Friend's mom says it's advisable not to marry a pretty girl and go only for average looking girls

[chanchala]

9 hours ago, Bhumchik said:

Figure this -

this world has a tendency to give MORE to people who have everything and have more than what they need - like beauty, born with a silver spoon in their as$ and they become even better and more successful easily because they get things mostly even without asking.

this world discriminates ugly people, don’t give them what they deserve and hence they feel and look more miserable because of the ill-treatment. Because they look more miserable, they get even more ill-treatment from the world and their situation only gets worse over time!

Just ask God - why He gives some people much more than what they need - to the point the person doesn’t even realize their value!!

First of all, there's no god.

yes beautiful people have advantages but people can overcome beauty with smarts.also beautiful/rich people cannot always get what they want, and are lost when they can't.

If life is a game, then there are many other interesting strategies to push yourself into the forefront than worry about how your looks/status are perceived by the group you belong to. 

ofcourse there are groups who can't seem to catch a break in this game, like disabled people, but if you consider this a game, then you giving up on winning it because of lack of beauty/status is just not an option.

if you don't think its a game, then you can stop worrying about how people perceive of you, and express yourself purely through your work. and be happy.

either way the advantage of beauty is only skin deep.

[DummyVariable]

15 hours ago, meri_zindagi said:

Being beautiful is an advantage. It gets you things easily on your plate. Humans develop empathy from experiences. Your perception is built on your experiences. Anni easy ga jarigipothe kashtam teliyadu.
Not mandatory to be this way. Beautiful girls rejects easy offers and choose hard ways as well. But rare.

Essays ki manchi scope unna topic.

Beauty is ephemeral. It fades.

So someone beautiful will be seeing a negative gradient in attitude as she ages. Perceptions can change and if your experiences are going to be worse as you age, beautiful people can end up being very bitter too? 🤔

[AnotherTeluguBidda]

Bharya rupavathi shatruvuh

[meri_zindagi]

50 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Beauty is ephemeral. It fades.

So someone beautiful will be seeing a negative gradient in attitude as she ages. Perceptions can change and if your experiences are going to be worse as you age, beautiful people can end up being very bitter too? 🤔

Yeah... life is unfair to everyone.

 

Competency will be within the same age group I guess in most of the stages of life.
 

Btw beautiful people are born lucky to find love is your concept no.

[DummyVariable]

29 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Yeah... life is unfair to everyone. 
 

Btw beautiful people are born lucky to find love is your concept no.

“For every beautiful woman out there, there is a guy who is sick of her.”

Men are hunters and most enjoy chasing beautiful women. Once they get it, the attitudes will change. The niceties are only ever going to be temporary. Love and heartbreak is not uncommon for beautiful people if you look at it that way.

[meri_zindagi]

42 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

“For every beautiful woman out there, there is a guy who is sick of her.”

Men are hunters and most enjoy chasing beautiful women. Once they get it, the attitudes will change. The niceties are only ever going to be temporary. Love and heartbreak is not uncommon for beautiful people if you look at it that way.