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Is it unreasonable/unrealistic to expect bride with no past(excluding crushes, short/not-so-serious relationship with no intimacy) in arranged marriage. I am born and bred in Andhra.


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Posted
6 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

@someguy are you still virgin ? 

yup. I guess a good number of others are too!?,

or, nenokkadine(among some others) inka 1950's lone unnana?

Posted
18 minutes ago, ShruteSastry said:

Expecting Seetha when you are Ram is totally normal.

I'm sure, most of your points are valid, and yes traditional arranged marriages and traditional girls inka unnaru.

Hope you get what you deserve.

thanks :) 

Posted
5 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

 (i.e not just holding hangs and maybe kissing/hugging, which is a bit fine)
 

Pina statement choodu kaka... nuvvu cheppina vi aa list lo levu sorry nuvvu not a virgin 😜😜

Nqa sangathi ideseyi

ante inka just intercourse cheyakapthe Virgin ante correct kaadu emo you went to sc, mp for some sexual gratification

Also in this current stress world where marriages are after 30 , life epdu potado ivqdiki teliyadam ledu chinna chinna anandalu lekapthe kastam 

Posted
5 minutes ago, someguy said:

yup. I guess a good number of others are too!?,

or, nenokkadine(among some others) inka 1950's lone unnana?

 

Ledu le Kakà... mari antha particular ga vundaku ladies Vishayam lo... there are lot of girls which falls under your requirement but the real question is are you good enough for them ?

anyways past life experiences relations vunna kooda after marriage ela vuntaru anedi important for both sides... if you are comfortable with the girl then go ahead...

already 29 antunnaav... inka one year aagithe neeku vache offers kooda thaguthayu

Posted
5 minutes ago, kothavani said:

Nqa sangathi ideseyi

ante inka just intercourse cheyakapthe Virgin ante correct kaadu emo you went to sc, mp for some sexual gratification

Also in this current stress world where marriages are after 30 , life epdu potado ivqdiki teliyadam ledu chinna chinna anandalu lekapthe kastam 

Totally agreed 

Posted
5 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

Ledu le Kakà... mari antha particular ga vundaku ladies Vishayam lo... there are lot of girls which falls under your requirement but the real question is are you good enough for them ?

anyways past life experiences relations vunna kooda after marriage ela vuntaru anedi important for both sides... if you are comfortable with the girl then go ahead...

already 29 antunnaav... inka one year aagithe neeku vache offers kooda thaguthayu

past unnantha matrana vallu manushulu kaadu ani anatledu :) 

if anything at all, they might be better human beings than me, I have my own shortcomings. Its just, I don't think I will be able to digest the fact that my partner had did it with someone else or was emotionally connected very much. I guess I am having lot of insecurities or retroactive jealousy.
But, oka genuine doubt, migata abbaylu kuda ilani untaru anukunna (regardless of their past/virginity status). but ala kanipinchadam ledu, chala odd ga anipinchindi!.

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Thiragaka gents, thirigi ladies padaipotharu anta😂😂so nuvvu intlo kurchoni pp0rn choosi kottukovadam ne thappu😂😂

Posted
9 minutes ago, Sreeven said:

matter in one line please

simple. maadi andhra, traditional background, arranged marriages chustunnaru. ippatidaaka, na general assumption enti ante - in arranged marriages, past undadani(at least ammayalaku, most of the times), but adi maynot be true ani anipistundi, but not sure. so, entha nijam undi ani telusukundamani (with unbiased answers)

Posted
3 minutes ago, mustang302 said:

Thiragaka gents, thirigi ladies padaipotharu anta😂😂so nuvvu intlo kurchoni pp0rn choosi kottukovadam ne thappu😂😂

part of it is true :).

but i hope the other part is just for joke, manam thirigi vallani thiragoddu ani ela expect/demand cheyyagalam bro!

Posted

inko separate question (already main post lo adiga)

ikkada max NRIs aa?

Posted
4 minutes ago, someguy said:

simple. maadi andhra, traditional background, arranged marriages chustunnaru. ippatidaaka, na general assumption enti ante - in arranged marriages, past undadani(at least ammayalaku, most of the times), but adi maynot be true ani anipistundi, but not sure. so, entha nijam undi ani telusukundamani (with unbiased answers)

So what u can do?? Past unte emi chestac?? 

Posted
38 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

@someguy are you still virgin ? 

virginity is overated 

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Posted
1 hour ago, someguy said:

. I am actually a bit introverted and don't know much on what goes around(really!), loka gnanam koncham takkuva, eppudu chuttu em jaruguthundani pattichchukoledu, just na pani nenu chesukuntu velle rakam.

pakkada iddaru 10ginchukuntunte nuvvu chudava 

mee roomate gadu ammyilanu techi room lo ghapa ghap chestunte nuvvu fell avvava

Posted
1 hour ago, someguy said:

> boyfriends culture anthaga undakapovachchu, at least in the traditional families, which are the most common in arranged marriages.

BF unte tappu endi ?

 sex before marriage tappa ?

consensual sex is ok ani court cheppindi kada 

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