AleAle Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 Just now, JohnSnow said: fact e kadha sister. cant generalize ipdu both are working n earning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daaarling Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 Girls who give dowry will make that they extract each rupee after marriage from the boy after marriage. More the dowry more demanding the girl will be and they have this attitude that they bought this guy in the market until and unless the guy is really rich and earning good. In any case if the boy has weak financial background and took more dowry then his life is hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AleAle Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 Just now, Daaarling said: Girls who give dowry will make that they extract each rupee after marriage from the boy after marriage. More the dowry more demanding the girl will be and they have this attitude that they bought this guy in the market until and unless the guy is really rich and earning good. In any case if the boy has weak financial background and took more dowry then his life is hell. asalu dowry enduku ivvali ammayi job cheyali earn cheyali , pillalni kanali , inti pananta cheyali then dowry kuda ivvali ammayi peru mida property techukodam undadam fine but there are many cases where guy parents demand and take lumsome cash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, Daaarling said: Girls who give dowry will make that they extract each rupee after marriage from the boy after marriage. More the dowry more demanding the girl will be and they have this attitude that they bought this guy in the market until and unless the guy is really rich and earning good. In any case if the boy has weak financial background and took more dowry then his life is hell. True. konchem aina reality matlaade ammai vi anipinchav. Mogudu kavali, magadu kavali, cheppinattu padundali ante kashtam. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pillipilla Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 5 minutes ago, JohnSnow said: Nen ninnu analedhu baa.. dowry icchi sarvam kolpoyam ani feel ayye feminists ni anna. Nuvvu emanna icchinava endhi dowry? Ichina, vantintlo padunde vallu kavalante saripoyenta ichina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AleAle Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 4 minutes ago, JohnSnow said: True. konchem aina reality matlaade ammai vi anipinchav. Mogudu kavali, magadu kavali, cheppinattu padundali ante kashtam. again it all depends on family in my case my ex mother in law said they spent 25 lakhs for her son's education, so they want 25 lakhs in form of cash. when my dad gave banker cheque , she said you dont have trust n they need cash. dowry and marriage ela karchupettina , enni chesina adiginavanni they wont get satisfy and they torture the girl and more more adgutu untaru .poni kapuram kuda jaragadu jaraganiyyaru deyyalu,.. finally divorce and rebuild life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 3 minutes ago, AleAle said: asalu dowry enduku ivvali ammayi job cheyali earn cheyali , pillalni kanali , inti pananta cheyali then dowry kuda ivvali ammayi peru mida property techukodam undadam fine but there are many cases where guy parents demand and take lumsome cash. Dowry ivvaddhu, alagani unrealistic expectations kuda pettukovaddhu. Asalu abbai ki properties deniki undali, aadapaduchulu lekunda deniki undali, Gc or citizenship deniki, six figure salary deniki? Just job saripodha baaga chusukovadaniki? marriage ayyaka overnight lo rich or vacation every 3 months life ni mundhe oohinchukune badhulu, ground reality lo unte ammailu, abbailu kuda dowry adagaru. For girl's parents, its business to give their girl to someone richer than them by 10 fold, and likewise its okay for guys to ask dowry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 3 minutes ago, AleAle said: again it all depends on family in my case my ex mother in law said they spent 25 lakhs for her son's education, so they want 25 lakhs in form of cash. when my dad gave banker cheque , she said you dont have trust n they need cash. dowry and marriage ela karchupettina , enni chesina adiginavanni they wont get satisfy and they torture the girl and more more adgutu untaru .poni kapuram kuda jaragadu jaraganiyyaru deyyalu,.. finally divorce and rebuild life Anni adiginappude lite theesukovali.. or anni adigaka kuda compromise ayyi chesukunnavante what did you expect from them? antha compromise ayye offer emundhani valla daggara? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 6 minutes ago, Pillipilla said: Ichina, vantintlo padunde vallu kavalante saripoyenta ichina nuvvu aada or maga baa? honest doubt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AleAle Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 Just now, JohnSnow said: Dowry ivvaddhu, alagani unrealistic expectations kuda pettukovaddhu. Asalu abbai ki properties deniki undali, aadapaduchulu lekunda deniki undali, Gc or citizenship deniki, six figure salary deniki? Just job saripodha baaga chusukovadaniki? marriage ayyaka overnight lo rich or vacation every 3 months life ni mundhe oohinchukune badhulu, ground reality lo unte ammailu, abbailu kuda dowry adagaru. For girl's parents, its business to give their girl to someone richer than them by 10 fold, and likewise its okay for guys to ask dowry. lol andaru okalaga undaru na ex ki 5 sisters, gc ledu apdu salary kuda 60 k,properties levu makanna chalaa takuva unay.. baga chuskuntadu masters chesadu ikda earning ani chesaru em ayndi ive seen many cases akda abbay chuddaniki bagodu , asti undadu ,, oka job chesta untadu and demand huge dowry ipdu both r earning so enduku ivali , mogadu laga puttadanaa dowry expect cheynodu asalu magadu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AleAle Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 3 minutes ago, JohnSnow said: Anni adiginappude lite theesukovali.. or anni adigaka kuda compromise ayyi chesukunnavante what did you expect from them? antha compromise ayye offer emundhani valla daggara? na hands lo ledu anta peddavallu arranged happyga unta ani apdu think chesenta maturity kuda ledu i just finished btech and he is 5 years elder to me And edo na experience cheppa, i dont wish to dwell in past, am happyily married now. iddaram earning, iddaram well settled Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pillipilla Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 5 minutes ago, AleAle said: asalu dowry enduku ivvali Iyyali dowry. Because men struggle a lot to be sold for during marriage. They work all their life so that they are worth something during marriage. If women don't give men dowry, then there is no point in men struggling all their life to be worth something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, AleAle said: lol andaru okalaga undaru na ex ki 5 sisters, gc ledu apdu salary kuda 60 k,properties levu makanna chalaa takuva unay.. baga chuskuntadu masters chesadu ikda earning ani chesaru em ayndi ive seen many cases akda abbay chuddaniki bagodu , asti undadu ,, oka job chesta untadu and demand huge dowry ipdu both r earning so enduku ivali , mogadu laga puttadanaa dowry expect cheynodu asalu magadu Asal dowry dowry antaru, pelli chesukoni aa dowry evaru vadutharu yaa, vadi wife e ga. Asalu venaka aasthulu emi aasinchakunda magadi venta vacchedhe asalaina aadadhi. Pelliki mundhe flat undha car undha anedhi kadhu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnSnow Posted November 13, 2019 Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 3 minutes ago, AleAle said: na hands lo ledu anta peddavallu arranged happyga unta ani apdu think chesenta maturity kuda ledu i just finished btech and he is 5 years elder to me Then you dont have a right to comment about it after the marriage if the marriage itself is not your choice. This is not stone age. Oka vela mee parents chesina, antha diga jaari mari oppukovalsina pani emundhani mee parents ni question cheyyaledha? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daaarling Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2019 Let us discuss facts. Parents give dowry after examining everything carefully like grooms background, earnings and character. To be honest, man will lose his freedom after marriage and for the girl there is nothing to lose. Women are reserved from the beginning so it doesn't effect them, in fact they do what they want to do after marriage. It is easy to convince husband than father. Due to possessiveness girl seeks all attention thus Boy lose his friends and family. He will be submissive to the girl thinking that she gave him the financial stability and security in terms of dowry. Men who wont take dowry are more bossy as they know that they are not obliged to listen to the girl and she is dependent on him. More the dowry taken more the slavery for men. It is all give and take game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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