issues with my hubby

[chittimallu2]

11 minutes ago, riashli said:

Andaru analedu.. 1yr ey ga ayindi..takes time to adjust.. she is mixing up personal things n career.. she needs to sort out both seperately.. 

annitiki discourage cheyyadam.... aa ammai parents ni thittadam.... ivevi career ki related kadu... typical male chauvinistic qualities that I have seen in some couples which ended really bad for them.... 

[riashli]

6 minutes ago, chittimallu2 said:

annitiki discourage cheyyadam.... aa ammai parents ni thittadam.... ivevi career ki related kadu... typical male chauvinistic qualities that I have seen in some couples which ended really bad for them.... 

Discouraging Kadu.. I have the same kind of life.. she needs to be strong and have proper planning.. 

[samaja_varagamana]

2 hours ago, eleven11 said:

Hi everybody,

 

want to share my story. I come from a pretty low income family, kashtapadi engg chadukunna, I got married this year , I was excited to begin a new life. Wanted to be this perfect wife/partner/friend with my  husband but all those dreams came to an end.  maa Madhya prema ledhu,  very unresponsive, disoriented asalu marriage life meeda interest unda ledha telidu. annitiki discourage chesthadu,  ye pani lo help cheyadu, maa intlo vallani thidthadu, inka ila chala issues unnayeee

Nenu maa pelli kosam naa campus placement vadileskoni ikkadiki vacha( chepputho kottukovali nannu, Akkada career ledhu, ikkada US lo em cheyalo telidhu) bothiga alochinchaledhu. I have this bad habit of running away from things, Now im paying. entho bathimalithe EAD apply chesadu, I want to separate from him, nenu ilanti life bathakalenu , 2019 December varaku naa visa valid undhi, I want to work , earn some money and go back, financial ga independent ga undali ankuntunna.

 Please daya chesi , ikkada unna experts naaku guidance isthara? I want to learn java,  nenu oka 2 months lo job ready undali ( I will work hard), oka plan / recommended videos/ tutorials emyna unte please cheppandi.

I cry everyday kani ika chalu ankunna, edo okati earn chesi , parents ni take care cheyali, india vellipoyi kuda job cheskunta, elagolaga job techukovali. gundelo baadha undhi, kopam undhi, depress avakunda life sarina margam lo pettali ankuntunna.

thank you for your help every1

Nen anduke morning ey ee thread esa 

 

 

[chittimallu2]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

Discouraging Kadu.. .. 

??

did you read what she said?

[riashli]

1 minute ago, chittimallu2 said:

??

did you read what she said?

Nenu rasindi discouraging ga undi ani annaru anukunna.. as u quoted my post.. 

[tom bhayya]

11 minutes ago, chittimallu2 said:

annitiki discourage cheyyadam.... aa ammai parents ni thittadam.... ivevi career ki related kadu... typical male chauvinistic qualities that I have seen in some couples which ended really bad for them.... 

nakkendhukey eemey chochweet husband ni oohinchukuni pelli ayyaka boring/practical husband vacheysariki disappoint ayyindhi emo anipisthundhi. ippatiki varaku tech gurinchi are basic research about job opportunities or technologies mundhey ead application ki force cheyadam chusthey nenu anna alaaney aneyvaadini mundhu emanna nerchuko tharavatha ead enthasepu thechukodam anyi which sounds discouraging. i am pretty sure in laws ni thittadaaniki kuda edho context untundhi. eemey rojuu ikkada jarigeyvi valla parentsane ki cheptha undi if they try to call him directly and ask like ila ayyindhi anta alaa ayyindhi antey obviously aney chances untaayi

[Anta Assamey]

[chittimallu2]

2 minutes ago, riashli said:

Nenu rasindi discouraging ga undi ani annaru anukunna.. as u quoted my post.. 

no ninnu analedu aa ammai raasina dhani gurinchi cheppa anthe

[chittimallu2]

