Cousin ladies telling sob stories to my parents

[veerigadu]

Struggles anii seppiuii manchigaaa dabbuluuu dobbuthunnaruuu. Manam vomerica lo….vallu india lo well weekly or biweekly oka visitation vesi full close ayipoyaruuu. 
 

It’s my parents money. I can’t tell them what to do. But still eee charity luuu endhooo…

[veerigadu]

Car ledhuu ani bada paditheee 1.5 lakar iccharantaaa two months ago. Ilaaa ennooo ennnooo unnayiiii stories.
 

My mother is getting connected with ladies sentiments. 😒

[veerigadu]

Moral dilemma. One perspective is…..Its none of my business. Other perspective emo it’s my parents money at the end of the day. I have to protect them from this parasitism  

[Bendapudi_english]

6 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

Moral dilemma. One perspective is…..Its none of my business. Other perspective emo it’s my parents money at the end of the day. I have to protect them from this parasitism  

Ikada andharini bane educate chesthav kadha anna, mi parents ni kuda educate cheyi ela exploit chesthunaro valu 

[veerigadu]

Just now, Bendapudi_english said:

Ikada andharini bane educate chesthav kadha anna, mi parents ni kuda educate cheyi ela exploit chesthunaro valu 

Indirectly tried. But Aaa stage dhatiiipoyaruuu anipisthundhiii anna. Inkaaa li888 theeesukovadameee better. But manusuuu oppukovatleee. It takes time I guess 

[yemdoing]

13 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

Struggles anii seppiuii manchigaaa dabbuluuu dobbuthunnaruuu. Manam vomerica lo….vallu india lo well weekly or biweekly oka visitation vesi full close ayipoyaruuu. 
 

It’s my parents money. I can’t tell them what to do. But still eee charity luuu endhooo…

this is classic case of parents of "NRI"... others play the role of "good" son/"good" daughter in your absence and they get the things in return.

nothing will stop unless you go back to india or bring them here to live with you. 

[tennisluvrredux]

Nuvvu India back vellipoye time daggara padindanna, go back anna save their money

[FrustratedVuncle]

1 hour ago, veerigadu said:

Car ledhuu ani bada paditheee 1.5 lakar iccharantaaa two months ago. Ilaaa ennooo ennnooo unnayiiii stories.
 

My mother is getting connected with ladies sentiments. 😒

 Rich families anukunta. 

Car lekapothe india lo pedda kastama? Me parents ni village side ponivvaku, poor ppl kastalu chooste asthi mottam donate chestaremo.

[tennisluvrredux]

17 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

 Rich families anukunta. 

Car lekapothe india lo pedda kastama? Me parents ni village side ponivvaku, poor ppl kastalu chooste asthi mottam donate chestaremo.

valla aasthi ayithe parle, @veerigadu aasthi kooda donate chesthey ne kastamu

[Rushabhi]

Nee parents money vaalla ishtam anukoku for Gods sake. Vaallani santham naakinchesaaka evaru choodaru vaallani. You have to support them at that point. Plus let’s say vaalla vulnerability ni vaadukoni bad investments chesarante talanoppi neeke 

[Android_Halwa]

2 hours ago, veerigadu said:

Indirectly tried. But Aaa stage dhatiiipoyaruuu anipisthundhiii anna. Inkaaa li888 theeesukovadameee better. But manusuuu oppukovatleee. It takes time I guess 

I know what you must be going through...faced a similar type of situation...rythu bandhu paisal ala padadam, ila dana dharmalaki povadam...emi analemu, enduku ani adagalemu....it took some time but eventually started controlling the flow of money and ipudu peddaga dana dharmalu emi levu..

[dallas_ear_rings]

Thalani thannevaadu vunte thhatini thannetodu okaduntadu

[NaSaavuNenuSasta]

@veerigadu Anna, tell them there is a lot of recession, you may need money anytime so keep at aside for you ..

Ma parents kuda ilage ante nenu ade cheppa.. konchem sardukunnaru .. its hard with them.

Ma amma enta too much invloved ante , ma cousins recent ga ma move ayyaru oori nundi. She is telling us that they are suffering in rented house so she will ask them to live with her temporariry. inta illu em cheskuntam antundi 

mind blowing asalu vella thought process 

 

 

[dallas_ear_rings]

1 hour ago, NaSaavuNenuSasta said:

@veerigadu Anna, tell them there is a lot of recession, you may need money anytime so keep at aside for you ..

Ma parents kuda ilage ante nenu ade cheppa.. konchem sardukunnaru .. its hard with them.

Ma amma enta too much invloved ante , ma cousins recent ga ma move ayyaru oori nundi. She is telling us that they are suffering in rented house so she will ask them to live with her temporariry. inta illu em cheskuntam antundi 

mind blowing asalu vella thought process 

 

 

Itla alochisthe etlanna? Paisal paisal anukunte.. avasaram ayinappudu vallani chusukunedi evaru emergency lo?  Manamemo millions kosam running aaye..

[NaSaavuNenuSasta]

16 hours ago, dallas_ear_rings said:

Itla alochisthe etlanna? Paisal paisal anukunte.. avasaram ayinappudu vallani chusukunedi evaru emergency lo?  Manamemo millions kosam running aaye..

Ledu bhayya, vallu eppudu maku issues unnappudu help cheyyale .. and they are only there to share good times not bad times . memu kastam lo unte mammalni chusi navvina batch bhayya adi .. maa amma marchipoyina nenu marchipoyede ledu vallani..  

i have other relatives  & friends like family who are there for us when we are down, vallatho em issue ledu. nenu chala help chesina covid times lo.  

So ila kathalu cheppi money dobbesevallani antunna