Pelli Chupulu Story :(

[Lee_King]

Ma cousin ki oka match came through relatives..a abbayi chudadaniki avg and is on H1 and earning around 75k in core side. Ammayi in IT earns around 110k studied from better school than abbayi and actually good looking than guy. Abbayiki 1 yr nunchi GC in process ammayi ki 3 yrs nunchi undi process. Abbayi did MS in Core side and ammayi in CS. Adi basic ga both profiles.

 

1st call: Call chestune he talked about status , job, financial things etc etc for around 1 hr and ended the call.

 

After 1st call ammayi was no negative about match and told parents that she doesnt want to marry that person as he is very money minded. He infact talked about money and directly asked her salary.

 

Mom emo convinced her saying 30 yrs back kuda mi bamma asked my parents my salary edo salary adigadu ani bad anukovaddu ani convinced. Nenu ayite light tesuko inko match rada ani adviced.

 

2nd call: 3hrs conv and he kind of talked nicely and asked every info and she was also convinced may be last time he didnt know how to project himself ani

 

Everyone was so positive about match but she was confused if he is money minded or not

 

Inperson Meet: He was over excited too sweet and valla sister and bro in law flowers fruits anni kalisinappudu traditional way lo icharu ta and he wanted to even click pics. We thought its so postive and they even called and told through mediator that they liked the girl and they want girls parents to come for further talks.

 

Girl was kind of convinced by parents he is not money minded and she is not thinking right but except that he was nice. Mech ayite enti IT ayite enti money kadu family imp ani parents adviced and she was also like jeetam chusi chesukokudadu telisina family kaada and started thinking positive . Infact they didnt even ask him his salary or about financial things.

 

 

3rd call: She called him as they said okay and told him that recession lo she was jobless for an yr and that two credit cards went to collections and she is now repaying them and that credit score has gone bad because of it and wanted to tell this before moving further. He immediately asked about her auto loan if she has new car whats her interest % and ayite niku home loan radu kada in future ani he talked for 20 mins ta.

 

Next day his father emailed my uncle that they cant proceed in this match as her credit history is bad...Ma vallu super shock ..40 k ekkuva sampadistondi and she compromised thinking dabbu is not imp but vade No cheppadu...

 

she called me and cried saying annayya dabbu imp  aspect to think kadu annaru for marriage  mari adapilla credit history pelli chesukovadaniki imp a ani asked...Nenu nachakapote ok but na credit history nachaledu ante its hurting ani cried :(... I didn't knew what to answer...

 

Credit history bad ayite loan aey radu anukunna but pelli kuda no antaru ani ippude telisindi...Just wanted to share...Manushulu anni rakalu ani hence proved.

 

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Felt bad and just thought to share...dont know why :(

Cinema lo ne anukuna... ilanti vaalu bhayata kuda untara....

vaadu Mech chesara....leka MBA finance chesada.... intha planing undi... 

[Diana]

same goes with the Girls who expect money from boys  :police:

 

boys are supposed to take her responsibility after marriage so girl n her parents will obviously think abt his capability of earning!

I dont see any wrong abt it..

[ICANWIN]

Your first paragraph man

 

"Ma cousin ki oka match came through relatives..a abbayi chudadaniki avg and is on H1 and earning around 75k in core side. Ammayi in IT earns around 110k studied from better school than abbayi and actually good looking than guy. Abbayiki 1 yr nunchi GC in process ammayi ki 3 yrs nunchi undi process. Abbayi did MS in Core side and ammayi in CS. Adi basic ga both profiles."

 

You guys already started comparing

all that guy did was he took one more step ahead of you guys anthe

 

 

Practically ammayini ichedappudu vadu ammayini poshinchali and oka stability undali ani expect cheyadam common man...Initally ego probs vastayemo ani alochincham but we thought to go ahead with marriage and infact parents convicned her also money IT NON IT doesnt matter ani...adi nenu vadu ala behave chesadu ani rasanu pelli proceed ayite who will talk that man..

 

Btw compare chesindi nenu not my family

[ICANWIN]

Cinema lo ne anukuna... ilanti vaalu bhayata kuda untara....

vaadu Mech chesara....leka MBA finance chesada.... intha planing undi... 

 

all types of people exist man...but its surprising as listening for 1st time

[ICANWIN]

your sister is luckiest man 

 

Don't feel bad or cry?

What if she doesn't have those credits and marry him ..and t'row unfortunately some other financial problem then imagine this stupid fellow how he will behave 

 

My personal feeling she is very lucky 

 

Don't keep this in mind ....just forget it ..definitely she will get better match

 

Agreed

[maximummax]

boys are supposed to take her responsibility after marriage so girl n her parents will obviously think abt his capability of earning!

I dont see any wrong abt it..

equality/equal rights marichipovaya?

[siru]

boys are supposed to take her responsibility after marriage so girl n her parents will obviously think abt his capability of earning!

I dont see any wrong abt it..

so basically what you are saying is that  A boy/Husband should take care of Girl financially. But expecting the same from a Girl is considered foolish.

 

Wow that's some logic. I thought Wife & Husband are equal.

[Diana]

equality/equal rights marichipovaya?

 

marchipoledu ..equality ante boy earn cheyagalige capability undi marriage ayaka earn cheyaleni position vaste girl help cheyadam..
 

[siru]

Practically ammayini ichedappudu vadu ammayini poshinchali and oka stability undali ani expect cheyadam common man...Initally ego probs vastayemo ani alochincham but we thought to go ahead with marriage and infact parents convicned her also money IT NON IT doesnt matter ani...adi nenu vadu ala behave chesadu ani rasanu pelli proceed ayite who will talk that man..

 

Btw compare chesindi nenu not my family

 

Bhayya nuvvu prati sari Non-IT ante edo lowe class people laga cheppaku bhayya..

I am Non-it and Mechanical Engg to be specific....Naa manobhavalu debba tinnayi

[Diana]

so basically what you are saying is that  A boy/Husband should take care of Girl financially. But expecting the same from a Girl is considered foolish.

 

Wow that's some logic. I thought Wife & Husband are equal.

 

you should redefine your equality definition !
 

[ICANWIN]

so basically what you are saying is that  A boy/Husband should take care of Girl financially. But expecting the same from a Girl is considered foolish.

 

Wow that's some logic. I thought Wife & Husband are equal.

Expecting is okay man but based on it pelli chesukovadam is way too much ani my thought. AMmayi ayina abbayi ayina money shouldnt be the most imp thing for marriage

[maximummax]

marchipoledu ..equality ante boy earn cheyagalige capability undi marriage ayaka earn cheyaleni position vaste girl help cheyadam..
 

When can a girl pay/take care?

Only if she has a job. other wise she cannot

so that guy is making sure the same thing

[siru]

you should redefine your equality definition !
 

 

Ok..Desi gril Logics and expectations itlane vuntayi... Whatever..I dont care.

[ICANWIN]

Bhayya nuvvu prati sari Non-IT ante edo lowe class people laga cheppaku bhayya..

I am Non-it and Mechanical Engg to be specific....Naa manobhavalu debba tinnayi

 

 

Nenu ala analedu dude may be u felt that way...i am sorry if that sounds so...ala anukunte memu enduku proceed avutam ?nenu btech electrical man 

[siru]

Expecting is okay man but based on it pelli chesukovadam is way too much ani my thought. AMmayi ayina abbayi ayina money shouldnt be the most imp thing for marriage

 

I agree..But naa post mee sister ki jariginadaniki ivvaledu..It is a response to Diana.