1 minute ago, tom bhayya said:

nakkendhukey eemey chochweet husband ni oohinchukuni pelli ayyaka boring/practical husband vacheysariki disappoint ayyindhi emo anipisthundhi. ippatiki varaku tech gurinchi are basic research about job opportunities or technologies mundhey ead application ki force cheyadam chusthey nenu anna alaaney aneyvaadini mundhu emanna nerchuko tharavatha ead enthasepu thechukodam anyi which sounds discouraging. i am pretty sure in laws ni thittadaaniki kuda edho context untundhi. eemey rojuu ikkada jarigeyvi valla parentsane ki cheptha undi if they try to call him directly and ask like ila ayyindhi anta alaa ayyindhi antey obviously aney chances untaayi

reasons emaina kani... pelli aina intha fast ga ne in laws ni thitte dhaka poindhante its very bad....like I said nenu few cases choosa very close ga....nenedo pudingi gadni annattu nannu panchyatee la ki kooda pilicharu.... ofcourse oka stage ki vachaka evariki cheppina evaru vinaru so nenu edo lite ga cheppesi vachesa and never tried to interfere again....

one of those couples are getting seperated, not sure what future holds for them but aa ammai is very happy right now amidst the process lo ne....so I can only imagine what would have happened if she was with him together.... inkoka couple ki pillal unnaru adhokkate reason tho aa ammai kalisi untundi with husband.... her life is very miserable, no job, no ead, sje just has to live on husband's terms totally..... sad man

[riashli]

5 minutes ago, chittimallu2 said:

no ninnu analedu aa ammai raasina dhani gurinchi cheppa anthe

Hmm.. my husband was also against me working from day 1, but I went ahead.. I own an institute today, Delhi govt merit list last 3 yrs nundi I am in 2nd place, drde lo select ayyanu,na articles chala sarlu paper lo vachayi  n he never even read them.. but ala ani stress tisukunte em vastundi.. stress kills a person physically n mentally, and am a victim of it.. last 20 days ga suffering with facial paralysis.. I cannot speak properly, hear properly, though mostly recovered..  this am writing for TS, hope she doesn't get into stress.. 

[riashli]

13 minutes ago, tom bhayya said:

nakkendhukey eemey chochweet husband ni oohinchukuni pelli ayyaka boring/practical husband vacheysariki disappoint ayyindhi emo anipisthundhi. ippatiki varaku tech gurinchi are basic research about job opportunities or technologies mundhey ead application ki force cheyadam chusthey nenu anna alaaney aneyvaadini mundhu emanna nerchuko tharavatha ead enthasepu thechukodam anyi which sounds discouraging. i am pretty sure in laws ni thittadaaniki kuda edho context untundhi. eemey rojuu ikkada jarigeyvi valla parentsane ki cheptha undi if they try to call him directly and ask like ila ayyindhi anta alaa ayyindhi antey obviously aney chances untaayi

[tom bhayya]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

Hmm.. my husband was also against me working from day 1, but I went ahead.. I own an institute today, Delhi govt merit list last 3 yrs nundi I am in 2nd place, drde lo select ayyanu,na articles chala sarlu paper lo vachayi  n he never even read them.. but ala ani stress tisukunte em vastundi.. stress kills a person physically n mentally, and am a victim of it.. last 20 days ga suffering with facial paralysis.. I cannot speak properly, hear properly, though mostly recovered..  this am writing for TS, hope she doesn't get into stress.. 

 

[tom bhayya]

Just now, riashli said:

nenu veyyaledhu doling aa post

arey evarra using naa id ?

[chittimallu2]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

Hmm.. my husband was also against me working from day 1, but I went ahead.. I own an institute today, Delhi govt merit list last 3 yrs nundi I am in 2nd place, drde lo select ayyanu,na articles chala sarlu paper lo vachayi  n he never even read them.. but ala ani stress tisukunte em vastundi.. stress kills a person physically n mentally, and am a victim of it.. last 20 days ga suffering with facial paralysis.. I cannot speak properly, hear properly, though mostly recovered..  this am writing for TS, hope she doesn't get into stress.. 

india lo muchata US lo muchata verey....India lo work cheyyodhhu ante laath thanni you can work.... ikkada pani cheyyadaniki you need visa status and in this case aa ammai ki aa status husband nunde vasthundi as she is a dependent..

[Vinuu]

4 minutes ago, riashli said:

Hmm.. my husband was also against me working from day 1, but I went ahead.. I own an institute today, Delhi govt merit list last 3 yrs nundi I am in 2nd place, drde lo select ayyanu,na articles chala sarlu paper lo vachayi  n he never even read them.. but ala ani stress tisukunte em vastundi.. stress kills a person physically n mentally, and am a victim of it.. last 20 days ga suffering with facial paralysis.. I cannot speak properly, hear properly, though mostly recovered..  this am writing for TS, hope she doesn't get into stress.. 

Sorry to hear 😢...get well soon