Lending money to friends

[crazymatta]

17 minutes ago, k2s said:

man.. nenu neeku manchi frd kada man.. oka $10k untey sardava pls 

you rich outside no uncle why asking

[crazymatta]

9 minutes ago, ICANWIN said:

Nenu US ki vachina 1 month lo 2 k ichanu adi kuda nake on campus job lenappudu...appadiki close friend kuda kadu...3 am ki vachi emergency annadu...nenu pranam midiki vachindo ento ani  1st time ichanu but 3 days taruvata telisindi vadu 2nd hand car konukunnadu ani...vadi moham still i remember literally pranam midiki vachinavadi laga adigadu... 2 yrs MS appudappudu adiga and recession lo chala sarlu adiganu he didnt pick up calls

But danito budhi raledu...chala close friends adugute enno sarlu ichanu i still dont know genuine reasons or not but they never paid me back...

MS lo restaurants ki velthe okallu cards tesevallu kadu eppudu nene pay chesa as no one took out cards.. later i realized and stopped going to restaurants with them..

few years back ...1 yr 45 miles friends ni pick up drops kuda chesanu morning and evening as i was wfh ...

Now i maintain hi  friendships and never give any one money if they ask me...soft ga  ani cheptanu as dabbulu ichi mushti ethukovadam is very difficult

baaga pindesinattunaru ninnu.. lite bro manchi frnds 3-4 tho connectn pettukunte chaalu happy ga untadhi lyf

[ICANWIN]

1 minute ago, crazymatta said:

baaga pindesinattunaru ninnu.. lite bro manchi frnds 3-4 tho connectn pettukunte chaalu happy ga untadhi lyf

Agree..

[nissan]

Bar antha balya snehithula tho kala kala laduthundhi

looks like if not everyone some of them had bad experiences dealing with this so called "friends"

now everytime i see a person foot the expenses or loan some one nsming it as "frienship" i remember my gold days and smile

[ronitreddy]

I was into a situation where I have lent a sum of 33L to my friend..He's a very good friend of mine..Business cheskunta ante help avthundi ani icha..

He cleared 28L so far and he still owes me 5L as of today..I feel very awkward and uncomfortable asking him money every now and then..

I have gone through so much of stress because of this..He never gives me money on time..Ivala repu antu oka 4 years chesadu..Still its continuing..

He doesn't pick up my calls nor reply back to my messages.. I told him many times that this is ruining our relationship ani..Still he doesn't care..

Despite giving money back to me, he started negative propaganda on me and started giving lectures to me..Time eppudu okati undadu ani..Daivuda ankunna

I learned a lot from this experience..Lending money to family and friends is a very bad idea.. I have learnt to say NO from now..And I can surely say that our relationship with my friend will never go back to normal..

[Picha lite]

2 hours ago, crazymatta said:

chillar naayalu baa idesesina iga.. manam aa type kaadu but oka req pedtha db tarufuna

@ishmradda ga paisal eppudu isthav ra anna pelli ante ichina adi naa dagara aa bank lekapoyina working day madhyalo vere placce ki drive sesukuntu veli money deposit sesina kaavalsinantha tym ichina naa kala mundhe new car konnav mee anna grudha balaga taagi accidnt chesthe akkadiki poyi help bhi sesina intha chesthe money adiginanduku nane block sesi guilt feel ayetatu sesinav kada ra lafoot nayala ee db lo nu unnav ani telusu idhi chavithe gurthu petuko neeku naa lanti situatn definte ga vasthadhi appudu gurthuchesuko naa name

 

Lol ee na konde gallaki sokulaku shikarlaku paisal untayi kani, appu teerchali ane alochana radu. 

Call chesi savadenguu ilanti valanu asalu vadalku, email chesi **. Paisal poyinayi anuko but vadiki gurtu chestu undu siggunda ra ani..

[Picha lite]

1 hour ago, crazymatta said:

baaga pindesinattunaru ninnu.. lite bro manchi frnds 3-4 tho connectn pettukunte chaalu happy ga untadhi lyf

aa manchi friend money ivtale ani vadi gurinche inko post vestav. So money ki manchi frd or chedda frds undaru... situations ala marustayi.

if you give money to someone then forget it. This is the principle I follow.

[Badacow]

1 minute ago, Picha lite said:

aa manchi friend money ivtale ani vadi gurinche inko post vestav. So money ki manchi frd or chedda frds undaru... situations ala marustayi.

if you give money to someone then forget it. This is the principle I follow.

@Picha litera @Badacow

[Picha lite]

10 minutes ago, ronitreddy said:

I was into a situation where I have lent a sum of 33L to my friend..He's a very good friend of mine..Business cheskunta ante help avthundi ani icha..

He cleared 28L so far and he still owes me 5L as of today..I feel very awkward and uncomfortable asking him money every now and then..

I have gone through so much of stress because of this..He never gives me money on time..Ivala repu antu oka 4 years chesadu..Still its continuing..

He doesn't pick up my calls nor reply back to my messages.. I told him many times that this is ruining our relationship ani..Still he doesn't care..

Despite giving money back to me, he started negative propaganda on me and started giving lectures to me..Time eppudu okati undadu ani..Daivuda ankunna

I learned a lot from this experience..Lending money to family and friends is a very bad idea.. I have learnt to say NO from now..And I can surely say that our relationship with my friend will never go back to normal..

Atleastt 28L ichadu ani happy ga feel avi, poyina money costly lesson ankoni marchipo 

[micxas]

[Picha lite]

1 minute ago, Badacow said:

@Picha litera @Badacow

Evadra nuvu fake @Badacow

[Badacow]

Just now, Picha lite said:

Evadra nuvu fake @Badacow

Nenu nene ra @badcow

[Simple123]

nenu evadiki cheppukovali vayya. 

total ga 8.5L given to friends and nobody picks my phone call. money ichi relation poggotukovatam ante edenemo.  ippudu evvadanna nannu money adigithe inkosari vadi phone ettatle. 

next time money ivvadiki anna ivvalsi vaste adi charity or write off anukoni ivvali ani ardam ayyindi. 

evadiki anna education or health issue vuntene ivvandi , migatha vatini BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[Simple123]

3 hours ago, Mr Mirchi said:

Naaaku same jarigimdhi vayya

 

Comedy enti ante oka vuru numdi 3 friends vunnaaru...adhento mugguru thedaney

1. 8yrs back 70000 thisukunnaadu..ippatiki ivvaledhu..vadu software..vadi wife emo doctor

2. Inkodu..veedu kalisthe hotel ki veldham ra ani...full thini bill ye roju pay cheyadu....calm ga kurchuntaadu...6_7 times jafigimdhi

3. Veedu inka peak....25000 thisukunnaadu.8 yrs back..inthavafaku ivvaaledhu..veedu nenu polam of flats konte edusthadu...malli veediki 50acre polam vundhi....ivvalsina money ivvakunda malli appu aduguthadu..vaadi salary motham fullinvestment chesthadu....veedu hyd lo job chesthu kanisam bike koda konalaedhu...evadino pattukoni office ki velthadu.....nenu money isthe iddhari peru meedha land kondham antaadu......jebulo numdi rupee kuda thiyyadu

 

Adhento...mugguru same village numdi

 

paisal baga vunnavaniki asal paisal ivvadu bhayya.  naa own experience .. dash chestaru manallani.  

[Picha lite]

1 minute ago, Badacow said:

Nenu nene ra @badcow

Sare dengeyy fake ga