childless life ela untadi va

[kevinUsa]

41 minutes ago, Spartan said:

intlo convince cheyanike inko idea dorkindi..

 But first success and smarter ani nirupinchuko antar emo... counter debate...

uncle u already ahve kids no 

[DrBeta]

6 minutes ago, Sachin200 said:

Mana culture mindset ki kids vundali: surname extension , religion base cheskunte father runam teerchukovadam, in terms of support during our old age , Inka bore avadhu life after 50 . Pillalu lekapothe parents feel avutaru ga manavallu leru Ani as well 

Adi ne opinion kaka, I feel like it's not a good reason to have kids (saving your surname, so that they can take care of you when you're older, bore kodutundi). But that's just me.

[Ram30]

2 hours ago, GucciGang said:

office la saw American aunties  in my building  they decided not have kids     ela untadi life without kids  ?  

for americans, old age lo elagu pillalu parents ni pattinchukoru kabatti pedda diff undademo..

manollaki peddayaka pillala support undali.. 

 

[Sachin200]

Just now, DrBeta said:

Adi ne opinion kaka, I feel like it's not a good reason to have kids (saving your surname, so that they can take care of you when you're older, bore kodutundi). But that's just me.

Nenu reasons cheptuna kids endhuku kavali anedhaniki ( different prospectives ) 

[DrBeta]

2 minutes ago, Ram30 said:

for americans, old age lo elagu pillalu parents ni pattinchukoru kabatti pedda diff undademo..

manollaki peddayaka pillala support undali.. 

 

Get life insurance instead of having kids

[Ram30]

Just now, DrBeta said:

Get life insurance instead of having kids

devuddaa anni ala commercial ga sudakudadu vayya

[no01]

1 minute ago, DrBeta said:

Adi ne opinion kaka, I feel like it's not a good reason to have kids (saving your surname, so that they can take care of you when you're older, bore kodutundi). But that's just me.

now a days nobody cares abt surname babai.....ala ani nenu naa kid ki naa surname pettanu ani cheppatam ledhu.....but mari surname kosam kid ni kanatam ante entha mandhi undochu.

old age lo vallu chusukuntaru ani naaku nammakam ledhu.....things are changing kada. US lanti western cultures lo nobody look after their parents....India lo kuda alanti culture future lo vasthadi so dont alanti hope evaru pettukoru.

but after 50-55+ when we will slow down due to age factor (life enjoyment etc etc anni calm down ayye age adi), appudu pakka lonelyness vasthundi.

Wife thappa peddaga neetho close ga share chesukoni person undaru. Mana siblings, friends andaru valla valla families tho busy aipotharu. So that is when we might repent 

[pahelwan]

Vomerica la matram gc vastadi ani first oka baby ni kantunaru tarvata sangati tarvata

[DrBeta]

7 minutes ago, no01 said:

now a days nobody cares abt surname babai.....ala ani nenu naa kid ki naa surname pettanu ani cheppatam ledhu.....but mari surname kosam kid ni kanatam ante entha mandhi undochu.

old age lo vallu chusukuntaru ani naaku nammakam ledhu.....things are changing kada. US lanti western cultures lo nobody look after their parents....India lo kuda alanti culture future lo vasthadi so dont alanti hope evaru pettukoru.

but after 50-55+ when we will slow down due to age factor (life enjoyment etc etc anni calm down ayye age adi), appudu pakka lonelyness vasthundi.

Wife thappa peddaga neetho close ga share chesukoni person undaru. Mana siblings, friends andaru valla valla families tho busy aipotharu. So that is when we might repent 

I am not saying that I will not have kids, I just don't know if I will.

I think being alone is different from being lonely. I like being alone, but I am not lonely. 

Repent o kado telidu kani I think ivi pillalu kanadaniki right reason kadani na feeling, I still think people who really love kids and having them around should have kids. 

[sarita]

10 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

I am not saying that I will not have kids, I just don't know if I will.

I think being alone is different from being lonely. I like being alone, but I am not lonely. 

Repent o kado telidu kani I think ivi pillalu kanadaniki right reason kadani na feeling, I still think people who really love kids and having them around should have kids. 

what if ur spouse wants to have kids? or will u be single forever?

[proudtobeandhrite]

1 hour ago, DrBeta said:

Most people that have kids don't have kids for the right reason, being bored with life, having someone to take care of you at an older age are not good reasons to have kids. Besides, it is known are people who are smarter have less or no kids leaving most of the evolution to stupider people, making the global population idiotic over time.

Human is a Social Animal who needs socialization in some form. Mother and kid relation is the most intense form of social emotion. It is upto the individual if he wants kid. Smart and Stupid are relative terms. Your statement "it is known are people who are smarter have less or no kids leaving most of the evolution to stupider people" contradicts the fact that Albert Einstein who is considered so smart by all of us had kids. The smart people you are talking about would relatively be stupider to Einstein.

Is "being smart" mean being logical? If so, only logic cannot define human life without social emotion. 

[sarita]

For me- I want to have one of those designer babies with black hair, blue eyes, doll face and IQ of 200+ 😀

[gudboy]

1 minute ago, sarita said:

For me- I want to have one of those designer babies with black hair, blue eyes, doll face and IQ of 200+ 😀

aunty get gang banged and you will get such a baby

[sarita]

3 minutes ago, gudboy said:

aunty get gang banged and you will get such a baby

uncle, I don't want biological kids

normal kids vala use emuntundi, in return we need to spend our life earnings on them

ade designer babies by birth e  useful untaru.

[DrBeta]

4 minutes ago, proudtobeandhrite said:

Human is a Social Animal who needs socialization in some form. Mother and kid relation is the most intense form of social emotion. It is upto the individual if he wants kid. Smart and Stupid are relative terms. Your statement "it is known are people who are smarter have less or no kids leaving most of the evolution to stupider people" contradicts the fact that Albert Einstein who is considered so smart by all of us had kids. The smart people you are talking about would relatively be stupider to Einstein.

Is "being smart" mean being logical? If so, only logic cannot define human life without social emotion. 

The same time Einstein had three kids, my grandparents had 11. I am not saying that only stupid people have kids, I just think that people who are more career oriented may not have that kind of time or responsibility, the smarter ones of these will choose not to have them in the first place. That doesn't mean only stupid people will have kids.