pellam tho situation bad pls help..

[BejawadaChow]

15 minutes ago, usetime63 said:

Arranged and love antunnav, neeku mundu thelvada elanti mentality ane.

Divorce istha ane chudu, to see her reaction , parents ki cheppi dobbu, dont continue the relationship if she doesn't care , kids suffer aytharu Kani. 

marriage ki mundu, she hide all her natual behavior to show case good side.. basic ga acting chesindi manchi ammai ani..

iam a idiot for not catching her acting nature..

Divorse ista ante ok antadi during argument, but she is not ready to give and  i dont have much guts to start the process keeping kids future in mind.

Naku anipistadi, basical ga andaru ammailu ante untara or just na pellam matrame teda na ani.

if all are like that, social websites lo chusevi anni fake smiles and fake photos anipistadi.

[Sarfaroshi3]

50 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

Madi kind of love&arrange marriage, basically she is dominating character and right from marraige next day ma cousins and akka tho godava ( godava ante dominating in all discussions and complaining about them to me so on ) and from that day ma akka tho matladadu never call/message her and madyalo chala pedda godava kuda ayyinid akka ki and wife ki about some stupid reasons that's different story.

we had 2 girls btw,  and almost na wife valla cousins tho and ma fnds and fnds wife's tho kuda godavalu padindi because of that stupid behaviour and she never talks to them and they also do the same.

Ekkada problem enti ante, tanaki gurthu vachinappudalla me akka nannu tittindi ani 4 years back topic testundi and ma fnds/fnds wife's tho aina discussions testundi nenu ma fnds tho matladoddu anta , hangout avvoddu anta,  ado stupid reasons cheppi na tho almost week lo 3 days godava padatadi every week

she is house wife , tana tho discussions valla asal work concentrate cheyaleka potunna, em cheyalo ardam kavatledu.. appudappudu agree to her and keep life simple anipistundi ,kani i can't , how many times should i compromise my life and decisions.

Godva okate kadu, intlo furniture nunchi groceries daka tanaki nachinde kontundi, naku nachi emaina furniture or grocery item konte adi return eche daka urukodu, basical ga aa item enduku konnano dani importance ento cheppina vinadu.

so , i started losing my self in life, babies mokam chusi undali kani tana tho asal undali ani pinchatledu.

em cheyali pls help..fnds and family tho discuss cheyalenu..they thinks we are happy.

 

divorce anna marry non beautiful girl you will dominate. dominate chese feminist and munjallu beautuiful ani feel aitaru divorce ichinaka reality lo ki vastaru .

cc @DallasBaluKarry @Skn_benami

[chintumintu1]

Godiva start cheste Mandu start cheye. intlo 2 days full ga mandu kotta okka mukka matlada kunda. anni set ayyaye

 

 

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

36 minutes ago, ARYA said:

Nice ippatiki malli back vacharu content writers

@nanibabu gadu retire ayyaka pasa taggindhi db lo

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

3 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

marriage ki mundu, she hide all her natual behavior to show case good side.. basic ga acting chesindi manchi ammai ani..

iam a idiot for not catching her acting nature..

Divorse ista ante ok antadi during argument, but she is not ready to give and  i dont have much guts to start the process keeping kids future in mind.

Naku anipistadi, basical ga andaru ammailu ante untara or just na pellam matrame teda na ani.

if all are like that, social websites lo chusevi anni fake smiles and fake photos anipistadi.

start recording all mental harrasment

move to another appartment

live separarely for 6 months try

[Sarfaroshi3]

25 minutes ago, CanadianMalodu said:

Ok you have two options. One divorce. Consequences, you may loose custody of your children, loose your 50% of your house and pay alimony or have some adjustments depending on the state you live in. Worse she may go to India and file a 498a on you and your family, then squeeze you for more money. But at the end of the day, you will find your happiness. Assess all these things and get legal counsel on protecting your assets and your rights to your children. 

