ICANWIN Posted March 23, 2014 Author Report Posted March 23, 2014 baa naa personal ki vellav ga chepthunna.. I adopted 7 kids in Vivekananda child foundation, kphb. every yr 1.5 L pampisthanu... ( never missed to send since last 8 months) nuvvu adhi chesva/ chesthunnava... so personal gurinchi vellaku plz donation receipts PM chesthanu... ikkada fost veredhi, nu akkada reply chesindhi nizanga naaku artham kaaledhu.... andhuke adiga Awesome man...Good going.. CITI_y@R
seelavathiaunty Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 Ma cousin ki oka match came through relatives..a abbayi chudadaniki avg and is on H1 and earning around 75k in core side. Ammayi in IT earns around 110k studied from better school than abbayi and actually good looking than guy. Abbayiki 1 yr nunchi GC in process ammayi ki 3 yrs nunchi undi process. Abbayi did MS in Core side and ammayi in CS. Adi basic ga both profiles. 1st call: Call chestune he talked about status , job, financial things etc etc for around 1 hr and ended the call. After 1st call ammayi was no negative about match and told parents that she doesnt want to marry that person as he is very money minded. He infact talked about money and directly asked her salary. Mom emo convinced her saying 30 yrs back kuda mi bamma asked my parents my salary edo salary adigadu ani bad anukovaddu ani convinced. Nenu ayite light tesuko inko match rada ani adviced. 2nd call: 3hrs conv and he kind of talked nicely and asked every info and she was also convinced may be last time he didnt know how to project himself ani Everyone was so positive about match but she was confused if he is money minded or not Inperson Meet: He was over excited too sweet and valla sister and bro in law flowers fruits anni kalisinappudu traditional way lo icharu ta and he wanted to even click pics. We thought its so postive and they even called and told through mediator that they liked the girl and they want girls parents to come for further talks. Girl was kind of convinced by parents he is not money minded and she is not thinking right but except that he was nice. Mech ayite enti IT ayite enti money kadu family imp ani parents adviced and she was also like jeetam chusi chesukokudadu telisina family kaada and started thinking positive . Infact they didnt even ask him his salary or about financial things. 3rd call: She called him as they said okay and told him that recession lo she was jobless for an yr and that two credit cards went to collections and she is now repaying them and that credit score has gone bad because of it and wanted to tell this before moving further. He immediately asked about her auto loan if she has new car whats her interest % and ayite niku home loan radu kada in future ani he talked for 20 mins ta. Next day his father emailed my uncle that they cant proceed in this match as her credit history is bad...Ma vallu super shock ..40 k ekkuva sampadistondi and she compromised thinking dabbu is not imp but vade No cheppadu... she called me and cried saying annayya dabbu imp aspect to think kadu annaru for marriage mari adapilla credit history pelli chesukovadaniki imp a ani asked...Nenu nachakapote ok but na credit history nachaledu ante its hurting ani cried :(... I didn't knew what to answer... Credit history bad ayite loan aey radu anukunna but pelli kuda no antaru ani ippude telisindi...Just wanted to share...Manushulu anni rakalu ani hence proved. . Felt bad and just thought to share...dont know why :( odi amma credit history baledu ani cancel aa
always_happy116 Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 vammoo pelli antene pedhaa exam la undi gaaa
seelavathiaunty Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 Start chesinava aunty..... yes man
ramleela1987 Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 vammoo pelli antene pedhaa exam la undi gaaa eppudu pass avutamo
Doola Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 yes man vuncle ekkuvuga tagaku pilla dorakatam kastam ayyiddi...reject anataaru :D
always_happy116 Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 eppudu pass avutamo chalaaa kashtapadali emo pass avvali ante :( :(
seelavathiaunty Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 vuncle ekkuvuga tagaku pilla dorakatam kastam ayyiddi...reject anataaru :D anduke only vknds taaging
gandhi Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 vuncle ekkuvuga tagaku pilla dorakatam kastam ayyiddi...reject anataaru :D elanti mod@ loo rules kuda vunaya mayya ...... potunte potunte porla rules ki vokka addu adupu lekunda potunda
Doola Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 elanti mod@ loo rules kuda vunaya mayya ...... potunte potunte porla rules ki vokka addu adupu lekunda potunda ooko baa nuvvu maareenu asala porla list lo first vundedi ivi.....abby no drinking, no smoking ani
idiBeZaWaDa Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 Ikkada 2 scenarios vunayi 1.Arranged Marriage -> Definate ga earnings kosam enquiry vuntundi both sides ->Both Parents from either side will be keen on the settlement they get after marriage ->Now a days parents are prefering girls who are earnings/highly educated so that in worst situations she will support family ->After marriage majority of cases adjust avutharu to each others mentality....more of like compromise 2.Love Marriage -> It does not depend on earnings,more of understanding and compatibilty kudirithene proceed to marriage ->Either side compromise avalasina avasaram ledu * I do not understand why people bring in money which is immaterial for getting two souls together. u growed up a lot...
gandhi Posted March 23, 2014 Report Posted March 23, 2014 ooko baa nuvvu maareenu asala porla list lo first vundedi ivi.....abby no drinking, no smoking ani smoking ante ok mayya drinking ante kastam ..inka vallaku pelli kadu e janma loo evadu vunadu tagakunda e kalam looo
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