Having multiple kids

[chicagoafdb]

44 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

 

Bro what was your age when you had 2nd kid.. i am 39 so wanted to check on any complications 

Nothing for you. It could more on your spouse. So better have a gyn appointment discuss your plans..have necessary checks. Not to scare you as women gets older they slip in to  risk pregnancy zone..

[JackSeal]

2 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

Bros,

Two kids valla financial hardships emaina yundacha future lo especially if the kids are born in US ? I am thinking only in a way that they can support each other when they grew up and parents are not there...instead of having single kid 

Thoughts?

Two kids ke alochisthunnav ma visnu snow babu nalgurni kannadu 

[hotlantian]

49 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

 

Bro what was your age when you had 2nd kid.. i am 39 so wanted to check on any complications 

I was 37 when we had 2nd but I know it wasn’t easy we tried for 1 years seriously every month then finally conceived. First kid happened easily. 

[tables]

Have second but also make sure there is good bonding betweeen those two.

I have a friend who doesn’t even know what his brother is up to and didn’t talk to him in years. So make sure they grow up as friends.

[DalchanChekka]

2 hours ago, Murari_Murari said:

Go for it we regretting now having only daughter 🤧😓 which can leave anytime

[nokia123]

24 minutes ago, JackSeal said:

Two kids ke alochisthunnav ma visnu snow babu nalgurni kannadu 

Vaani kante janala dabbulu dochipettina ayya and vela kotlu katnam thecchina pendlam unnaru.entha mandhinaina plan chesthadu 

[bommali]

1 hour ago, beerboy17 said:

 

Bro what was your age when you had 2nd kid.. i am 39 so wanted to check on any complications 

I believe you should consider your wife's age more than yours when it comes to pre and post pregnancy complications,  health of the new born child etc. My 2 cents consult a doctor.

[psycopk]

3 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

Bros,

Two kids valla financial hardships emaina yundacha future lo especially if the kids are born in US ? I am thinking only in a way that they can support each other when they grew up and parents are not there...instead of having single kid 

Thoughts?

Financial Hardships untai.. but as a software engineer you will be able to handle them.. dont worry too much.. two is good for both the kids

[Murari_Murari]

19 minutes ago, psycopk said:

Financial Hardships untai.. but as a software engineer you will be able to handle them.. dont worry too much.. two is good for both the kids

Endidi.

Ipuday malli sustana forget financials.

 @beerboy17 your age 39 

Kodali age kanisam 35-37 vundochu.

Pregnancy problems valla easy ga neku 41 ki okallu puttaru.

Vadiki 25 vasthay neku 66.

Vadiki 30 vachesarikalla neku 70 bucket tanne age starts( facts r facts).. avasarama antha risk? 

[Murari_Murari]

38 minutes ago, bommali said:

I believe you should consider your wife's age more than yours when it comes to pre and post pregnancy complications,  health of the new born child etc. My 2 cents consult a doctor.

Good valid point

[raccharambola]

21 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

 

Bro what was your age when you had 2nd kid.. i am 39 so wanted to check on any complications 

I am 38 years old Bro. My wife is 31 year old. 

[Murari_Murari]

14 minutes ago, raccharambola said:

I am 38 years old Bro. My wife is 31 year old. 

Pasi Pillanni ela chesukunaru  🤥

ante nuvu 10th class aythy papa 3rd class lo vundedhi .....Etta how its possible.

[rajnik]

21 hours ago, Murari_Murari said:

Endidi.

Ipuday malli sustana forget financials.

 @beerboy17 your age 39 

Kodali age kanisam 35-37 vundochu.

Pregnancy problems valla easy ga neku 41 ki okallu puttaru.

Vadiki 25 vasthay neku 66.

Vadiki 30 vachesarikalla neku 70 bucket tanne age starts( facts r facts).. avasarama antha risk? 

ikkada janalni rechagottadanike ee comment pettinattu undhi..

66 aithe problem yendhi ? siblings will still be there for each other... I know lot of folks who had second kids in their early 40's...they are happy in their life..

[beerboy17]

Bros , meeru 529 plan lo save chesara for kids education to certain extent looks like every state has one. Can you tell me where did you put for college savings for kids ? Thanks in advance