manaki kuda life undali kada .. after pelli at least 2-3yrs then pillalu is good .. pelli kaagane pillalu ante .. young age antha pillalathone saripothundi and after that responsibilities perigipothayi and you wont get back those days... 

mana vaallu dating lu gatra kuda chaala thakuva .. so wife and husband spend chesina time chaala thakkuva untundi ... this is my reason .. if it is in early stages 

yes. I agree kids after 2-3 yrs is good as it will give time for parents to know each other and enjoy life . Once kids are born the life will change completely,  the focus is only on the kid and nothing else, but if its done then its done and abortion is not good idea.  

4 minutes ago, user789 said:

yes. I agree kids after 2-3 yrs is good as it will give time for parents to know each other and enjoy life . Once kids are born the life will change completely,  the focus is only on the kid and nothing else, but if its done then its done and abortion is not good idea.  

early stages aithe can go for it .. as @tom brady said..  inka complete ga form avvadhu ... sentimental aithe kastam 

but any way aa situation lo unna vaallaki telusthundi asalu pain .. so TS don't take my suggestion

@chicago_subbarao- what have you decided ?