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10 minutes ago, reddyeee said:

 

Naa situation cheptaa and see if it helps in any way. Masters chesa and then 6 years H1B complete iyyindhi. Approved I 140 vundhi, H1B and visa 2021 ending varaku vundhi, Full time job in a cool company, wife also working and sudden gaa naa wife parents ki serious health issue and naa wife India relocate avudaam so that valla parents tho more time spend cheyyochu ani adigindhi. 3 weeks back relocated to India. Every one of my friends nannu pellam pichodi laa choosaaru but nenu aa situation lo vunte naa wife inaa ilane support chesedhi kada ani cheptaa vaallaki. 

Bottom line enti ante everything Depends on priorities bro. Mee situation evariki teliyadhi ikkada so edho cheptaam but don’t follow it blindly.

India la job undha mari? Or balisina party not needed to work at all type aa?

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59 minutes ago, Jai_Mahismati said:

Naadi oka vinta situation.

Short ga cheppaniki try chesta.

Ishtam lekundane US vacha edo oopu lo in 2012. From then asalu deni mida interest undedi kaadu -friends, studies and any activities. edo idi na life kaadu anattu anipinchedi. Teliyakundane MS aipoindi .. 9 months tarvata edo job vachindi ..interest lekundane six months varaku chesa. US e ishtam ledanattu unte ee IT job asaluke ekkedi kaadu. Job lo em aina raakapote India gurtostadi.. I cried many times in office. Still ade paristiti ..Problem enti ante I still dont have ecchh one ..still studying with CPT.. adi gurtostadi ..enduku idi anta anipistundi....Ipatiki I am not comfortable with my job and feel like not talking to anyone. Asalu em ardam kaavatle. Em aina nerchukovalani untadi kaani interest raadu. andaritho manchi ga matladi active ga undalani untdi but asalu maatale raavatle. Gym ki veldam anukunta opika undadu. Dont know what is going on with my life.

 

Please help me how to get out of this situation an lead a happy life.

Nee thread ki reply iddam anna interest osthaledu baaderuu..

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Safe bet antey nee vishyam lo ippudu work chesthunna company ki offshore untey ask for a job in India and tell them a strong reason to move back.... Job confirm chesuko picha lite ga India move ipooo.... Job untundhi,.... family untundhi.... 

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30 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Enduku girl aithe break istava 

 

29 minutes ago, reddyeee said:

Nee DB reputation maintain chesaav ee reply tho @3$%

Arey daggu ki cancer ki same medicine vaadam kada @3$%

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51 minutes ago, WigsandThighs said:

India la job undha mari? Or balisina party not needed to work at all type aa?

Yes. Job vundi India lo. Monthly salary life bro. Waiting for April 01st for my next salary.

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boss, neeku happiness kaavali. Kaani, nee happiness ehh okkati, manchi dabbulu ochhe job meeda adhaarapadi undi.  ehh okkati nee chetullo ledu. Koddiga manchi dabbulo ocche udyogam choosko. Adi kooda chee pee tee lo kashtam aithe, india ki vellu.  You are depressed, because things are not working the way you wanted. 

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you're sounds like stae 4 depression. kani adi neeku telavdhu.

TRUST ME depression is not a joke or small thing. it will darg u to edge. 

go home and spend time with parents first. it'll give u a break

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3 hours ago, Jai_Mahismati said:

Naadi oka vinta situation.

Short ga cheppaniki try chesta.

Ishtam lekundane US vacha edo oopu lo in 2012. From then asalu deni mida interest undedi kaadu -friends, studies and any activities. edo idi na life kaadu anattu anipinchedi. Teliyakundane MS aipoindi .. 9 months tarvata edo job vachindi ..interest lekundane six months varaku chesa. US e ishtam ledanattu unte ee IT job asaluke ekkedi kaadu. Job lo em aina raakapote India gurtostadi.. I cried many times in office. Still ade paristiti ..Problem enti ante I still dont have ecchh one ..still studying with CPT.. adi gurtostadi ..enduku idi anta anipistundi....Ipatiki I am not comfortable with my job and feel like not talking to anyone. Asalu em ardam kaavatle. Em aina nerchukovalani untadi kaani interest raadu. andaritho manchi ga matladi active ga undalani untdi but asalu maatale raavatle. Gym ki veldam anukunta opika undadu. Dont know what is going on with my life.

 

Please help me how to get out of this situation an lead a happy life.

India lo vundi veredhi chesdam ani anukunte try going back and do it. Else yedhi anedhi teliyaka vUS vachi nachakapothe think of a situation that india vellina inthakante yekuva nachakapothe what to do ani .. First try to come up with questions like yedhi nachadam leduh ante yedhi nachutundhi .. if you  have an answer as yes for it .. can you afford to do it or your family can support it ani question vesuko .. if not .. then think that yevevi cheyalevu kabatti you have to do what you are doing .. So US lo ne vundali but nachadam ledhu ante .. think of a worst situation of your self .. like say yepatiki neeku H1 raledhu and doing job and studying .. yepudu nevu vuna situation ki best yenti ante atleast H1 vundali and job lo satisfaction vundali .. but avi leevu think about a worst situation like people who are out of status  and have to to return to country and not even able to get a job and struggle to pay ffee for their college .. appudu automatic ga neee brain kee bhayam vasthadhi and it try to think that you are better than worst and nuvu appudu yedhi chadivina yekuthadhi .. 

point is bhayam tho brathakalani kadhu .. routine ga mana chesedhe chesina ledha manamu chese dani medha intrest lekunda chesina yelati thoughts ye vasthaye ... so intrest ravali ante brain need to be attentive ... adi nuvu bujjaginchi chebutava tatti chebutava annadhi nee medha vuntadhi .. 

 

 

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4 hours ago, Jai_Mahismati said:

Naadi oka vinta situation.

Short ga cheppaniki try chesta.

Ishtam lekundane US vacha edo oopu lo in 2012. From then asalu deni mida interest undedi kaadu -friends, studies and any activities. edo idi na life kaadu anattu anipinchedi. Teliyakundane MS aipoindi .. 9 months tarvata edo job vachindi ..interest lekundane six months varaku chesa. US e ishtam ledanattu unte ee IT job asaluke ekkedi kaadu. Job lo em aina raakapote India gurtostadi.. I cried many times in office. Still ade paristiti ..Problem enti ante I still dont have ecchh one ..still studying with CPT.. adi gurtostadi ..enduku idi anta anipistundi....Ipatiki I am not comfortable with my job and feel like not talking to anyone. Asalu em ardam kaavatle. Em aina nerchukovalani untadi kaani interest raadu. andaritho manchi ga matladi active ga undalani untdi but asalu maatale raavatle. Gym ki veldam anukunta opika undadu. Dont know what is going on with my life.

 

Please help me how to get out of this situation an lead a happy life.

nuvvu cheppina dani batti chusthe nuvvu ekkada unna okate anipisthundi....basically you lack interest in life so go back to india and be with your parents and help them if they need.

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