Ilaanti Pellaanni Ela Vayya Bharinchedhi... ?

[akkupakshi]

awesome post :)

vent out chskuntundu.. anonymous ga.. wats wrng in it?

[Sidh]

Ammayilu chinapati nunchi ekkava bitaki vellaka I lanti problems... Ekkava get togethers ki vellandi iddaru once thanku vere ammailu frnds ayithe mee okkala medhe undadhu focus mellaga change avochu

[alpachinao]

picha lite ga vundu dont take her words serious 

[compose]

vent out chskuntundu.. anonymous ga.. wats wrng in it?

nenu na opinion cheppa... whats so wrong in that? :)

[linga]

All I can Say is LOL

[Ekambaram]

All I can Say is LOL

ROFLEST

[afrnds]

nenu na opinion cheppa... whats so wrong in that? :)

 

good one.

[puli_keka]

first 1 month lope et cheyali anukunta expectations.. situation cheyyi daati poyindhi..

 

maa friend valla wife same ekkadiki vellina veldam veldam.. enti peekedhi intlo.. even weekend meet aina..  tennis aadanivvadhu maatho.. oka roju tennis court ke vachesindhi (i was highly uncomfirtable) ..  inka they are permanently removd from our gang..  vere friends walla wifes ki full chiraaku vachindhi..

 

social life lekundaa sudden ga 6 months tarvatha friend daggariki velli help kavali ante.. abba veedu avasarm kosam mathram vasthadu, malli patha undadu ane feeling vasthadi.. bye1 bye1

[Monicka]

ask her to use vitamin tablets and send her to some yoga classless. kids chinnaga vunnappudu ivies common .. did u had kids immidiatly after marriage.. this is serious issue for many women's as they will havesome issues ..... internet lo search cheyi... if possible send ur kid to day care.

yaa pillalu puttaka kontamandi mental ga disturb avtaru..frustrations pergutay, mood swings baga marutu untay….understand her problem..divorce is not the solution, inko pelli cheskuntav malli akda same ice situation vaste em chestav???? mundu mee iddaru india lo family counseling ki vellandi…..ame intlo kaali ankunta , ameni edo activity if its job maree manchidi ala dentlonaina petandi…leda konni days duramga undandi oka 1 to 3 months apdu automatic ga premalu telustayi

[Feelingbad]

get used to it man...divorce ye annitiki margam kaadu... just tell her that you will live on your terms..and not hers... if you have done something that she doesnt like...then dont get in to argument..just go to your room and shut the door..give her some time to settle down... DONT GET IN TO ARGUMENT

 

emaindi ani enni saarlu adigina cheppadhu.... she waits and waits untill it explodes..... 

 

But if i stop asking and keep quiet, its a bigger fight.... 

 

anni rakaalu ga try chesaanu bayyaa..... 

[loveindia]

yaa pillalu puttaka kontamandi mental ga disturb avtaru..understand her problem..divorce is not the solution, inko pelli cheskuntav malli akda same ice situation vaste em chestav???? mundu mee iddaru india lo family counseling ki vellandi…..ame intlo kaali ankunta , ameni edo activity if its job maree manchidi ala dentlonaina petandi…leda konni days duramga undandi oka 1 to 3 months apdu automatic ga premalu telustayi

 

nuvvu okkadanivey missing ani baadhapadutunna nenu... nuvvu kuda vachesaavaa... 

[Betting Bangarraju]

 Over Possessiveness / jealous (may be both are related)

 

• She should be the 1st to know everything.... If she finds out any other person knows any little thing (about me or about anything from me), before she knows, she will start a fight
• I cannot talk happily with anyone or get excited when sitting with anyone other than her... she will rise a fight (forget abwt talking with ladies..that's way too far.... even i should not share with gents)
• I should not send anything to my relatives... but she can (after big fight and arguments she agrees to send eventually)
• I should not go out with friends even once in 6months / 1 year also. When i come back... its a war...
• I should not promise anything to anyone (even minimum things like dropping a friend at airport) 
• Go out with her (only her) all the time... especillay shopping.... which i hate the most. If she finds out on my face that i am little uncomforatble, there is a fight. 
• I should not go for Tennis / cricket 

 

Its been more than 3 yrs of marriage. Its been this way right from the 1st month. How long i have to suffocate ? How long i should stay away from my minimum freedom ? I want this marriage to end...but I have a kid 2.5 yrs... (Its a blunder to have kids with her knowing how she is) I don't want him suffer. 

 

 

Every marriage needs minimum 3 to 5 yrs to have mutual understanding. You are almost on last stage 1yr close your eyes. She will listen to you. Be happy looking at kids face.

[akkupakshi]

nenu na opinion cheppa... whats so wrong in that? :)

clarity kosam .. Boy

[Ekambaram]

emaindi ani enni saarlu adigina cheppadhu.... she waits and waits untill it explodes..... 

 

But if i stop asking and keep quiet, its a bigger fight.... 

 

anni rakaalu ga try chesaanu bayyaa..... 

emayyindi ani adagatam maneyyi bhayya... thanu theda ga undi ani neeku anipinchinappudu..surprise her with some thing..like with something she likes most.. then things might come to naormalcy

[loveindia]

watch pellaina kothalo movie oka 10 times man.... as a bachelor intakanna em chepta man nenu...