Cousin sister marriage in trouble

[abulu]

She has aged parents. Been married over a decade.

Found out husband has illegal affair with other married women. He initially denied finally agreed and asking excuse for last time.

 

She called me personally and not informed anyone.

What should be our course of action? Andariki chepthe mari bare tegisthademo ani bayam.

Alagani divorce not a option since kid is there and cousin stay at home mother.

+ pedavallaki chepthe badha tappa emi vundadhu.so ilanti situation lo best way please advice. 🙏. Please no jokes.

[Netflixmovieguz]

2 minutes ago, abulu said:

She has aged parents. Been married over a decade.

Found out husband has illegal affair with other married women. He initially denied finally agreed and asking excuse for last time.

 

She called me personally and not informed anyone.

What should be our course of action? Andariki chepthe mari bare tegisthademo ani bayam.

Alagani divorce not a option since kid is there and cousin stay at home mother.

+ pedavallaki chepthe badha tappa emi vundadhu.so ilanti situation lo best way please advice. 🙏. Please no jokes.

Talk through it and go for counseling

[Android_Halwa]

Let them deal with it in a way they think is better…

If you really want to help your cousin, then you stay out of it. Lekapothey neetho modalu ayi in no time it will reach everyone…andariki telsipotadi and apudu okkokkadu okkakka advice ichi vunnadi kuda pogadutaru…whole family involve ayi solve cheyadaniki inka time vundi but until then let them deal with it.

[Aquaman]

Dare chesi.. divorce thesukoni..live her life on her own

or

sad to say but need to close everything and try to find ways to work with husband.. if thats not working, she need to learn how to ignore him and live.

[dasari4kntr]

19 minutes ago, abulu said:

She has aged parents. Been married over a decade.

Found out husband has illegal affair with other married women. He initially denied finally agreed and asking excuse for last time.

 

She called me personally and not informed anyone.

What should be our course of action? Andariki chepthe mari bare tegisthademo ani bayam.

Alagani divorce not a option since kid is there and cousin stay at home mother.

+ pedavallaki chepthe badha tappa emi vundadhu.so ilanti situation lo best way please advice. 🙏. Please no jokes.

ఎవరితో అయితే అతనికి సంభందం ఉందో…వాళ్ళతో మాట్లాడు…ఏదో ఒక పాయింట్ దొరుకుద్ది (like why she want his affair..is it attraction/love/money…etc) …దాన్ని బట్టి సామ దాన భేద దండోపాయం ఆలోచించమను…

[Aquaman]

1 minute ago, Android_Halwa said:

Let them deal with it in a way they think is better…

If you really want to help your cousin, then you stay out of it. Lekapothey neetho modalu ayi in no time it will reach everyone…andariki telsipotadi and apudu okkokkadu okkakka advice ichi vunnadi kuda pogadutaru…whole family involve ayi solve cheyadaniki inka time vundi but until then let them deal with it.

good point

dont share with friends also... honestly no body gives a f*ck.. sympathy thapa

 

let them deal on their own

[Netflixmovieguz]

17 minutes ago, abulu said:

She has aged parents. Been married over a decade.

Found out husband has illegal affair with other married women. He initially denied finally agreed and asking excuse for last time.

 

She called me personally and not informed anyone.

What should be our course of action? Andariki chepthe mari bare tegisthademo ani bayam.

Alagani divorce not a option since kid is there and cousin stay at home mother.

+ pedavallaki chepthe badha tappa emi vundadhu.so ilanti situation lo best way please advice. 🙏. Please no jokes.

 

14 minutes ago, Netflixmovieguz said:

Talk through it and go for counseling

Let her talk through. Do they havee properties or bank balancess?. 
 

[Netflixmovieguz]

1. Abbaaaii seseddi tappoo anne seppamanuu sis ne. Reaction ne baattte action undale.

inttee sort ittt 

10ge anntey akramaa sambandam mogudditto maatttadamanu. ( ready 4 anything)

[Netflixmovieguz]

Koosinthaa mellaggaa dealll seyyaale. Alochaanaathoo naadddavaalli

[Rabbo]

What is the reason for affair , is she attractive or one time , friends , colleague 

Just gauge if compromise will work or she has to try to be financially independent 

[abulu]

14 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

ఎవరితో అయితే అతనికి సంభందం ఉందో…వాళ్ళతో మాట్లాడు…ఏదో ఒక పాయింట్ దొరుకుద్ది (like why she want his affair..is it attraction/love/money…etc) …దాన్ని బట్టి సామ దాన భేద దండోపాయం ఆలోచించమను…

That lady is married and has Engineering son.

Looks like she did it hidingly. Bil is a Shy guy.

[abulu]

4 minutes ago, Rabbo said:

What is the reason for affair , is she attractive or one time , friends , colleague 

Just gauge if compromise will work or she has to try to be financially independent 

As per him she provoked and he fall for it.

[abulu]

5 minutes ago, Netflixmovieguz said:

Koosinthaa mellaggaa dealll seyyaale. Alochaanaathoo naadddavaalli

True.

[abulu]

7 minutes ago, Netflixmovieguz said:

1. Abbaaaii seseddi tappoo anne seppamanuu sis ne. Reaction ne baattte action undale.

inttee sort ittt 

10ge anntey akramaa sambandam mogudditto maatttadamanu. ( ready 4 anything)

She told and he is scared that everyone knows about it.

[dasari4kntr]

2 minutes ago, abulu said:

That lady is married and has Engineering son.

Looks like she did it hidingly. Bil is a Shy guy.

then ….your cousin can talk to her…if talks  didnt work  she can threaten/warn like she can expose the affair to her engineering son or her husband…etc