Two, continue your life calling it fate. Rest won't work. You can't change some one's nature. That's their personality, or whom they grew up into. Remember you only live once. 

You will be given lots of advice from friends family,  near and dear on adjustment for your kids so on so forth of that of traditional Indian mindset. But none of that will be in your favour. You will need to think and plan about your children's future. Good luck.

498 A in india is for weak people. @aath_care antunna @TOM_BHAYYA 3 marriages and one setup srimukhi

[CanadianMalodu]

Just now, Sarfaroshi3 said:

498 A in india is for weak people. @aath_care antunna @TOM_BHAYYA 3 marriages and one setup srimukhi

As long as you're an NRI/H1B/OCI Indian law can't force you to repatriate to India, because of lack of reciprocity of DV/dowry harassment in US or Western law. The trouble is that she may implicate her in laws husband's mom and dad and sisters/brothers just to make him to come to negotiating table at the advise of her lawyer. You need to be determined and be strong minded to go through it. Police are happy to lay charges because they can squeeze NRI families for monies very easily. One needs to be strong willed to go through it. If it comes to that, there is no point in living with woman like that. 

The problem with most Indian married men is inertia. After certain age married men feel too comfortable to take risk of separation thinking of legal hurdles , their ability find another partner, and fear of loss of reputation in their extended family circles. 

[EyBisa]

mee godavala chusi kids nerchukuntar bruh ade 

be careful 

[usetime63]

13 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

marriage ki mundu, she hide all her natual behavior to show case good side.. basic ga acting chesindi manchi ammai ani..

iam a idiot for not catching her acting nature..

Divorse ista ante ok antadi during argument, but she is not ready to give and  i dont have much guts to start the process keeping kids future in mind.

Naku anipistadi, basical ga andaru ammailu ante untara or just na pellam matrame teda na ani.

if all are like that, social websites lo chusevi anni fake smiles and fake photos anipistadi.

Andaru ala undadru, nuvvu unna position ki ala anipisthundi neeku, for how long you can take is the question , happiness is letting go sometimes , you will have to take that decision. 

[Amy99]

12 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:

start recording all mental harrasment

move to another appartment

live separarely for 6 months try

How is this possible? Pls enlighten.

Adhi physical kadhu ga record cheyadaniki...

[Pahelwan2]

Going by your situation best thing is to talk to girl parents tell them what you are going through. Also sex life kuda fasak anukuntuna which will add more frustration. I don’t recommend taking divorce. Just let them time answer it. Many people will change as time goes. 

[Android_Halwa]

52 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

i say these words every time, naku kuda relationship lo intrest ledu antundi godava ainappudu, and when she needs something, she talks softly and convincing.

This is the problem. Lavadala maatalu bandh chesi problem ki solution vethukko….dorikithe good lekapothey keep searching for another 10-15 years. Atarvata solution vetikina waste.

Intaki, Katnam entha teesukochindi ? 

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

3 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

How is this possible? Pls enlighten.

Adhi physical kadhu ga record cheyadaniki...

https://lawrato.com/indian-kanoon/divorce-law/how-to-prove-mental-cruelty-in-divorce-569

According to Section 13(i) (a) of the Hindu Marriage Act , 1955, mental cruelty is broadly defined as that moment when either party causes mental pain, agony, or suffering of such a magnitude that it severs the bond between the wife and husband and as a result of which it becomes impossible for the party who has suffered to live with the other party.

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

Just now, Android_Halwa said:

 

Intaki, Katnam entha teesukochindi ? 

[Amy99]

3 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:

https://lawrato.com/indian-kanoon/divorce-law/how-to-prove-mental-cruelty-in-divorce-569

According to Section 13(i) (a) of the Hindu Marriage Act , 1955, mental cruelty is broadly defined as that moment when either party causes mental pain, agony, or suffering of such a magnitude that it severs the bond between the wife and husband and as a result of which it becomes impossible for the party who has suffered to live with the other party.

Nenu definition adagale...Ela record chesthav ani adiga.😐