question Help Regarding Marriage And Katnam..

[ronitreddy]

match lite tesko vayya...vallu pelli cheste abbai chadivpichukuntadu anukunedi endi...ante Mski unna dabbu anta aipote papaki pelli cheydaniki emi undadani teliviga alochincharu...ippudu kuda katnam ledu anukunna vallu 30 Lakhs ela ivvadaniki ready ayyaru...aa ichedi edo meeru adagakamunde ivvali...neenaite reject chesta..ika nee istam

chala mandi parents alane alochisthunaru kada 

[ronitreddy]

nenu emi adagaleedu...papa munde chepindi pelli ayyaka feeki maa parents dagara teskodam naku istam ledu ani...naku adi reasonable anipinchi ok anna..kaani valla parents adi padhathi kadu abbaiki burden aipodi ani valle paying..

TS kuda alane ante ignore that match ani septhavaa..fafam TS

[DR.BALI]

mee chelli pelli ki ammaie enduku ivvali, tanaku master's admission vaste, Master's fee enthaite antha vaalu katkovali....or she will take loan for master's and repay it herself..........make both girls independent....u can njoy

[sigsegv]

mee chelli pelli ki ammaie enduku ivvali, tanaku master's admission vaste, Master's fee enthaite antha vaalu katkovali....or she will take loan for master's and repay it herself..........make both girls independent....u can njoy

baaga chepaav man .. ichhi puchukunte adhi marriage avvadhu business avuthundhi .. 

[ronitreddy]

nenu munde cheppa kada I am thinking about loan sister marriage masters for sister and my wife soon... ivanni unnai..

 

MS ki antha avakapovachu kani overall nenu usa ki velli memu iddaram ravadam inka ikkada family setup and everything anthe avuthadi..

 

nenu cheppa masters ki kavali ani.. valle properties istham ante properties emi vadu cash laga aithe better kada ee intiki kateyachu ani thinking anthe..

 

aina pelli ayyaka thanu job chesthu valla intiki pampaniki naku no problem.. nenu ela maa intiki pamputunnano ala...

 

 

repu maa chelli ni inka ekkuva adagachu annaya USA lo untadu ani... appudu feel avvadam kante ippudu thisukovadame better..

Nee drustilo katnam ante properties aa leka liquid cash aa adi cheppu mayya?

[Doola]

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lachhi oka q - for suppose neeku oka akka vundi anuko aame ki chala rojuluga pelli kattam laa.......mottaiki oka sabandam vachhindi abby nachhadu mee family ki everything is good so chala rojulu waiting kabbati mee vaal ki and mee akkaki mari  ok but abbay side vaalu katnam agigaru so nuvvu mee akkaki li8 tesuko ee match ani chebuthava or nee isms anni ataka meeda petti mehandi pettukoni sangeeth lo participate chestava silent ga?

[massmaharaj]

TS experience tho chepthunna

 

maa cousin kuda katnam theesukunnadu, 50 l, motham mama vasam ayaadu, maa cousin bro valla parents koncham feel avuthunnaru

 

and 

 

 

nuvvu thesukunntavu

 

neeku ee right ledhu , mee wife property ni touch cheyainiki endukante neeku rasichinaaa , future lo neekiamana ayithe adhi aaa ammayiki use avuthundani istharu

 

manam kadha credit to debit , debit to credit laga cheyalem , ala chesthe , mee wife asalu undadhu neetho 

 

and mee mama vallu kuda mataladaru ala chesthe

 

 

nuvvu antunnavu , ipppudu aa ammayi theche katnam tho nuvvu house and chelli pelli

 

sare 

 

what is guaranty that you will not ask more dowry after every thing is cleaned out what ever your brings to you

 

nuvvu aa ammayi chesuuntatu unte valla entha isthe antha theesuko 

 

mee chelli ki mathram mee wife dhi theesi pettaku , malla nuvve thread vesthavu , maa wife neetho sariga undatamledhu ani

 

and nuvvu ala chesthe gouravam undadhu

[kakatiya]

my answer

 

1. Katnam teeskotam tappu..

2. Pelli karchulu 50-50 share cheskovali.

3. After marriage wife is your family member, you hold her expenses.

4. if your savings are not coming for your loans and sister marriage, that is common problem for everyone and you shouldnt be troubling the girls paretns.

 

However if you do all the above girl parents should understand your situation and provide finaincial support too just like you are providing to your future..

 

dowry doesnt mean bribe. it is a custom for parents to invest money to couple ..(both from  boy side and girl side). Marriage is like startup company you need good investments to prosper further. 

 

 

if you force and negotiate the money with girls parents then it is a dowry

 

at the same time if the girls parents dont want to contribute their savings to the girl.. it is also as bad as  taking dowry... 

 

in both cases either of the couple will be unhappy.

 

[PichiPyune]

lachhi oka q - for suppose neeku oka akka vundi anuko aame ki chala rojuluga pelli kattam laa.......mottaiki oka sabandam vachhindi abby nachhadu mee family ki everything is good so chala rojulu waiting kabbati mee vaal ki and mee akkaki mari  ok but abbay side vaalu katnam agigaru so nuvvu mee akkaki li8 tesuko ee match ani chebuthava or nee isms anni ataka meeda petti mehandi pettukoni sangeeth lo participate chestava silent ga?

ne situation prakaram.. akkalu untaru valaki pellilu kaavu ani anteyna?.... Girls ki antha duuram wait chesey time and days kadhu idi... so ur perception failedd

 

nakey oka akka undi untey tanu masters chusuntey intha sepu patadu tanaki pelli avataniki... so start eh wrong!!

[ronitreddy]

musti vuncle... properties istam antunru Liquid cash 10l ivatam chala better... evadu cash antha ivatledhu dese days for ur notice

agreed

[massmaharaj]

and more over mee chelli ki iche katnam kuda mee bava ila nee use chesthe u will have same reaction meeru asalu oopppkooru

 

maa pilla manchi kosam ichinaaam 

 

antaru

 

 

ippudu dowry giving fellows antha , ammayi peru meedha lands raasisthunnaru

 

antha easy gaa ammatam kudaraadhu 

[ronitreddy]

ichina properties ammai peru meeda pedtaru...so technically u cant sell them...anduke teliviga properties ichedi..

true

[PichiPyune]

my answer

 

1. Katnam teeskotam tappu..

2. Pelli karchulu 50-50 share cheskovali.

3. After marriage wife is your family member, you hold her expenses.

4. if your savings are not coming for your loans and sister marriage, that is common problem for everyone and you shouldnt be troubling the girls paretns.

 

However if you do all the above girl parents should understand your situation and provide finaincial support too just like you are providing to your future..

 

dowry doesnt mean bribe it is a custom for parents to invest moeny both boy side and girl side.

 

 

if you force and negotiate the money with girls parents then it is a dowry

 

at the same time if the girls parents dont want to contribute their savings to the girl.. it is also as bad as  taking dowry... 

 

in both cases either of the couple will be unhappy.

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[sigsegv]

teesukokandi man katnam ... aa change ento meetho start cheyyandi ... 

[Doola]

ne situation prakaram.. akkalu untaru valaki pellilu kaavu ani anteyna?.... Girls ki antha duuram wait chesey time and days kadhu idi... so ur perception failedd

 

nakey oka akka undi untey tanu masters chusuntey intha sepu patadu tanaki pelli avataniki... so start eh wrong!!

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