House buying pressure

[mummadi]

Simple. If not for single family house, try renting or buying a town house. 

 

Nee montlhy rent entha chusko. Adi every month expire avuddi.  Ade mortgage ki kadthe oka 30% principal lo ki velthadi. if that works out, buying a new house is not a bad idea as long as you are committed to living in that same place.

 

Ofcourse, 5% down tho loan tisko...and initial closing expenses and maybe finally selling expenses okati extra avthai..so see how u want to play it.

[AverageDesiGuy]

Skip the gatherings or move to Alaska or Keep your wife busy with some training..!

[pandemkodi]

Introduce her to db  and show housing crash threads 

 

 

[Undilaemanchikalam]

1 hour ago, Sonu_Patel said:

 

bhayyas,

marriage ayye 1 year avtondi.. wife ni friends gatherings ki teskelledam jarigindi mostly house warmings.. ipudu single family house kavali antundi.. 

she is not working yet but I am just 27 years old and no plan to have kids fo next 3 years..

We are happy in apartment living but she is feeling jealous when we go to gatherings. 

 

em cheyali zara salaha ivvandi. 

 

Maintain only apartments circle.
Discuss your financial situations.

[Undilaemanchikalam]

Just now, Undilaemanchikalam said:

Maintain only apartments circle.
Discuss your financial situations.

If you got a stable job, decent salary, buy a town home. 

[Picheshwar]

28 minutes ago, godfather03 said:

Atlanta or Nashville lo illu kontunna ani post chesindi nuvve kada (last year)?

appatlo spouse working kooda annadu

 

 

[JackSeal]

1 hour ago, Sonu_Patel said:

 

bhayyas,

marriage ayye 1 year avtondi.. wife ni friends gatherings ki teskelledam jarigindi mostly house warmings.. ipudu single family house kavali antundi.. 

she is not working yet but I am just 27 years old and no plan to have kids fo next 3 years..

We are happy in apartment living but she is feeling jealous when we go to gatherings. 

 

em cheyali zara salaha ivvandi. 

 

wife adguthe oka illu konaleni vadivi…  NRI, American dreams chupinchi oka pasi ammai gonthu kosav kada vayya… malli American dream chupinchi kotlu kotlu dowry vasulu chestharu

[JackSeal]

2 minutes ago, Picheshwar said:

appatlo spouse working kooda annadu

 

 

2020 lo marriage ayyi 6 months aeithe, 2022 ke 1yr etla aeithadhi ? second marriage emo

[vishesh]

1 hour ago, Sonu_Patel said:

 

bhayyas,

marriage ayye 1 year avtondi.. wife ni friends gatherings ki teskelledam jarigindi mostly house warmings.. ipudu single family house kavali antundi.. 

she is not working yet but I am just 27 years old and no plan to have kids fo next 3 years..

We are happy in apartment living but she is feeling jealous when we go to gatherings. 

 

em cheyali zara salaha ivvandi. 

 

 

US lo jealous  common, house konna vallu rich kaadhu ,house leni poor kaadhu , alanti mind set thoney jealousy vastadhi talk to your wife one to one don't involve your or her  parents or friends  in this type of discussion , DB lo ilanti question ki mixed response vastadhi.

[godfather03]

20 minutes ago, Picheshwar said:

appatlo spouse working kooda annadu

 

 

Yes - Kompadeesi idi Mod Id aa... Friday traffic kosam created aa?

[Fish]

1 hour ago, Sonu_Patel said:

 

bhayyas,

marriage ayye 1 year avtondi.. wife ni friends gatherings ki teskelledam jarigindi mostly house warmings.. ipudu single family house kavali antundi.. 

she is not working yet but I am just 27 years old and no plan to have kids fo next 3 years..

We are happy in apartment living but she is feeling jealous when we go to gatherings. 

 

em cheyali zara salaha ivvandi. 

 

Career guidance ichi wife ni job ki pampinchandi…..everyone needs to know financial responsibility

 

[Fish]

1 hour ago, phatposts said:

ask her to take incharge of finances. I keep $1000 (or whatever) and rest is all joint account. You manage for a year, if you are comfortable we will buy but wait for this 1 year ani cheppu. 

if she is not working i think she should also get an "allowance" like you get one. nee dabbulu batti divide in to 3 parts - 1 allowance for you, 2 allowance for her, 3 rest for house. 

1 and 2 are personal - 3 is for living/saving/house/bokka/boshanam. 

these conversations can get ugly - keep your calm and be at it.

 

 

Well said…really appreciate the way you treat your life partner 

[Galactus]

Desi house warming ceremonies are all show off stuff in most cases , don't go , problem solved! 

[Fish]

41 minutes ago, pandemkodi said:

Introduce her to db  and show housing crash threads 

 

 

 

[Picheshwar]

41 minutes ago, JackSeal said:

2020 lo marriage ayyi 6 months aeithe, 2022 ke 1yr etla aeithadhi ? second marriage emo