Lending money to friends

[Mr Mirchi]

12 hours ago, pinnigaaru said:

nenu chala times friends financial ga help adigithey maximum NO anakunda ichanu..kondaru ventaney icharu ...kondarini naaku real ga need unna kaani 1 or 2 times think chesi adiganu but vaalu idhigo istha repu istha antaru but ivvaru ...vaala meedha unna trust ni they are misusing it and veela vala inko manchi friends adigina kaani 100 times think chesthunna...

Naaaku same jarigimdhi vayya

 

Comedy enti ante oka vuru numdi 3 friends vunnaaru...adhento mugguru thedaney

1. 8yrs back 70000 thisukunnaadu..ippatiki ivvaledhu..vadu software..vadi wife emo doctor

2. Inkodu..veedu kalisthe hotel ki veldham ra ani...full thini bill ye roju pay cheyadu....calm ga kurchuntaadu...6_7 times jafigimdhi

3. Veedu inka peak....25000 thisukunnaadu.8 yrs back..inthavafaku ivvaaledhu..veedu nenu polam of flats konte edusthadu...malli veediki 50acre polam vundhi....ivvalsina money ivvakunda malli appu aduguthadu..vaadi salary motham fullinvestment chesthadu....veedu hyd lo job chesthu kanisam bike koda konalaedhu...evadino pattukoni office ki velthadu.....nenu money isthe iddhari peru meedha land kondham antaadu......jebulo numdi rupee kuda thiyyadu

 

Adhento...mugguru same village numdi

[crazymatta]

47 minutes ago, pillirevanth said:

After many bad incidents with friends i am following the below approach.

1. I maintain money relations only with 5 fixed friends. We know each other and all of us having the same mentality in money relations. So if either of us need money, then we help ourself, we don't go to a new friend.
2. When any other friend or some other one ask then i will think. If i lend the money and if i don't get the money back then will my financial position gets change or not.? If yes i will help based on the candidate.
   I am not going to follow him up everytime to pay back. I will give a deadline and forget.

nenu bhi same rule follow aythuna.. only 3friends

[8OY]

11 hours ago, ICANWIN said:

+1  

i dont remember asking anyone though...iche friends kuda i dont think i have ..

how is anu doing

[Picha lite]

1 hour ago, crazymatta said:

ichina money adiginanduku oka ms roomie nannu block chesi 10gadu.. cut sesthe mem iddaram almost 7yrs nundi friends money teesukoni almost 3yrs aypoyindhi

Vadi fb lo wall meda post pettu na matta @crazymatta

[AFDBAbhimanini]

Based out of real life incidents. 

If you value your friendship, don't give money which will hurt you when he/she doesn't return the money.

 

[nissan]

Asalu friends ki money endhuku istharu vayya adagganee there are many scoundrels out there using the word" frienship" to get some money 

[AFDBAbhimanini]

1 minute ago, nissan said:

Asalu friends ki money endhuku istharu vayya adagganee there are many scoundrels out there using the word" frienship" to get some money 

Niku okadu 15 years nunchi friend. very close and will talk almost twice in a month. isthava ivvava.. 

[crazymatta]

23 minutes ago, Picha lite said:

Vadi fb lo wall meda post pettu na matta @crazymatta

chillar naayalu baa idesesina iga.. manam aa type kaadu but oka req pedtha db tarufuna

@ishmradda ga paisal eppudu isthav ra anna pelli ante ichina adi naa dagara aa bank lekapoyina working day madhyalo vere placce ki drive sesukuntu veli money deposit sesina kaavalsinantha tym ichina naa kala mundhe new car konnav mee anna grudha balaga taagi accidnt chesthe akkadiki poyi help bhi sesina intha chesthe money adiginanduku nane block sesi guilt feel ayetatu sesinav kada ra lafoot nayala ee db lo nu unnav ani telusu idhi chavithe gurthu petuko neeku naa lanti situatn definte ga vasthadhi appudu gurthuchesuko naa name

 

[nissan]

Just now, AFDBAbhimanini said:

Niku okadu 15 years nunchi friend. very close and will talk almost twice in a month. isthava ivvava.. 

Depends on my priorities & the situation & my ability to lend him.i just wouldnt blindly lend him if he says i want to invest in a rest bussinesz.the pecking order is parents and siblings first and then rest of them . For parents and siblingsi wouldnt ask and think i will give

[Chitti_Robo_Rebuilt]

Same situation.... icchinavi atey aitunnay

[Chitti_Robo_Rebuilt]

Friends ki NO ela cheppali??

[AFDBAbhimanini]

2 minutes ago, Chitti_Robo_Rebuilt said:

Friends ki NO ela cheppali??

emi anukoku.. Okati rendu sarlu pedda amounts pothe. niku full experience vasthadi no cheppdam lo.. Like me,,,

[AFDBAbhimanini]

3 minutes ago, nissan said:

Depends on my priorities & the situation & my ability to lend him.i just wouldnt blindly lend him if he says i want to invest in a rest bussinesz.the pecking order is parents and siblings first and then rest of them . For parents and siblingsi wouldnt ask and think i will give

Konni sarlu antha alochicham bro.. I am telling about someone whom you will call when you need a friend.

[k2s]

14 hours ago, pinnigaaru said:

nenu chala times friends financial ga help adigithey maximum NO anakunda ichanu..kondaru ventaney icharu ...kondarini naaku real ga need unna kaani 1 or 2 times think chesi adiganu but vaalu idhigo istha repu istha antaru but ivvaru ...vaala meedha unna trust ni they are misusing it and veela vala inko manchi friends adigina kaani 100 times think chesthunna...

man.. nenu neeku manchi frd kada man.. oka $10k untey sardava pls 

[ICANWIN]

25 minutes ago, nissan said:

Depends on my priorities & the situation & my ability to lend him.i just wouldnt blindly lend him if he says i want to invest in a rest bussinesz.the pecking order is parents and siblings first and then rest of them . For parents and siblingsi wouldnt ask and think i will give

Nenu US ki vachina 1 month lo 2 k ichanu adi kuda nake on campus job lenappudu...appadiki close friend kuda kadu...3 am ki vachi emergency annadu...nenu pranam midiki vachindo ento ani  1st time ichanu but 3 days taruvata telisindi vadu 2nd hand car konukunnadu ani...vadi moham still i remember literally pranam midiki vachinavadi laga adigadu... 2 yrs MS appudappudu adiga and recession lo chala sarlu adiganu he didnt pick up calls

But danito budhi raledu...chala close friends adugute enno sarlu ichanu i still dont know genuine reasons or not but they never paid me back...

MS lo restaurants ki velthe okallu cards tesevallu kadu eppudu nene pay chesa as no one took out cards.. later i realized and stopped going to restaurants with them..

few years back ...1 yr 45 miles friends ni pick up drops kuda chesanu morning and evening as i was wfh ...

Now i maintain hi  friendships and never give any one money if they ask me...soft ga  ani cheptanu as dabbulu ichi mushti ethukovadam is very difficult