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7 minutes ago, riashli said:

#maleego #husbandego

Almost all husbands feel the same.. vallu perfect anattu n being short tempered is birth right anattu.. emaina ante chinnappudu nundi na kopam inthe antaru.. adedo best quality laga.. 

Time management anta.. mundu meeru chese panulu sariga chesi wife meda edavandi 

Lechindhi.. nidra lechindhi mahila lokam

dhadhharillindhi purusha prapancham

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Just now, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Lechindhi.. nidra lechindhi mahila lokam

dhadhharillindhi purusha prapancham

Black and White time lo lechindi TomB

4k times ivi ippudu feminism

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I was also on same boat macha things will not change over night kid unaka kopam tesesyala... just relax antey time management antava 80% of women’s needs more time man when your are born in fast paced family( if ur mom and dad are quick in doing things )  you expect your wife to be same that’s the problem ... your raised in that manner but not her right .... solution okatey macha bills and most important things ani you complete and pretend it’s not done.... and rest of matters lo just relax antey ... trust me I know how it feels..

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21 minutes ago, riashli said:

#maleego #husbandego

Almost all husbands feel the same.. vallu perfect anattu n being short tempered is birth right anattu.. emaina ante chinnappudu nundi na kopam inthe antaru.. adedo best quality laga.. 

Time management anta.. mundu meeru chese panulu sariga chesi wife meda edavandi 

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13 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

ee thread lo andaru manchi suggestions ae isthunru..

AFDB vardhillali

Endi manchi salahalu ichedi...

same old story, one side vinadam...judgements chepadam..!! Nijam endo evanki telvadu...mogudu katha endo telvadi ida...ida mahanubhavulu chepina tweerpu vini TS follow aithe, asalke mosam aitadi...

a pendlam kuda vachi vala mogudi katha chepithe, apudu mana DB peddalu rendu vaipula parisilinchina tarvata teerpu chepithe, oka ardam vuntadi...

itla single side story vini, suggestion isthe, asalke mosam aitadi

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Sit talk sort out . As simple as that ;) 

kopishti ani nuve antunav, adhi nuvu thaginchukovatledu, as a result thanu thana actions maarchukovatledu from wat u posted, money isthe back theskovochu, adhe oka maata  ante u cant take it back, so control lo undali when one talk

2-hands kalisthene clap cheyagalamu, so issue might be with both 

late antava, ladies epudu chesthuntaru, unlike us they look for more, so kopam thechukovatam kanna bayata kuurchovatam better fone theskuni browse cheskuntu, ratherthan scolding

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28 minutes ago, Don_Draper said:

You should accept the person as is and plan accordingly. Inka pressure pettatam valla emi kadu. Anger is like a hole, you keep on digging it. Better accept her flaws, amey flaws kanna ni anger ee dangerous. Its okay life is not straight, mundu chupu bokka em nadvadu ayyedi edo aithaney untadi... everyone forgets bro.. nenu indaka gym lo na locker kakunda vere locker naadi ankoni 30 mins gym vallani pareshan chesa.. anni open chesi chustey last lo opposite di naa locker undey.. had a rough day.  Tittinapudu vallaki self respect untundi.  Just say chweet chorry an move on :) .  You are trying too hard to change her, don't just accept it.  

 

Naaku ee answer lo chaala points correct anipinchindhi ..andhuke erukoni kindha highlight chesina...I agree with all this..

Accept flaws - within and of others..

life is not straight

mundu chupu bokka

everyone forgets

say chweet chorry

don't trying to change 

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3 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

You have a kid.. iddaru Job chestunnaru... happy ga undandi.. be thankful for the good life... chillar issues bro ivi ... ammayilantene reactive untaru,. They are made like that .. Indian upbringing lo konchem alaage untaru... you should understand that,.. atleast job chestundi kada .. life enjoy cheyyandi.. anavasaramga manchi life ni 1gabettukoku

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