manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly. How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barney_Stinson Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 MiLs could be the worst giving double trouble mis guiding their everytime correct daughters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AverageDesiGuy Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 Does your wife work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 1 minute ago, AverageDesiGuy said: Does your wife work? Yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Aquaman Posted December 5, 2022 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 pichivada..you are like a toy & money making machine now. after marriage, you are a provider to your wife and kids anthe bend , keep silent ,work hard that too life long and feed them, no questions . Harsh reality. 5 4 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, Barney_Stinson said: MiLs could be the worst giving double trouble mis guiding their everytime correct daughters It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shameless Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 15 minutes ago, manamthoupule said: . Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly. This is total Desi truth kno bro?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Android_Halwa Posted December 5, 2022 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 6 minutes ago, manamthoupule said: It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother. Intlo switch esthe balcony la light on aye vyharam idi...antha tondarga vadaladu..mee atha musaldi ayi..mee wife life la picha busy aithe thappa niu ie kastalu taggavu... mee wife degara vunna paisal anni khatam pattiyyi...gold konistha ani oka 20-30k loan teesukuni, make her pay for the loan...atarvata daily spending kosam ani credit cards vadipadeyyi...initially jara lolli lolli pedtadi but gold konichinav kabatti emi analekapotadi...then start blackmailing...ae lolli chesina nuv emi kavalante adi konichina ani emotional hatyachar chey...kastha investment aitadi but safe investment plus pendlam control la vuntadi atarvata MiL sangati suddam... 9 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barney_Stinson Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 13 minutes ago, manamthoupule said: It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother. some women will relaize after certain things and those that don’t realize are the most dangerous and they will never become women only life long girls with kodi dimaag 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 32 minutes ago, manamthoupule said: Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly. How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ? Recently (1 or 2 yrs) married aa?? 😀 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 9 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: Recently (1 or 2 yrs) married aa?? 😀 Yes bro. 6 months ayyindi. I was expecting my wife will change slowly but looks like that's not gonna happen because of my MIL. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BattalaSathi Posted December 5, 2022 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 41 minutes ago, manamthoupule said: Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly. How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ? parledu le..just give it some time.. ante problem resolve avuthudani kaadu...neeku alavatu ayipothadhi...anthe.. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 5, 2022 Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 1 minute ago, manamthoupule said: Yes bro. 6 months ayyindi. I was expecting my wife will change slowly but looks like that's not gonna happen because of my MIL. It takes some time man.. girls are more close to their mom.. “na family” ani feeling ravadaniki time pattuddi… slowly mould her.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 Looks like there is no solution to this? I will just move on with my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manamthoupule Posted December 5, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2022 1 minute ago, Thokkalee said: It takes some time man.. girls are more close to their mom.. “na family” ani feeling ravadaniki time pattuddi… slowly mould her.. I accept girls are close to their mom. But as I mentioned above I have no hope that she will change bro based on what I experienced so far. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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