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7 minutes ago, betapilli said:

Your wife is not motivated, there is nothing you can do about it. Don't force her to do what she doesn't want. 

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41 minutes ago, abulu said:

She has H4 EAD, Are entha chepina vinadhe Job cheyamante  a pakintollu na friends evaru cheytledu 

why should I hard work antadi. 

Dreams of buying abig house for her, na jebulo chilli gavva ledu ,

katnam koda tesukoledu versha lingam panthulaga. Ipudu dabu ki kata kata avuthunte dabbu value telusthundi. 

Her main concern is kids are young, oneis 2 years ony , so she want to keep her memories with her anta. 

I told you cna drop in day care no this is carona time, so cant drop anta. Nakemi cheyalo ardam kavatledu. e samsara sagaram edatam ante mamulu vishyam kadu. 

ps: Job change ekuva salary advice vadu, ikada job bane vundi except salary.

 

Nuvvu pelli mundu clear ga convey chesava, you want an working wife ani? 

 

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36 minutes ago, InSearch said:

bro fake post ayite navvuko, ledante here are my 2 cents:

1. You are in a far better situation than many others.

2. You do not know the problems that come with working wife. 

3. Do not change job for higher salary if you are happy currently

chala mandi both working families, valla issues choosina bhayya, not worth it. Don't compare yourself with others and live with what you have. 

Santrupti thone santhosham

Problems anevi ye daari enchukunna vuntaayi.... You choose your path based on your priorities. TS priorities seems to be different than yours.

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46 minutes ago, abulu said:

She has H4 EAD, Are entha chepina vinadhe Job cheyamante  a pakintollu na friends evaru cheytledu 

why should I hard work antadi. 

Dreams of buying abig house for her, na jebulo chilli gavva ledu ,

katnam koda tesukoledu versha lingam panthulaga. Ipudu dabu ki kata kata avuthunte dabbu value telusthundi. 

Her main concern is kids are young, oneis 2 years ony , so she want to keep her memories with her anta. 

I told you cna drop in day care no this is carona time, so cant drop anta. Nakemi cheyalo ardam kavatledu. e samsara sagaram edatam ante mamulu vishyam kadu. 

ps: Job change ekuva salary advice vadu, ikada job bane vundi except salary.

 

May be she is scared of work. 

 

Job ready ga undhi vellamante velladam ledu annatlu chebutunnavu.

 

First steps first, ask her what she is more worried about w.r.t work and then try to get rid of that aspect completely. 

 

One step at a time 

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47 minutes ago, kitkat said:

bhayya, she is right. mee child ki 5 ,6yrs vache varaku u forget about her working....unna danitho saripettu

carona time lo daycare risky. I have elder sister, she works...she told me few times that women thinking, dynamics totally change after childbirth process, her priority is her child anta.. do NOT count on wife/women income (my sis suggestion edi to me). 

you give your wife couple more yrs. kid peddaga ayyaka vadi expenses kosam she sure will think of job

 

Kid ni chusukunta antey fine kaani illu konaali trips veyyali antey ney kaaluthundhi anta ts unnadantho adjust avvakunda 

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1 hour ago, abulu said:

She has H4 EAD, Are entha chepina vinadhe Job cheyamante  a pakintollu na friends evaru cheytledu 

 
 

 

why should I hard work antadi. 

 
 

 

Dreams of buying abig house for her, na jebulo chilli gavva ledu ,

katnam koda tesukoledu versha lingam panthulaga. Ipudu dabu ki kata kata avuthunte dabbu value telusthundi. 

Her main concern is kids are young, oneis 2 years ony , so she want to keep her memories with her anta. 

I told you cna drop in day care no this is carona time, so cant drop anta. Nakemi cheyalo ardam kavatledu. e samsara sagaram edatam ante mamulu vishyam kadu. 

ps: Job change ekuva salary advice vadu, ikada job bane vundi except salary.

 

inka divorce icheyyi. ayipotadi kada..appudu aame koasm pedda illu konadam anukovu, dabbu ki kodava vundadu.. simple kada...

 

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1 hour ago, abulu said:

She has H4 EAD, Are entha chepina vinadhe Job cheyamante  a pakintollu na friends evaru cheytledu 

why should I hard work antadi. 

Dreams of buying abig house for her, na jebulo chilli gavva ledu ,

katnam koda tesukoledu versha lingam panthulaga. Ipudu dabu ki kata kata avuthunte dabbu value telusthundi. 

Her main concern is kids are young, oneis 2 years ony , so she want to keep her memories with her anta. 

I told you cna drop in day care no this is carona time, so cant drop anta. Nakemi cheyalo ardam kavatledu. e samsara sagaram edatam ante mamulu vishyam kadu. 

ps: Job change ekuva salary advice vadu, ikada job bane vundi except salary.

 

My wife is complete opposite. She wants to be an independent in terms of money. She hesitate to ask money and I understood her shyness and gave her a credit card, but she never purchase anything without asking me.

Ma company lo na GC application ki full time tisukuntunaru.. she is pissed off the slowness in the process. She did part time until she was 9 months pregnant and staying at home now due to covid and small kid. I clearly see in her eyes that she wanted to go out or do something to be financially independent.

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23 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

My wife is complete opposite. She wants to be an independent in terms of money. She hesitate to ask money and I understood her shyness and gave her a credit card, but she never purchase anything without asking me.

Ma company lo na GC application ki full time tisukuntunaru.. she is pissed off the slowness in the process. She did part time until she was 9 months pregnant and staying at home now due to covid and small kid. I clearly see in her eyes that she wanted to go out or do something to be financially independent.

You chose well dear friend. 

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1 hour ago, kakatiya said:

Yes.vlogs tho google adsense income best.

 

Hello welcome to my youtube channel ivala avacado pachadi chedamu.. idhi ma kitchen ma illu 9 crores

 

CITI_c$y Avacado pachadi is nothing but guacamole kada

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