Saloly Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Mi parents sick ina terminal ga ill ina India lo, how do you cope up with that staying here. If you are a single child or all your siblings also are staying abroad, how to handle those situations? And did you consider this at all while moving abroad? I heard few stories who couldn't attend parent's death event also due to travel restrictions in peak covid. I'm still in India, but got opportunity in Europe, so thinking of these. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JAMBALHOT_RAJA Posted January 8, 2023 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Most of the people who moved to abroad is due to their parents wish “ma abbayi/ammayi ni America pampali”, they regret this decision after they retire and stay alone in India but it’s too late because their children would have their own family set up in abroad by then 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartan Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 i know a person who has capacity to buy million dollar home with all cash down but in dillema to buy because of the same reason 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saloly Posted January 8, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 3 minutes ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said: Most of the people who moved to abroad is due to their parents wish “ma abbayi/ammayi ni America pampali”, they regret this decision after they retire and stay alone in India but it’s too late because their children would have their own family set up in abroad by then Ade kada bro...moving back with kids is hell, they will suffer too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saloly Posted January 8, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 10 hours ago, Spartan said: i know a person who has capacity to buy million dollar home with all cash down but in dillema to buy because of the same reason Ohhh man!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baabaa Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 My parents were all good and happy that I was staying in US when they were healthy. Now with getting old, health problems and constantly going to hospital/doctor they changed their mindset. They tell neighbors if you have two kids, do not send both to US. Okkalani deggara India lo unchukondi ani cheputunaru. As for me with kids/wife moving back is just not my decision alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kakatiya Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Atleast you will be able to afford their treatment..noway now working in India we would be able to afford their treatment.. Middle class life is no longer sustainable to live in India Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saloly Posted January 8, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 10 minutes ago, baabaa said: My parents were all good and happy that I was staying in US when they were healthy. Now with getting old, health problems and constantly going to hospital/doctor they changed their mindset. They tell neighbors if you have two kids, do not send both to US. Okkalani deggara India lo unchukondi ani cheputunaru. As for me with kids/wife moving back is just not my decision alone. Long-term thinking anade ledu mana mindset lo. Greedy approach, that's why we fuckup everything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saloly Posted January 8, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 6 minutes ago, kakatiya said: Atleast you will be able to afford their treatment..noway now working in India we would be able to afford their treatment.. Middle class life is no longer sustainable to live in India Ledu bro, salaries are UNBELIEVABLE in India after covid era. Savings in India surpassed Europe already for many. Only thing is quality of life is s**t still in India Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baabaa Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 11 minutes ago, Saloly said: Long-term thinking anade ledu mana mindset lo. Greedy approach, that's why we fuckup everything Chala mandi ide story bro. Hopefully new generation in India will be different. Only suggestion for ppl in US I can give is always have valid visa stamp on passport. I learnt it hard way. Visa stamp ledu during covid, consulates closed and could not visit my parents when they got covid. Now, I tell everyone always visa stamp unchokondi even if it means extra trip to mexico/canada/india. Visa expire avvaka munde use dropbox and get the next stamping done. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perugu_vada Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Parents vs kids ,, it’s going to be hard days ahead especially with aging parents gc/citizenship unte finr kani .. h1 ante torture ye .. can’t visit and stay in overseas for so long Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaampire Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 18 minutes ago, kakatiya said: Atleast you will be able to afford their treatment..noway now working in India we would be able to afford their treatment.. Middle class life is no longer sustainable to live in India Disagreed. India lo kooda insurance options chaala vachayi. 2 yrs back mummy ki okka surgery ayindi. We dint pay anything. Insurance pretty much covered it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kakatiya Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 25 minutes ago, Saloly said: Ledu bro, salaries are UNBELIEVABLE in India after covid era. Savings in India surpassed Europe already for many. Only thing is quality of life is s**t still in India Not for all..many are still suffering .few in IT sector saw phenomenal pays..but regular sectors are still suffering 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaampire Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Mana parents generation villages nunchi cities ki migrate ayyaru better oppurtunities kosam. Manam cities nunchi usa ki. No big difference if u have the will to be with parents when they need you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VendyHalwa Posted January 8, 2023 Report Share Posted January 8, 2023 Parents death ki attend avvanivallu labor LK chala vunaru US lo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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