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2 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Uncle has a crush on her and is scared to text and see a negative most likely. 

Illusion kanna reality is better anyway .  At least can be clear in mind and move on . Positive ayite even better can be happy .

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11 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

I am bursting your theory of gender pay gap. If women are cheaper and more talented then organizations wouldn’t need men at all. It doesn’t take much to train them too. So what is it then that there is gender pay gap or that women are less talented? It is an either/or situation. 

Women in general cannot be less talented like you say, I mean clearly there are better women than TS career wise. There are better women than you, if they don't choose you, it's because there are better men than you out there. 

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2 minutes ago, betapilli said:

There are better women than you, if they don't choose you, it's because there are better men than you out there. 

So women are practicing hypergamy then. 🙂

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3 hours ago, Ellen said:

If you are going for arranged marriage, ask your parents to look for you. They definitely know better - which family is compatible etc ani. Family upbringing batti ammailu untaru. Don't make preliminary choices on your own. You can filter from your parents choices. Na life nak telsu lanti apohalu oddu, especially if you did not date before. Because if you really knew, you would not be in this game.  And family compatibility highly matters. 

family compatibility is must in arranged even in love also.. 

about red highlighted.. parents meeda 100% bharam vesthe biggest flower avadam khayam :) .. parents edo convince chestaru but one should know what he wants and should have guts to say NO to even 10 relatives, parents incl. if he/she is not interested. 

final ga .. if you like something doesn't mean it's good for you. 

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Just now, DummyVariable said:

If women are choosing superior men, how can it be men practicing hypergamy?

Hypergamy is the act of marrying someone of a superior social and educational background. If a man had a choice between two women, one not as well educated as the other, and both the women are willing to marry him, then he will pick the one with a superior educational background. 

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3 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

Ammayilu personality choosi oppukorantava baa..

one better be in dating game.. if arranged marriage ki vachaka rules and arena will be entirely different.. telugu love movie concepts won't work..

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5 minutes ago, betapilli said:

Hypergamy is the act of marrying someone of a superior social and educational background. If a man had a choice between two women, one not as well educated as the other, and both the women are willing to marry him, then he will pick the one with a superior educational background. 

So clearly women are doing it because as you say they are the ones making the choice and choosing better men. So men are not the ones marrying up.

16 minutes ago, betapilli said:

There are better women than you, if they don't choose you, it's because there are better men than you out there. 

 

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The moment she knows that you think she is good looking and you rate yourself an average looking guy, you are out of her league in her opinion. 

If you want to be considered, talk to her like any other girl and believe that it is her loss if she doesn’t want you.  Good luck. 

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29 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

So clearly women are doing it because as you say they are the ones making the choice and choosing better men. So men are not the ones marrying up.

 

I am sure they will marry up if women don't marry up. The reason they are not marrying up, is because women are not marrying down since they've more choice. Men don't have as much of choice, so they are forced to marry down. 

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37 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

So clearly women are doing it because as you say they are the ones making the choice and choosing better men. So men are not the ones marrying up.

 

My husband says that neither of us married up, both of us married down. 

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6 hours ago, jajjanaka_jandri said:

Hi all,

Matrimony lo oka papa ni choosa, age gap 4 years undi, papa is looking good and works for amazon (FT), from Hyd.

Ika mana vishayaniki osthey, looks wise average but body wise good, contract job, from small town.

 

kaka pothey extra curricular activities ekkuve, like i play tennis, guitar, meditate and super disciplined. Can talk to anyone about most of the things. Matrimony vallu vaadaru ankunta, she didnt respond, but number undi. Is it ok to text her and ask to meet? asala chance undi antara?

Nuv text chey firstu.... Tarvtha em cheyalo mem cheptham

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